Lin Haoyu's words made netizens in the live broadcast room feel the same.
"For your own good, this is the sentence I heard most when I was a child. No matter I have any questions, my parents always use this sentence to dismiss me."
"My biggest dream when I was a child was to become an actor, but my parents always opposed it and always told me it was for your own good. Now that I have become an actor, and I am doing very well, I don't know if they regret it back then.
What you said."
"You have made good calculations and finally realized your dream. However, most people will always live in the shadow of their parents and live their lives according to the way their parents want."
"Isn't this what I'm talking about? I followed my parents' requirements to study the major they like and do the job they like, but I am not happy. I live in pain every day, but they don't know it and think I am
You must be living a happy life."
"For your own good, this sentence may be the biggest lie in the world, but it is just to satisfy my desire for control."
Everyone is complaining one after another.
At this time, Wan Manfen looked at Lin Haoyu with wide eyes, he was a little confused.
Why does brother Lin Haoyu say he hates this sentence the most?
Isn't it for her own good that my mother is so strict with herself?
Although I also want to be praised, but my mother says that what I have done is not good enough, then I have to work harder and strive to truly make my mother happy.
Even if I become increasingly unhappy and don't even want to live anymore, my mother is right. It's because I haven't done a good enough job that I'm living in such pain.
But what exactly does brother Lin Haoyu mean?
Wan's mother finally recovered from her shock.
He was also a little angry, how could Lin Haoyu accuse him like this, but thinking that he had not become a parent yet, he might still not understand his parents' hard conscience, so she explained patiently.
"The reason why I give Wan such full marks is because I hope that one day he will be as good as you. He is already in junior high school, and it will be too late if he doesn't work hard. And as far as I know, the university you graduated from is one of the top science and technology universities in Long Country.
"
Lin Haoyu sighed at Wan Manfen's mother's words.
"Full marks, Mom, since you think I am excellent, let me tell you my story. When I was a child, my grades were very poor and I was not interested in studying. But I am very fortunate that my parents are very open-minded and they never force me.
I will not reprimand me for my grades."
"But they would tell me a lot of truths, telling me that studying is my own business. Studying hard is not to get good grades and find a good job in the future, but to give myself more choices in the future, and mine
My parents are my role models, they are both leaders in their respective fields."
"I remember one time, I was ranked last in the class in an exam. I was very frustrated. Although I had poor grades, I was ranked last in the exam for the first time. I originally thought my parents would scold me for this, but I didn't expect them to see it.
I was so sad that he took me to have a big meal and comforted me that everyone makes mistakes, as long as we start, it's never too late."
"I really couldn't believe it at the time. My parents didn't beat or scold me, but comforted me. From then on, I decided that I would study hard. I couldn't let my parents down. I also wanted to be like my parents in the future.
That way I have more choices, and that’s how I am now.”
"If my parents had scolded me and belittled me at that time, with my grades at that time, I might have been in despair and it would have been impossible for me to counterattack. And the time I was ranked last in the class was in the first grade of junior high school. I never felt that I would be able to fight back.
It’s too late to start working hard in junior high school.”
"I am very grateful to my parents. They never said that I am only doing it for your own good. This is not true love at all, but kidnapping in the name of love."
Lin Haoyu's story made Wan Manfen's mother reveal an incredible expression on her face.
He checked Lin Haoyu's experience and found that he was very good from high school to college, and now he has become a nationally famous lawyer. He is simply someone else's child.
But she never thought that Lin Haoyu had such poor grades in the past, which simply subverted his three views.
Lin Haoyu's story directly moved netizens in the live broadcast room.
"No wonder Lin Haoyu is so good now and has such upright views."
"I'm so jealous. If I had parents like this, maybe I would be as good as Lin Haoyu now."
"Yes, it is simply a textbook for parents."
"If my parents could tell me that everyone makes mistakes, and as long as you work hard, it's never too late to start, I would never be like this."
"Look, look, these are the parents who really care about their children."
Teacher Li in the junior high school classroom was also full of shock at this time.
As an educator, hearing Lin Haoyu's story suddenly reminded her of her own experience.
When she was in college, she once had low self-esteem and was very depressed because she came from a rural area and was admitted to college with the top score in the school.
But when she got to college, she discovered that there were many people who were better than her, and they were also versatile. She knew nothing, was ugly and ugly, and her academic performance was only average.
Later, she met a very good mentor. The mentor saw her troubles and said to her.
"We study hard and struggle in order to see the bigger world, and then after seeing the bigger world, we know how to work hard next to see the bigger world, instead of being defeated. It's good that others are excellent.
But you are not bad either. You are motivated, diligent, capable of learning, and able to endure hardships. These are your advantages."
The instructor's words helped her get rid of her inner troubles, which allowed her to achieve today's results.
So she later determined to become an excellent educator like her mentor, although she was very patient with her students and often praised their progress.
But why can't we be so patient with our own children and see the advantages in her?
Aren't people like Lin Haoyu's parents the kind of parents he wants to be?
Real love should be gentle and firm, giving them enough love and encouragement, rather than kidnapping them with your own ideas.
For your own good, it is not true love, but a naked kidnapping of children in the name of love!
At this time, my mother, who had a perfect score, was speechless and didn't know how to refute.
Lin Haoyu didn't wait for her to speak and asked her directly.
"Full score mom, let me ask you, what are you doing now?"
"Sale."
The perfect mother didn't know why Lin Haoyu suddenly asked herself such a question, and answered without thinking.
"Full score mom, how's your performance going?" This chapter has been completed!