When Liu Wenzhu was born, it was obviously not yet the 1950s, so the system of polyandry still existed at that time, but monogamy has not been popularized in some places yet!
Even though everyone wants to be with each other for the rest of their lives, the men around them may not necessarily give them the romance of being with them for the rest of their lives.
When a man is rich, his mind is more active, and he is not willing to have only one woman in his life. However, Song Xi is not worried about these things at all. Even if Zhou Yi becomes prosperous in the future and abandons her, it will not be her loss.
Song Xi and Liu Wenya were not familiar with each other, and the two of them chatted together. During this period, Liu Wenya also mentioned her confusion and helplessness about having a second child. Song Xi told her that the baby on her due date was
During the month, Wu Zhuhua would invite the midwife over and live in the village until she gave birth to the child. The midwife would not leave and the village would pay for the midwife's expenses.
I have to say that Ping An Village is really the most humane village in the countryside. Song Xi decided to support Ping An Village and lead Ping An Village to start a business and become rich. The most fundamental reason is that Ping An Village is people-oriented. No matter what it does,
It's all from the perspective of the villagers.
It doesn't matter if your mother-in-law doesn't want to give up money and doesn't send her daughter-in-law to the hospital to give birth or hire a midwife for her. If your mother-in-law doesn't hire one for you, the village will hire one for you. Ping'an Village is really a place that can give people a sense of belonging.
After giving birth to a baby, no one cares about the confinement period. There are a few experienced aunts in the village who can give money or things. Everyone will lend a hand. When the baby is six months old, he can be sent to a nursery.
After listening to Song Xi's words, Liu Wenya finally felt relieved. It would be nice to have someone to take care of her. She was afraid that she would be in a foreign land, isolated and helpless, and Ping'an Village could solve all her problems.
She felt that it was the right decision for her to work hard and integrate into Ping An Village.
I don't know what Liu Wenya thought of, but she suddenly sighed heavily, and then whispered, "When a lesbian gets married, she really must marry someone who likes her. If she marries someone she likes, then
It’s really humbling. In fact, between Zhou An and I, I was the first to be attracted to Zhou An, and Zhou An didn’t like me at all. Later, with the help of my family, I finally succeeded in marrying Zhou An.
, I originally thought that feelings are born out of love, and as long as we get along well, he will definitely like me..."
Liu Wenya couldn't help but shed tears as she spoke, "But Zhou An told me with his actual actions that it turns out that some people's hearts are just like the stones in the pit, smelly and hard..."
"Comrade Liu, actually your statement may not be 100% correct. You said that you should marry someone who likes you, but who can guarantee how long this love will last? Is it three years, five years, ten years, or a lifetime?
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Song Xi looked at Liu Wenya. She was not disapproving, but was analyzing the matter, "Like is just a feeling, just like we like to eat a certain dish. Even if we eat it every day, one day we will get tired of it.
I don’t want to eat it anymore and want to change the taste, so it’s really impossible to determine how long you’ll like someone.”
"We can't be sure whether others like us, nor how long this love will last. The most important thing is ourselves. No matter who we marry, if we are bullied or hurt, then we must stand bravely.
Come out and protect yourself. If you can't do it yourself, then seek help from the outside world, parents or friends. If these people can't help us, then there are also workplaces and certain institutions, such as the Public Security Bureau..."
"No matter who we marry, no matter who we like, or who likes us, once we enter the marriage relationship, we should not give up our career and the things we like easily; we should not just give blindly and never give up.
Don’t expect any feedback from him; if you are unfaithful once, you will never be loyal again. No matter how reluctant you are to give up, you cannot tolerate him making principled mistakes.”
"No matter who we marry, lesbians must love themselves more and treat themselves better. Eat when you need to, drink when you need to, and rest when you need to rest. If you are with this person, you will always be in pain.
If you are always the only one who feels wronged, you can choose to separate. The marriage law has been changed long ago. Two people who can't get along can be separated. You don't have to worry about other people's opinions."
Liu Wenya nodded thoughtfully. At the last point, she could see that there were many divorced lesbians with children in Ping An Village, some older and some younger, but no one had ever pointed out anything against them.
It can be said that Ping'an Village is a very tolerant place. Of course, the prerequisite is that no mistakes can be made.
Once you make a mistake, you will be severely punished.
"Of course, before you get married, when choosing a marriage partner, you must keep your eyes open and find a partner with good character and three upright views. Even if it has been a long time, there is no love anymore, and we are separated, your character and three views will let him do it.
Nothing will hurt you, so we can get together and relax, and you can go around like friends or relatives in the future. After all, there are children. If you fight to the death, it will be a big harm to the children."
A man with good character and upright values will not be able to deliberately rob the child, deny the mother access to the child, or deny child support even if the relationship breaks down.
You must know that in modern times, many women have to spend a lot of money to obtain custody of their children after divorce. Even if they have custody, the father of the child will not pay a penny in support.
If you are divorced and have children, it will be very hard for the mother to work alone to earn money to raise the children. However, if you are divorced and have children, the children without the protection of their biological mothers are the most pitiful.
In modern times, it's not like she hasn't seen her biological father turn into a stepfather, and her biological father harms his biological child in order to make a woman happy. She often sees stepmothers abusing their ex-wife's children on the news, while her biological father watches from the side.
There is also a stepmother who is afraid that her ex-wife's children will compete with her children for the family property, so she secretly kills her.
Some things rarely have the best of both worlds, so you can only rely on yourself to keep your eyes open from the source and avoid risks as much as possible.
Listening to Song Xi's words, Liu Wenya felt that "listening to you is worth ten years of reading". If she had been more sensible, she would not have ignored Zhou An's shortcomings and insisted on being with him.
, then I won’t be so miserable now.
If the little sisters in her hometown and those who liked her in the past knew that her life after marriage was like this, I don't know how they would laugh at her!
After Liu Wenya took Yi Yinuo to leave, Song Xi closed the courtyard door and pushed the latch. She would not meddle in Liu Wenya's affairs.
Anyway, the village will take good care of her. In short, she and Liu Wenya cannot get along as sisters-in-law.
Zhou Yi came out of the kitchen house and said, "Is someone gone?"
