"Later, the boss of a company here in Hangzhou went to Mountain View in person to find him and ask him to return to China. He was persuaded and wanted to come back. He asked me, and I said I had no objection and let him make his own decision.
It depends on where to develop, which is more beneficial to him. I have returned home and been a full-time housewife for several years. What opinions do I have? It will be the same wherever I go.
"He thought about it for two days and felt that in the United States, there are not only Americans but also Indians. In a company, if a Chinese like him reaches the middle and senior levels, he has already reached the top and there is no possibility of further development.
"This is true. I also know that when Americans really have to make major decisions, they still discriminate against Chinese people and will not let Chinese people hold the most important positions in the company. Even if they hire Indians, they will not hire Chinese people.
In American technology companies, there is a circle of Indians who support each other but also exclude Chinese people.
"So we decided to come back and came back here. From every aspect, it can be said that this is the best choice and it is the right choice. After returning to Hangzhou, everything went smoothly for him and he got a job in their company.
, now this very important position has become one of the partners of the company, which is impossible in the United States.
"There is a saying that 'fullness and warmth lead to lust, while hunger and cold lead to stealing.' The second half of this sentence still makes sense. My friends in the United States sent me a lot of pictures. In their cities, supermarkets and stores are all
They robbed it and said it was a '0 yuan purchase'. Now, they don't dare to go out because of the epidemic and the economic downturn. There are too many poor people now and they have no sense of security.
"'Feeling warm and lustful' I don't agree with very much. I think lust is there to begin with, but when the stomach is not full, how can he care about it? All his thoughts are spent on stealing and how to make himself happy.
If you are full, you can't worry about sexual intercourse. After all, if you don't eat, you will die. If you don't eat enough, you will starve to death. If you don't engage in sexual intercourse, you won't die.
"After you have money, you generally have leisure. For people like my husband, the biggest change is that there is no pressure at work. In the United States, you have to compete with Indians and perform well in front of white people.
Well, when I come back here, there is no more. In terms of income, it can be said to be dozens or hundreds of times that of ordinary people. I am really rich and leisurely.
"In addition, there is one thing that cannot be compared with other places and the mainland, and it is not like this in the United States, that is, the social status of the rich is too high. Even in the United States, even in a completely capitalist society, the status of the rich is not
There are no bosses as high as they are in mainland China. No matter how big the boss is, he will be very restrained when he comes to school. When he sees the professor, he will be respectful.
"Those professors don't pay attention to rich people at all. They repair when they need to be repaired and scold when they need to be scolded. I saw in mainland China that when professors saw their bosses, they would nod and bow down. That way, I still feel
I can't stand it, really.
"Mainland TV stations and media also like to hire rich people. When hosts or announcers see them, they are as polite as if they were their own fathers. In the United States, rich people who want to be in the media have to spend money.
Money, the media invites rich people, they don’t have any good intentions, they are basically prepared to scold you and ridicule you.”
"In mainland China, it seems that as long as you are rich, everyone will fawn over you. Even old and ugly girls will crowd in on you. Isn't that right, Mr. Sheng?"
Sheng Chuncheng smiled and said, "Boys will also crowd around rich women."
"Really?" The baby also laughed, then his face sank again and he continued:
"That's it. After he came back, I could see that he had changed a lot. He seemed to be getting more and more arrogant and looked down upon others. This was also the case with the aunt at home. This aunt was the one we returned to.
Hangcheng, it was made at our home. When he first came back, when he came home, his aunt brought him shoes to change, and he would still say thank you, but now he can't.
"When I got outside, I heard that he also enjoyed his food very much, and his temper became louder at home. At first, I thought it was because he had a higher status and felt that he was great, so he didn't think about it in other directions. Later, one time,
At that time, I was already six months pregnant with our daughter.
"One day, he came back to take a shower and put his mobile phone on the bedside table. I sat on the bed and heard the phone ringing. I looked at it curiously and saw that it was a girl. I sent him a WeChat message. Even if I don't
Sensitive, after looking at the content, I knew what was going on. The WeChat message was 'Dear, are you home yet?'
"I picked up his phone and clicked on it. The words they said in the dialog box were so naked that I was embarrassed to say them. They were too embarrassing and shocking. I was shocked at the time. It seemed like
Suddenly, I saw another side of him."
"The person who sent him a WeChat message is a very famous Internet celebrity. With his position, many Internet celebrities and live broadcasters will beg him if they want good seats and good resources, so these people circle around him.
"Their conversation can be said to have completely revealed their relationship. I didn't even need to verify it. I thought about it for a while, then used his mobile phone to send a WeChat message back. I was so surprised that the other party said,
I am his wife. He went to take a shower. I saw the WeChat message you just sent. I clicked on it and I read all your conversations.
"After I sent this message, the other party probably panicked and didn't reply immediately. It took about five minutes before she came back and said, 'I'm sorry, I was wrong.' I thought about it and asked her, what are you going to do next?
what to do?
"She came back right away and said there would be no next time. She promised that my husband would cut off the relationship, that she would not destroy our family, and that I would forgive her. She said, you better think about it carefully and don't promise anything you can't do.
.She came back immediately and asked me to believe her, saying that she promised to do what she said, and she would be punished if she couldn't do it. She told me that I must believe her.
"I replied to her and said, okay, I believe you, there is no second time, I hope you have thought about it, if not, you don't need to reply to the message, you can remain silent.
"She said she had already thought about it and reassured me that even if my husband came to see her again, she would not ignore him. She did what she said and wished me happiness. I said okay, and I wish you happiness too.
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"I put down the phone and didn't even delete the conversation between me and her. I just wanted my husband to see it and let him know where to go.
"When he came back from the shower, I didn't say anything. I just turned sideways and pretended to be asleep. I could feel that he was sitting on the bed and looked at his phone for a while before going to sleep. He must have seen it.
I admired her conversation. I could feel that he seemed to hesitate for a moment, probably hesitating whether to say something to me, but in the end he said nothing and fell asleep.
"When I woke up the next day, my son Khan's aunt was there, and we all had breakfast together. I still didn't say anything, and he didn't say anything either. He just didn't dare to look at me. When I looked at him, he turned his head away and pretended
Didn't see me.
"When his son was about to leave, he rushed to say that he would send him to kindergarten. It was the first time he sent his son to kindergarten. Before that, he didn't even know where the kindergarten was. He followed the navigation to go there that day.
.Actually, I know, he just doesn’t dare to be alone with me.”