"My husband's surname is Ding. You must know that he is considered a figure in this city. Speaking of which, you must know him. It's not that he is great personally, but that their company is so famous. In such a famous company,
To achieve his position, it is impossible not to become famous and not be known by others."
The baby started talking, and Sheng Chuncheng continued to massage her, but because he wanted to listen to her talk, his hands were naturally lighter.
Baobao said: "Master Sheng, if you talk to me, I won't disturb your work, right?"
Sheng Chuncheng shook his head and said no, communicating with customers is also one of our jobs.
"Don't you think it's too verbose for me to say this?" the baby asked.
Sheng Chuncheng smiled and said: "Of course not. The more I know, the more I will know about you and why you are so thin."
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"I know." The baby said, "I know the reason why I am so thin. I can't sleep well at night. Even when I fall asleep, I have nightmares. I will be woken up soon. How can I not be thin?"
Sheng Chuncheng nodded and said, "Your loss of appetite is also caused by lack of sleep. Only when you eat well can you sleep well. Long-term lack of sleep will make you feel nauseous when you see greasy things..."
"Yes, that's what I am like, Master Sheng." Baobao said.
"This becomes a vicious cycle. Malnutrition will make you sleep less well, and sleep less well, which will also make you lose your appetite," Sheng Chuncheng said.
The baby hummed: "I know that's it."
"When did it start?" Sheng Chuncheng asked.
"Let's start from the time when we were pregnant with our second child. At that time, our family had moved from the United States to Hangzhou. When we were in the United States, we were still a happy family. I don't know, maybe my husband had it at that time.
I'm having an affair, but I don't know, I'm not very sensitive in this regard."
Sheng Chuncheng stopped talking. He knew that the baby's chat box had been opened and she needed to talk, so he waited for her to continue talking.
"When I was studying, the two of us were really, really good. Although at that time, we were both very poor and didn't have much money. I went to the United States at my own expense and had to rely on loans. He was sent by the mainland government and had no money.
what money.
"In our school, although everyone from Taiwan, mainland China, and Hong Kong are all Chinese, Chinese people don't usually hang out with Chinese people. They can hang out with Japanese, Indians, etc.
In the same circle, people from Mainland China, Taiwan and Hong Kong have their own circles and are unlikely to be together. In addition, my husband is two years older than me, so we are even less likely to be together.
"On New Year's Eve one year, a classmate of mine, whose parents are Taiwanese businessmen in the mainland, has been coming to the mainland frequently since he was a child. He is very familiar with the mainland. There is no barrier between him and his classmates in the mainland. On New Year's Eve that year, my classmate said he would go to the mainland.
Han's classmates from Mainland China were making dumplings together and asked me if I wanted to go with them. I was curious and had never made dumplings before, so I went along.
"It was at that time that I met my husband. He was already studying for a doctorate. He was very good and well-known among our students. After we met, he often asked me out and we became together. When I started to study for graduate school, he
I had already obtained my Ph.D., but instead of returning to China, I went to Google. He proposed to me, and I agreed.
"He is from mainland China and I am from Taiwan. Whether it is going to Taiwan to register for marriage or coming to mainland China, it is very troublesome. There are many procedures to go through. So we registered our marriage in Pasadena..."
"You are not Americans, can you register your marriage in the United States?" Sheng Chuncheng asked.
"Yes, it's very simple. We go to the marriage bureau in the city hall together. It's called the marriage bureau in translation. You can also apply online. However, it feels more like going to get married. We ran there alone.
"When I got there, I got a form, filled it out and handed it in. After about ten days, I received a notice and went to the city hall to pay the fee, and then I could get a marriage lise, which is a marriage certificate. To be more precise, it should be called
Marriage license.
"However, in the United States, after you get your marriage, it's not over yet. Within sixty days of getting your marriage, you have to bring your witnesses, relatives and friends to the city hall's marriage bureau again.
"In a small room, there are public officials presiding over a small ceremony for you. There are notaries present, a male and female witness, and several of our close classmates. We read it in front of everyone.
Say your vows, exchange rings, and then a public official will declare you legally husband and wife.
"Then we will be given a marriage certificate, which is a real, notarized marriage certificate. When it is over, we will become a legal couple.
"After getting married, I stayed in Pasadena, where Caltech is located, to continue studying for a Ph.D., and he went to Mountain View, where Google is located. One is in Los Angeles and the other is in San Francisco. The two places are more than 500 kilometers apart.
.
"But even though we are separated, we still have a good relationship. He will come to Pasadena whenever he has time, and I will go to Mountain View whenever school is on vacation. After I became pregnant, we
The two of them started to quarrel over whether to have this child. I was still studying for a doctorate at the time, and of course I didn't want it.
"But he wants it very much. He feels that his income can already support my children. Even if I drop out of school, with his income, we can live well in Mountain View. He has always insisted on having children.
Move out for any reason.
"It's funny. Their family is from a rural area in mainland China. He said to me that although the leeks at home can grow in one crop, only the first crop, which is the first time the leek grows, has red roots. They
It’s called red-skinned leeks. Red-skinned leeks are the most fragrant and delicious, and the same goes for people. The first child is the best of both of us. It has the best quality and is definitely the smartest.
"He said that by the second and third time, the quality of our sperm and eggs has declined, and even the genetic genes have begun to decay. At that time, the quality of the baby will definitely not be as good as the first one, but it doesn't matter, we just need to
With the first one, the first one will be able to take care of the following ones, so why is it said that the eldest brother is like the father? The eldest brother is of good quality and capable.
"You can say this kind of thing, do you think it's funny for a science and engineering major to talk nonsense like this? In fact, I know that the reason why he is becoming more and more insistent on having this child is because after we went to check, it was confirmed that he was pregnant with a boy.
, he said that both he and his father were the only boys in the family, which is called a single generation in your mainland parlance.
"He is just afraid that if he doesn't want this child, then there will be a girl. Every time we meet, we argue about whether we want this child. When it feels like we can hardly quarrel anymore, we suddenly stop arguing because
My belly was getting bigger day by day, and one day, I suddenly felt like the child in my belly was moving.
"Really, I was completely stunned at that time. It was an experience I had never experienced before. I remember that day in the laboratory, I stood there, tears suddenly flowed down, and my whole body was shaking.
Many people were frightened and didn’t know what happened. When they asked me, I said it was fine.
"That's when I suddenly changed my mind and realized that what I was carrying was not what we were arguing about. What we were arguing about had nothing to do with it. This was life, a living life that could move, and it was me.
My son, I am his mother, and I can give up everything for him.
"I was very ashamed because of this. I felt sorry for my son. I thought about not wanting him. I felt that I had such thoughts. It was really shameful. I was really sorry for my unborn son. So, I quickly made a decision to leave.
I went to school, left Pasadena, and went to Mountain View.
"I dropped out of school and was going to Mountain View, but I didn't even sweat it. My husband said he didn't know, but when I showed up in front of him with my luggage, he didn't know how happy he was. He hugged me and started crying. He was sweating.
He said that in this life, he will love me and our children."
