At around two o'clock in the afternoon, Mr. Lan drove up in his car. Sheng Chuncheng saw it in the store and hurried out to greet him.
Mr. Lan parked his car in the temporary parking space in front of the store and got out of the car.
Sheng Chuncheng said to her: "My friend's studio is in Guangli Building. It's a little walk away. Can you bear it, Sister Lan? If possible, we can walk there."
Mr. Lan said: "No problem. I walk every day. This little distance is nothing. Let's walk."
The two of them walked over. Along the way, Sheng Chuncheng paid close attention to observation. He found that Mr. Lan's breath was very stable and she was in high spirits. It was obvious that her physical condition was indeed much better now. Sheng Chuncheng was relieved and felt happy for Mr. Lan.
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The two of them crossed the pedestrian bridge and arrived at Guangli Building. They went upstairs and walked to the door of the quiet studio. Sheng Chuncheng rang the doorbell and opened the door for them. It was the girl who already knew Sheng Chuncheng. She laughed.
and said to him:
"Mr. Sheng, are you here? Just in time, Dr. An has no patients now."
She led Sheng Chuncheng and Mr. Lan to Anjing's open office door, stretched out her hand and tapped on the door. Anjing raised her head, saw Sheng Chuncheng and Mr. Lan, and stood up.
The girl smiled and nodded to Mr. Sheng Chuncheng Lan, and left. Sheng Chuncheng and Mr. Lan walked in and were greeted by An Jing. Sheng Chuncheng introduced them to them:
"This is Quiet, from Taiwan..."
Sheng Chuncheng hesitated, not knowing how to introduce Jing Jing's identity. Jing Jing smiled and said calmly:
"Sex therapist."
As she spoke, she stretched out her hand towards Mr. Lan, who held her hand.
Sheng Chuncheng and Anjing said, "This is Sister Lan."
Jing Jing didn't understand very well. He looked at Sheng Chuncheng and Sheng Chuncheng explained: "Lanzhou's orchid."
Jing Jing understood and laughed: "Sister Lan, our last names are a bit special."
Mr. Lan also smiled, she was right.
Anjing asked them to sit on the sofa. The three of them walked over. Mr. Lan and Anjing sat down. Sheng Chuncheng felt it was not very convenient and wanted to leave. Anjing looked at him and said to him:
"Mr. Sheng, let's come together. I still need your cooperation. Sister Lan, can you?"
In the second half of the sentence, Anjing turned to Mr. Lan, who said yes, yes, we are so familiar with it, there is nothing we cannot know.
Sheng Chuncheng's face turned slightly red and he sat down.
The girl brought tea to Sheng Chuncheng and Mr. Lan, and closed the door when she went out.
Jing Jing took an iPad and asked while taking notes. She asked very carefully, when Mr. Cong Lan had the surgery, where it was done, when did he start chemotherapy, how many times did he have chemotherapy, and when was the last time?
Already.
Mr. Lan was also very attentive. She brought her medical records and all the examination reports and laboratory test sheets and gave them to Anjing. Anjing looked at each one carefully. After reading it, she said to Mr. Lan:
"Sister Lan, do you need your husband to come with you?"
Mr. Lan blushed slightly and said, "Just tell me, it's not very convenient for him."
After saying that, he glanced at Sheng Chuncheng, but Sheng Chuncheng did not say anything.
"Okay, Sister Lan." Jing Jing said, "I have reviewed your situation. The last chemotherapy was two months ago. In more than a week, it will be three months. Judging from your postoperative examination report,
Look, the recovery is going very well, and all indicators are very good.
"Based on your situation, my suggestion is that you can start relevant training from now on, and after three months, you can start a moderate amount of sex life. This will be helpful for your further recovery and prevention of vaginal adhesion.
There are benefits.”
Mr. Lan asked: "Can I really resume my sex life?"
"Of course." Jing Jing said, "And we will also suggest that this time should not be pushed back too late. The later it is, the less beneficial it will be for you to restore your sexual ability. On the other hand, the cervix I contacted
Cancer patients are basically in a sexless marriage, which is actually very detrimental to her and her family.
"The longer the time goes by, the greater the psychological pressure on the patient. She feels that she is incomplete and incomplete. Whether at home or in society, she is prone to an inferiority complex, easy to give up on herself, and in severe cases, she will suffer from this
, suffering from depression. It can be said that she had just been cured of one disease and then contracted another disease. She couldn't tell which state was better.
“But in fact, cervical cancer patients can have a normal sex life and enjoy sexual pleasure. They can still be healthy, beautiful and confident women.
"I have met several cervical cancer patients. After treatment, they are now in good condition and their families are harmonious. The husband and wife do not feel that there is any difference between them. Sister Lan, be brave and be more confident.
, okay? I will help you get out of your sexless life.
"Everyone knows that a sexless life is gloomy. Especially for us women, a long-term sexless life will bring about many functional changes, sweat lesions, and many diseases. At the same time, skin color will also change.
I feel so dull, no matter how much cosmetics I use, it won’t help.”
Mr. Lan looked at Sheng Chuncheng, who nodded.
Jing Jing continued: "The main reason why a large proportion of cervical cancer patients live asexual lives is because there are several misunderstandings. This is what I originally wanted Sister Lan and Mr. Lan to come with me so that he can also understand.
reason."
Mr. Lan pursed her lips and said, "Just tell me and I can pass it on."
"Okay, Sister Lan."
Jing Jing nodded, looked at Mr. Lan and said:
"There are three main misunderstandings, which are the reasons why most cervical cancer patients do not have sex. First, many patients' husbands are afraid. They worry about whether they will be infected if they have sex with the patients. This is actually
No, it has long been proven medically that patients will not pass cancer cells to each other through close contact.
“Second, this is what most patients worry about. They worry that having sex will cause their disease to recur. In fact, the depth of cervical infiltration, clinical stage, and pelvic lymph node metastasis are high-risk factors for postoperative recurrence of cervical cancer.
But sexual life will not be the cause of cancer recurrence. This concern can be completely dispelled.
"Third, it also comes from the concerns of the patients themselves. They feel that they have lost their female characteristics after having their uterus and ovaries removed, and they should no longer have sexual ability. There are also many patients who feel that they have needs in this regard.
It's shameful.
"Actually, this is completely wrong. After removing the uterus and ovaries, you only lose your reproductive function, but not your sexual ability. Because the removal of the ovaries will cause the secretion of estrogen to decrease, the desire for sex will decrease, but it does not
It doesn’t mean that you have even lost your sexual ability.
"Due to surgery, part of the vagina was removed. Due to radiotherapy and chemotherapy, it will cause vaginal adhesion, dryness, and even spasm. It will hurt during sexual intercourse, so I think I have no sexual ability. In fact, it is not. My sexual ability is poor.
Just like ability, it can also be cultivated. As long as you use the right method after surgery, your sexual ability can be completely restored.
"Surgery will reduce your sexual desire, but it will not destroy the sensitive areas of your sexual life. For example, the clitoris is still there, and the g-spot is still there. By constantly touching the clitoris and g-spot, plus vaginal dilation, it can prevent vaginal swelling.
Adhesions, exercise your pelvic floor muscles, your sexual ability can come back, and you can still enjoy the joy of sex."
