Looking at the people kneeling in the whole room, Hong Yunxi raised the corner of her mouth. Before she could speak, Yaya on the side rushed towards her.
"Grandma, your plans are all wrong. He raised his legs in agreement."
Listening to the little girl's tone and looking at her big, gurgling eyes, Hongyunxi was immediately amused. He stretched out his legs and pinched her cheeks.
"That ghost of mine is really grandma's little sweetheart."
After all, Hong Yunxi saw her son and daughter-in-law's eyes widening, so she patiently explained it to them, so as not to make them feel that she was a partial mother.
"If a family wants to prosper, it will definitely not be possible by relying on the strength of one person. Whether you are strong or not, you can work together and show your talents, and you can make the family stronger. At that time, the only one who will benefit is yourself.
There are many generations to come.”
"Yandong, we are still in the initial stage. Xiaowu is also the first person in our family to pursue an official career. We won't be able to help others, but we can definitely give him a solid backing. The family will be harmonious and the brothers will unite as one, so that he has no worries."
, make a contribution to the family."
Hong Yunxi looked at them and spoke softly, "Mom has said long ago that everyone has different talents. If you do what you are good at and like, you will be able to devote yourself to the family."
"Can you please, mother, the Chunwan we make is no different from the official status of the fifth brother. What if the fifth brother has been an official for a long time and doesn't care what we brothers do?"
Hong Anyan blushed, rubbed her legs, and spoke sarcastically. Perhaps she felt that she was a bit stupid for asking such a question, her voice was small, and she lacked confidence.
Hearing the uneasiness in Lao Er's eyes, Hong Yunxi's face turned solemn.
"I can rest assured that if Xiaowu looks down on his brother, then his books in those years will be popular. Buddha said that if all living beings are equal, there will be different divisions of labor. Xiaowu can study wholeheartedly, and our contribution cannot be underestimated at all.
If we hadn't worked hard so that he could concentrate on his studies without any worries, things wouldn't have been so smooth."
"Take a step back and think about it, if Xiao Wu dares to think that way, then he is really not wearing the official uniform he is wearing. As an official, you can't share the worries of the king, and you can't seek the welfare of the people. That official is destined not to last long.
"
Of course, dynasties change, let alone a family. But while she was alive, she was determined not to allow Xiao Wu to treat her brothers poorly. If she didn't show up, she could kick Xiao Wu to death without the brothers turning against each other.
Lead others to make a comeback.
"Mom is wrong. The second brother is overthinking. The fifth brother is not that kind of person. Besides, can we be brothers and not relatives of the third server?"
Xiao Si patted Brother Dong on the shoulder and laughed playfully,
"My mother is in charge of everything. I will take care of the family property, and he will take care of the duck factory. We don't have to worry about anything else."
"That's not true, or he's thinking too much,"
Hong Anyan scratched his head, not because he was thinking too much, but because of his mentality. When he mentioned the official, he felt panicked. The fifth brother suddenly became an official, and it was difficult for him to adapt to it. Xiaosi was wrong,
In the eyes of everyone, can the official master be his fifth brother? What are they afraid of?
Listening to the second son's words of persuasion, Hongyunxi held back his laughter and let a few people go east.
"As the saying goes, brothers who work together can break gold. We have different divisions of labor, and there is no hierarchy between brothers. Moreover, we have all seen the girls from the Zhang family. They are good children who are well-educated and sensible. Zhang Yiren taught her daughter very well.
Okay, it will definitely not embarrass us."
"Moreover, as Xiaowu's headmistress, Sister Shan will definitely want to follow Xiaowu when he takes office. When a new official takes office, he always wants to be familiar with her. Sister Shan needs to take care of everything. She will follow him at every turn.
Those ladies in the back house are so busy and exhausted from dealing with each other, how can they have any extra energy?"
After listening to my mother's explanation, everyone looked at each other and said, "Mom, they don't understand these things. Wouldn't it be embarrassing if they didn't go to Fucheng in the future?"
"No, I heard that the officials and their families are all very high-minded. What if they don't care about us rural people?"
Seeing people's faces every day, is it really frustrating? It's not as comfortable as being in Xiangdong.
Looking at the worried eyes of several people, Hongyunxi shook her head,
"Qi is a member of the official family, so you don't have to put on airs. We don't understand the Meixiang family, so long as Sister Shan does. She is Xiaowu's wife, and it is not her responsibility to deal with the family members of the concubine. We must not underestimate the concubine.
Social interaction is a very profound knowledge. If you want to find out something, the back house is the best place to start."
"Xiaowu and his wife will be the front of our family from now on, and they will be the ladies in the back house of our family. We are used to living in the village, and we can handle things with ease. Once we leave our village, we will be in Buchongfu County."
It's not the capital city, it's not the land of Sister Shan."
"It's not that we are ignorant, but that we have received different education since childhood. Sister Shan was taught how to behave by his mother since he was a child, and all he came into contact with were the wives of the wives and the girls in the back houses of the official families.
Is it possible to form a habit early on?"
"When my mother said this, she did not deny that we are divided into high and low, but the difference in environment and family upbringing. We have received different things since we were young. If we want to integrate into it, we must learn again. When Xiao Wu arrives at Fucheng Station
Now that we have a firm foothold, let's go and stay there for a while. By then, we will know whether what mother said is true or not."
The few of them listened to their mother's words and looked at each other. They were right. They also knew in their hearts that what their mother-in-law said was wrong. They could do whatever they did in the village, but once they went out, they would not make mistakes with anyone they knew.
Not to mention anything else, even if they go to Zhenzai on weekdays and pass by the Zhenyamen, if they encounter a yamen servant, they will consciously avoid it, fearing that they will get into trouble. These habits have been engraved in their bones, and they will get better soon.
I'm afraid it won't change.
What's more, I want to follow my fifth brother to Fucheng. Not only is the place bustling, but also the nobles gather there. If I accidentally offend him, I will cause trouble to my fifth brother.
The more I thought about them, the more entangled I became. Following the fifth brother to Fucheng would have to be very cautious, and would it be too frustrating?
In comparison, life is not as happy as Xiangdong. I originally thought that if they followed me, they could help in some way. But now, apart from staying cautiously in the backyard, there is really no use at all.
Mrs. Li held the child and shook it, looking at her mother-in-law carefully,
"Mom, do they have to follow the fifth brother when he goes to Ren?"
Listening to her mother's words, she felt that she would be more comfortable in the village if she followed her fifth brother to serve. They all thought that they would enjoy the blessings, but how could they be miserable every day?
Moreover, she is a girl from the countryside, with a vulgar voice and a loud voice. If she is laughed at by those officials and ladies, it is very difficult to beat her back, and it will not take long for her to suffer from the disease.
As soon as Mrs. Li said this, Mrs. Du also raised her head and looked at her mother-in-law. In fact, she was very curious about how her mother-in-law would arrange them.