Even if the whole world says that Qian Duoduo is not good and is a bad woman, in his mind, she is a good woman who is good in everything.
When Jiang Jiayi returned to the village, the confinement period was almost done. Within a few days of returning to the village, the confinement period was complete. They still didn't make much arrangements for the baby's full-moon wine. They just invited acquaintances to dinner at home, which was a small matter.
Already.
To hold a banquet, you had to borrow a table and tableware, so Zhou Ping's house became lively and lively. Everything was prepared, and the day of the Full Moon Wine arrived.
Aunt Li has just experienced the pain of a white-haired person giving away a black-haired person. In addition, the eldest daughter-in-law Xu Xinlan also made a mistake and was taken away. It can be said that the Li family may have bad luck this year!
Zhou Ping was afraid that Aunt Li would feel uncomfortable seeing his family's festive look, so he didn't invite Aunt Li to help prepare the full moon banquet. It was Qian Xuefen who came to help with Qian Fangxia and Qian Luxia.
Because when Jiang Jiayi came to Song Xi's house to play, Song Xi's family had no place to stay, so she lived at Qian Xuefen's house. Qian Xuefen was considered the matchmaker between her and Zhou Ping, so it was right to invite her if there was something going on.
Song Xi and Zhou Yi came to Zhou Ping's house with the gifts they had prepared before. Song Xi handed the gift to Jiang Jiayi and said with a smile, "Sister Jiayi, this is a gift for the baby, you are not allowed to refuse!
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"Okay, I won't refuse. When I prepare a gift for you in the future, you can't refuse either!" Jiang Jiayi took the gift with a smile, put it on the table beside the bed, then hugged Zhou Siyue, and came
In front of Song Xi.
Song Xi gently tapped Zhou Siyue's cheek with her fingertips, and spoke with a smile on her face, "The way the little guy smiles even though he has no teeth is so cute. But Sister Jiayi, I have to remind you.
, now that you have a son, you can't ignore the daughter in front of you. Both your son and your daughter are your children, and you have to treat them equally, you know?"
"A girl who lives in a family that values boys over girls is particularly unhappy and will be unhappy throughout her life. This unhappiness is not material, but spiritual, and will have a great impact on her throughout her life."
In the previous life, in such a wealthy era, some people still favored sons over daughters. Daughters were tools to serve their sons. When good things happened, they only thought of their sons, and when bad things happened, they only thought of their daughters.
For example, the family property will be handed over to the son.
But when he was sick and hospitalized and needed money and care, the son became invisible, and the daughter had to contribute both money and effort. In the end, the parents still liked their son.
Of course, as a child, you do need to support your parents, but if the bowl of water is constantly leveled, it will also be chilling! If the parents leave their children a hundred years later, the relationship will not be good.
Many parents have two or more children in the hope that when they grow old, the children can help and support each other. However, their attitudes destroy the relationship between brothers and sisters, so how can they help each other and support each other?
Jiang Jiayi nodded in agreement, "I live in a family that values boys over girls. I was wronged a lot when I was a child. If my grandparents hadn't protected me, I don't know if I would have grown up healthily.
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"Even the salesperson job that I finally got, my grandparents forced me to give it to my relatives. I am my granddaughter, so in their eyes I am not as good as my relatives."
"My mother and I are like nannies serving them in this family. I have lived such a hard life myself, and I will definitely not let my daughter live such a hard life."
"I will treat both children equally. On the contrary, I will pay more attention to my daughter, because I feel that a woman's life is much harder than a man's."
"Even if you marry well, you will still worry about whether you can have a son and whether you can stabilize your status. If you marry poorly, you will be like a cow and a horse. Your husband will not like it and your mother-in-law will bully you..."
Song Xi held Jiang Jiayi's hand and said seriously, "Sister Jiayi, don't worry like this, because Zhou Ping will not become like this. Even if he treats you badly as time passes and he gets older, there are still
As for me, just look for me and follow me, and I will definitely let you live a different life."
"Xiao Xi, thank you. The greatest luck in my life is not marrying Zhou Ping, but knowing you." Jiang Jiayi held Song Xi's hand back and said gratefully.
For a married woman, usually her natal family is her source of confidence and courage to face an unknown life, but without a natal family to protect her, Song Xi is her source of confidence.
With Song Xi's words, what else does Jiang Jiayi worry about?
Just take good care of your children, raise them well, and then live happily.
When it was almost noon, Zhou Ping picked up Jiang Jiayi's grandparents. Their older generation's thoughts were like this. They were afraid that their granddaughter would not give birth to a son and her status would not be guaranteed. Now that Jiang Jiayi had a son, they no longer wanted to
Worried.
It is very common in this era for lesbians from wealthy families to want their mothers to be valued because of their sons, but for lesbians from ordinary families to want to improve their status based on their sons.
Even in the previous life, there were many married women who wished to have a boy on the Internet. There were a lot of "picking up boys" in the comment area. They all wanted to have a boy. Those who had daughters wanted a boy, and those who had boys wanted a girl. Who?
They all want to be "good", so these are quite normal things.
Grandma Jiang sat beside Jiang Jiayi's bed and said, "Your mother has been asking about where you live. I have been tight-lipped until now and haven't revealed anything. I have to wait at least a year or two to confirm that she has indeed improved.
Tell her again, otherwise she will easily become a tool for the Jiang family to hurt you again."
"Grandma, just make the arrangements. Anyway, I will stay in Ping'an Village to take care of my children for a while, so I won't have a chance to meet her." Regarding her mother, Jiang Jiayi is really very angry with her. I hope her character is better.
Behavior and other things can really be improved in the future.
If she still behaves like she was trained by the Jiang family before, then she will definitely torment her and Zhou Ping for the benefit of the Jiang family.
Jiang Jiayi just wants to live a good life with Zhou Ping in Ping'an Village. As for finding a job, it would be good to find a job in the village when the children are older and can take care of themselves.
To be honest, there are quite a lot of jobs in Pingan Village now.
"By the way, grandma, Zhou Ping and I bought a small house for my mother. You can let my mother move in! This will also prevent your uncle and aunt from making trouble with you." Jiang Jiayi took out the house book and the details of the house from under the pillow.
He handed the key to Grandma Jiang, "There is a detailed address in the house book. Just ask my mother to find it by herself. We have already replaced the lock on the door with a new one. Most people really can't pry it open."