Anjing found her boyfriend again, a doctor at National Taiwan University Hospital. At that time, Anjing was already studying at National Chengchi University. Her boyfriend accompanied her to the Taipei Institute of Sexology and found a teacher. With the help of this teacher, Anjing
I finally returned to normal and began to truly appreciate the joy of men and women and the pleasure of sex.
During her treatment, Anjing came into contact with many people like her who had various sexual disorders for one reason or another. The number of people was far beyond her imagination. These people were usually buried in the crowd.
They silently endure the pain of sexlessness, and some endure sexual violence.
Jing Jing wanted to help these people, so she gave up her studies at National Chengchi University and studied at the Taipei Institute of Sexology. The Taipei Institute of Sexology is not a formal scientific research institution. She studied there and didn't even have a formal diploma.
No, but she thinks it doesn't matter. Compared with a diploma, being able to help others is more meaningful.
The level of sexology research at the Taipei Institute of Sexology, including the entire sexology research in Taiwan, is still relatively low, and cannot be compared with countries in Europe and the United States where sexology research is developed. In order to improve her level, Anjing decided to study at the University of South Carolina in the United States.
When she finished her studies and returned to Taipei, her boyfriend from the National Taiwan University Hospital had already found a new love, and the two broke up peacefully. An Anjing returned to the Taipei Institute of Sexology and continued to work for a year. Their Taipei Institute of Sexology and
Continental societies have academic exchanges.
Abroad, sex therapists are as common a profession as psychological counselors. In the United States, there are 30,000 officially registered sex therapists. But in China, this profession is still in a gray area. Sex therapists are still
Not officially recognized by the health department and labor department.
In 2007, the Chinese Sexology Society, Peking University School of Medicine, and the School of Clinical Sexology at Marmoray University in the United States held the "China's First Sex Therapist Training Course" in Shenzhen, hoping to promote the promotion of sexual medicine across the country, but it was difficult to do so.
After the first training class, there is no follow-up.
There are currently officially listed sex clinics in the country, only Peking University Medical School and Guangzhou Sun Yat-sen University School of Medicine. The sex clinics in many other hospitals can only be sidelined, affiliated to psychological diagnosis and treatment, or even directly transferred to urology and infertility departments.
.Including the general public, they also feel that if it is not to treat infertility, who would go for the so-called sexual diagnosis and treatment.
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Some experienced sex therapists, because they do not have formal professional recognition, can only hold the title of psychological counselors, and many even can only practice in the name of nurses or even caregivers.
In recent years, some sex therapists who have returned from abroad, as well as those from Hong Kong and Taiwan, have carried out diagnosis and treatment activities in the mainland, but this...
"We are very, very careful." Jing Jing and Sheng Chuncheng said, "We can only exist in the name of a studio. During the actual diagnosis and treatment process, the contact with patients with sweating is reduced to the minimum. We will never set an example.
We just teach them the methods and let the patients and couples try it on their own. Including the men and women who come for treatment, we must first confirm that they are legal couples...
"Also, this is why I want to seek your cooperation to help patients by turning skin-to-skin contact into normal medical sweat massage. This is all to avoid unnecessary trouble."
Anjing told Sheng Chuncheng that the reason why she came to the mainland and to Hangzhou was because a friend introduced her to Lin Shuwan. Lin Shuwan knew many people here in Hangzhou, and she also encouraged Anjing to come to the mainland and engage in this field.
Work, I think it is something that many people need and can help many people.
Jing Jing came over because of this, "Mainland is not very concerned about connections. Sister Shuwan has a lot of connections here. When I came, she helped me set up this studio. If I encounter anything, she can also help me. Right
?」
Jing Jing asked Sheng Chuncheng.
Sheng Chuncheng nodded, he felt it was right. With Lin Shuwan's help, Anjing's stay in Hangzhou could indeed reduce a lot of unnecessary troubles. It could be said that Lin Shuwan, a fellow villager, could and had the ability to become Anjing's backer.
Sheng Chuncheng also understood. No wonder there was no nameplate at the door of Quiet Studio, only a symbolic bouquet of roses.
red.
