"Let's talk, Mr. Sheng, we are only halfway through the topic we just talked about, right?" Jing Jing looked at Sheng Chuncheng and asked.
Sheng Chuncheng was caught off guard and was a little flustered. He had an idea in his mind, but he still asked: "What topic?"
Jing Jing smiled slightly: "As you just said, that friend of yours is actually you, right?"
Sheng Chuncheng blushed. It turned out that Anjing was in the office in front of him. It was not that he had no intention of listening anymore, but that he intentionally interrupted the conversation between them.
This is her skill in talking to patients. When she discovers that the other person is trying his best to hide something, it is meaningless to continue such a conversation. She must interrupt it in time and not let the other person fall into the quagmire of lies. Otherwise, he will sink deeper and deeper into lies.
It's so deep that it's even more difficult to get out.
Professional training also makes it impossible for her to tell the other party directly that you are lying. Instead, she must avoid other topics like she does now, and then come back in a roundabout way when the time is right.
Including her confession to the other party, which should be the most embarrassing thing for her, such as being raped, she can speak it out in a calm tone. In this way, the other party can completely let down his guard and tell her the same candidly.
, the secrets hidden deep in one’s heart.
In their profession, if they cannot grasp the true situation of the patient, they will make errors in judgment, and the entire plan they design will be completely wrong in the end because of the slightest difference at the beginning, and it will be impossible to achieve the therapeutic effect.
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When Jing Jing spoke to him, her tone was calm, as if she had led him into a garden of language, where the sun was warm and there were no shadows. Everything was so natural and real. Such an atmosphere gave Sheng Chuncheng the desire to talk.
, I have the desire to open myself up and be honest with myself.
So when Jing Jing asked him, he felt that he had no way not to be honest with her, no way to hide it anymore.
Sheng Chuncheng looked at Anjing, who was also looking at him. Anjing said:
"Mr. Sheng, don't forget, I am a therapist. I have no acquaintances or friends here, only people who need help. Even if we don't sign a confidentiality contract, what you say to me is like sweating.
The tree hole is the same thing, you know the tree hole, right?"
Sheng Chuncheng nodded.
"I am just a human-shaped tree hole. Here, there is no right or wrong, and no moral judgment of right or wrong, whether you are a saint or a rapist..."
Jing Jing looked at Sheng Chuncheng, was silent for a while, and continued:
"Forget Khan, you said that the man who raped me had cognitive impairment. He later became my patient and I cured him."
Sheng Chuncheng looked at An Jing and stopped talking.
"It's hard to understand, isn't it?" Jing Jing said and sighed, "When Zaihan and he sit face to face, our relationship is not that of victims and perpetrators, but that of patient and therapist. Hey, don't tell me.
I will tell you again when I have the opportunity. If this story is filmed, it will be another "The Distance Between Us and Evil"."
Jing Jing raised the glass with a smile. Sheng Chuncheng also raised it, clinked it with her, and drank the wine. However, he still did not have the courage to look directly at Jing Jing.
"Am I right, Mr. Sheng?" Jing Jing asked.
Sheng Chuncheng nodded, he said yes, the friend I mentioned was indeed myself.
Jing Jing stretched out her hand and held Sheng Chuncheng's hand. Jing Jing's hand was cool and soft. She squeezed Sheng Chuncheng's hand gently and said to him:
"It doesn't matter. In fact, each of us is a patient. We all have problems like sweating and that. It doesn't matter, okay?"
Sheng Chuncheng nodded.
Jing Jing straightened up slightly and made a gesture of preparing to listen carefully. Sheng Chuncheng began to talk. He started from A Qiang's studio and finally talked about last night when Shanshan came to see him and what happened next.
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"Has this happened to you when you were with other girls?" Jing Jing asked.
Sheng Chuncheng shook his head and said no.
"What do you think they were like when they were together?" Jing Jing asked next.
Sheng Chuncheng told her that when he and Ding Huamei were together, Ding Huamei rode on top of him and drove for more than half an hour. She was still strong, and Ding Huamei cursed because of exhaustion. He also talked about himself and Yanyan.
When they are together, they can have fun again and again in one night, which feels wonderful.
The conversation started, and Sheng Chuncheng had the desire to talk. He even told Jing Jing, because at that time, he often needed to go to the opposite sex to provide services, and he had frequent physical contact with them. In order to avoid embarrassment, he made himself insensitive.
, he usually listens to women's moans and rubs sensitive parts with linen cloth to make himself dull.
Jing Jing nodded and said, yes, when we encounter very sensitive patients, we will also give suggestions and similar methods to help them reduce their sensitivity. Mr. Sheng, you are self-taught.
Sheng Chuncheng couldn't help but laugh.
"Do you love her, this girl, Shanshan?" Jing Jing asked.
Sheng Chuncheng was stunned for a moment, lowered his head and thought carefully for a while. He felt that if he asked himself quietly whether he loved Yanyan, Sun Hong and Xueer, he would tell her that he loved her without hesitation, even though he loved her a little.
Much more, but this is how he feels about them in his heart. He can feel his love for them and can also express it.
But if it's Shanshan, Sheng Chuncheng said: "It's hard to say, I don't even understand it very well."
"That means I don't love you anymore. Love is very simple, you can blurt it out, and this feeling is very direct." Jing Jing said, "But this girl is very beautiful, and it is difficult for you not to be attracted to her, so when she is with you,
, and she is very proactive. When you are not under pressure from other aspects, there is no way to refuse her, right?"
Sheng Chuncheng nodded and said yes, he muttered: "He is a man, it seems he can't refuse."
"But you are still under pressure and feel that it is not good for you to have sex with her. Subconsciously, you are actually rejecting such a relationship between you, so when you have sex, as long as there is a little interference from other factors,
It will cause you to ejaculate prematurely."
Jing Jing said: "Your sensitivity actually comes from your inner fear, fear of being discovered, feeling sorry for someone, etc. For example, the painter A Qiang you mentioned, subconsciously, you will feel that he is like this now.
What happened to you was because you had sex with Han Shanshan.
"This is just a psychological reason for you. It's easy to overcome, but..."
Jing Jing looked at Sheng Chuncheng and told him word for word: "I don't think it's necessary."
"Why?" Sheng Chuncheng asked.
"She will still come to you, and you won't be able to control your desire to have sex with her. Don't lie to yourself. The body is very honest, and you will definitely not be able to control it." Jing Jing said, "If this is the case, there will be no happy sex, right?
For you, this will be a good thing. You will become more and more repelled by her, and she will become less and less interested in you.
"Your relationship will end quietly after two or three times. Isn't this the best outcome for you?" Jing Jing said, "For two people who love each other, happy sex is the glue, and for two people who love each other, happy sex is the glue.
For a person without love, happy sex will turn into a drug and an anesthetic, and if you get stuck in it, you will eventually be out of control."
Jing Jing sighed as she spoke. She looked at Sheng Chuncheng and smiled bitterly: "This is probably another paradox."
"What?"
"You didn't know what was going on with you Han Shanshan. When you have sex again, you will be more nervous and want to perform better and prove that you are not a useless man. The result will only be worse. But now,
Once you understand what's going on, it's like turning on a switch so that you can see clearly. When you have sex again, the result may be different."
Jing Jing looked at Sheng Chuncheng and continued: "I don't even know if I am helping you or hurting you by telling you this."