"We don't dare to publicize it at all. All our patients rely on word of mouth among patients." Jing Jing smiled and said, "That's it. There are still many patients coming in every day, with sexual problems and sweating disorders.
There are more people than we imagined. You must know that the people who can come to us now are those who dare to face their own problems and want to seek help.
"There are many more people who actually have this problem, but they are ashamed to speak out about it. They feel that it would be very embarrassing if they admit that they have problems in this area and come to see sexual problems.
"I have seen many such patients. In the beginning, it was actually just a small physical defect. Some were even due to lack of sexual knowledge. As long as they seek help in time, the problem can be solved quickly. But because they dare not cross
Taking this step will eventually turn the physiological problem into a dual problem of physical and psychological problems.
"Sometimes, I also feel very confused. Obviously everyone is pursuing sexual happiness and enjoying it, but why, it seems that there must be something like shackles to lock oneself up. Is it wrong to pursue happiness? It's normal and reasonable.
Isn’t legal sexual pleasure something that should be promoted?
"It's funny. The current situation is that, for example, everyone is embarrassed to talk about the normal sex life between couples. They feel it is embarrassing to talk about it, and they will not openly promote this kind of sexual happiness that can promote the relationship between husband and wife. But those
Everyone was very interested in the messy adult life, Bao Xiaosan looking for escorts and so on.
"I know that many mainland men are in a relationship with other men. They don't think it's embarrassing whether they have an affair or have sex. Instead, they brag and compare with each other to see who knows the right girl.
, who has more affairs, right?"
Sheng Chuncheng laughed and said:
"I really don't know much about this, but I have heard of this situation. Including in some groups, everyone seems to like to brag about each other. In a dating group, group friends with the same girl,
When everyone chatted privately, they were talking about when did you sleep with her, when did I sleep with her, and you don’t think it is a shame to be ranked among the first, second, and third brothers.”….
"No, this is very abnormal behavior."
Jing Jing shook her head and said firmly to Sheng Chuncheng:
"Society as a whole has a lack of normal sex education and sexual medicine, so this phenomenon will occur. Including mainland China, I have seen people who like to promote civilized families and the evaluation of five good families. This is true, but it is all about morality.
The education and preaching in this regard actually ignores the most fundamental issues and forgets that sexual relations are the foundation of the relationship between husband and wife.
"The relationship between husband and wife is the foundation of family relationship. A family must be civilized and harmonious. How can it be possible without a healthy sexual relationship? This is supported by scientific data. A couple with a harmonious sexual life will have a good relationship in bed.
Okay, their relationship outside the bed will basically be very good. Even if there are some conflicts, they will resolve them quickly. If they really quarrel at the head of the bed, they will make peace at the end of the bed.
"You see two people coming in. They are holding hands and their movements are very intimate. No need to ask, their sex life must be very harmonious. Many couples who come to us are like this. They don't have any sexual problems, but
I want to pursue higher quality.
"Especially for some middle-aged couples, due to physiological reasons and gender differences, the men still have strong needs in this aspect, but the women have gradually become cold and less interested in this aspect. They come to me.
, I told them that this is a normal phenomenon, and at this time, as long as both parties make changes, it will be fine.
"In terms of women, it's not that their needs have decreased, but that they feel tired and numb every time they do this, the same sex and postures, and are embarrassed to say it. In comparison, women have higher requirements for sex.
Being more sensitive, they have more emotional needs during sexual activities.
"At this time, I taught them how to recognize the problem, taught them new methods, and let them try it. When I came back for the second time, the problem was solved, and they thanked me again and again. How can such a couple's relationship be like that?
Maybe it's not good? If their relationship is good, how could it not have a big impact on the relationship between family members?
"I said before that couples who have a harmonious sexual life must have a good relationship with each other.
But there are also many couples who used to have a good relationship, but because of the disharmony in their sex life, both parties become more and more cold. When I encounter this, I want to help them and solve their bed problems, which is solved.
Problems under their bed.
"I am really happy to see them reconcile and love each other as before. I feel that it is worthwhile for me to engage in this industry. This is why I decided to study sexual medicine in the first place. It will help many, many people like me.
The original intentions of people who have experienced sexual disorders.”.
