It only takes three steps to turn your enemy into one of your own.
The first step is to destroy his previous belief. The second step is to win over him sincerely, and the third step is to integrate.
The first step is often the most difficult.
Because for one person, let alone changing another person's belief, even if he wants to change other people's thoughts, it is extremely impossible to achieve.
How does a person change?
Countless people have asked this question.
But what's the answer?
There is no answer, because a person only has a small chance of changing before he dies.
For example, death row prisoners will confess in public trials and cry bitterly before their execution.
However, if no one is arrested and there is no death penalty trial, then there is no hope of change.
However, Dragon Boat Festival did it. He took advantage of Masao Kosaka's habits and successfully shattered Masao Kosaka's belief.
During their short time together, Danwu discovered that Kosaka Masao often made some habitual actions.
This habitual action is just like obsessive-compulsive disorder.
For example, when teaching how to fire a gun during the Dragon Boat Festival, Kosaka Masao would often almost press the launch button when teaching the last step.
Although Masao Kosaka has strong self-control and restrained his inappropriate behavior, Danwu believes that Masao Kosaka will definitely make mistakes sometimes.
However, this probability is extremely low, because Masao Kosaka has extremely strong self-control ability. He often stops the hand he is about to extend the second before he makes a mistake.
Therefore, it is not that easy for Masao Kosaka to make mistakes.
Therefore, Danwu formulated a set of extremely perfect plans for Masao Kosaka.
Paralyzing Kosaka Masao, making him think that he is just a radar observer.
He will not touch any weapons and equipment, he is safe, and he will not fire on his compatriots at all. All he has to do is ensure the safety of the Izumo. That's all.
But this is actually a trap.
Because everyone, without exception, will subconsciously use their arms to block when danger strikes.
This is an instinctive reaction that is almost uncontrollable.
Just like if you feint in front of someone's face, they will blink.
So when danger strikes, Kosaka Masao will habitually move his hands even if he doesn't want to.
What's more, there is a Dragon Boat Festival beside Masao Kosaka who is adding fuel to the flames.
The Dragon Boat Festival naturally plays an important role here.
Because who reminded Masao Kosaka to use torpedoes?
At that time, Masao Kosaka suddenly realized, and because the safety of himself and his daughter was threatened, he instinctively wanted to protect himself.
This is just like when an enemy attacks you with a knife, you instinctively use your arms to resist.
Although you also know that such resistance is almost useless, you still make such subconscious actions.
As a result, Kosaka Masao not only intercepted the torpedo launched by the Ogawa, but also fought back, breaking his own belief.
Masao Kosaka's belief is not to kill his compatriots. Even for his daughter, he never gave up this belief.
But at this time, he personally killed more than a hundred Japanese on a warship.
Masao Kosaka is on the verge of collapse. Dragon Boat Festival once again increased the pressure, saying that Masao Kosaka’s daughter is getting married.
Masao Kosaka completely collapsed and cried like a man in tears.
At this point, the first step of the Dragon Boat Festival was effective, and the second step had gradually begun. Kosaka Masao soon fell into the trap set by the Dragon Boat Festival.
Because you can just imagine, if it was your daughter who was married off by another person without your knowledge, what would you think?
In addition to having the urge to strangle the other person to death, do you also have doubts about who your daughter is going to marry?
And the Dragon Boat Festival's mouth can bring the dead back to life.
First of all, clarify that the other party is highly educated, a college student, a graduate student, a Ph.D., or a postdoctoral fellow, and can speak Japanese, so there is no barrier to communication.
The high degree of education is to satisfy Masao Kosaka's vanity. He is a senior engineer. Naturally, he does not want his daughter to marry a white man.
Therefore, high education has become one of the rigid indicators for Masao Kosaka to choose a son-in-law.
Second, be able to speak Japanese. This is also particularly important for Masao Kosaka. After all, he has many relatives who cannot speak Chinese, so there will be no barrier to communication.
But there is another point that makes Masao Kosaka very embarrassed. If his daughter really marries a Chinese, will he become a Japanese rapist?
So Masao Kosaka declined politely: "Mr. Danwu, I think my daughter still needs to think twice before marrying a Chinese..."
Duanwu put his arm around Masao Kosaka's shoulders, pulled him aside and said, "What are you still thinking about? The guy I found for you is pretty good, he needs education and a house.
The house is located in the British Concession in Shanghai, with a construction area of 248 square meters and a usable area of 360 square meters. The large balcony on the roof belongs to your family.
But the most important thing is that his income is high. Just write a few words, and that’s tens of thousands of dollars."
"So much money?"
Masao Kosaka was a little moved.
Strike while the iron is hot during the Dragon Boat Festival and continue to add: "To show sincerity, I plan to give five gold bars as a betrothal gift!"
"What a sincere young man. I like such a young, promising and generous young man."
Kosaka Masao wholeheartedly agreed, because such talents are hard to find even with a lantern!
High education, high salary, high position, but most importantly, he is willing to spend money on his daughter. Five gold bars as a bride price. This is definitely valuable enough.
Because just imagine, at the market price at that time, half a cornbread could be exchanged for a daughter-in-law. Some parents even couldn't afford it, so they asked someone to take it away directly. I don't even want the money, as long as you take my girl away.
So under this world trend, five gold bars are quite a lot.
What else was Masao Kosaka thinking about? He agreed without even thinking.
However, Masao Kosaka still has one condition, which is to let his son-in-law come to see him immediately.
Of course, there is no problem with the Dragon Boat Festival. The only problem is reporter Fang.
Reporter Fang is a very enjoyable person. He has always believed that women are a burden.
Why spend money to marry a wife? You have to spend money to support her, and you have to take care of yourself. If you have delicious food, you have to stuff it into the other person's mouth. Doesn't it taste good when you stuff it into your own mouth?
What's more, Duan Wu promised him a betrothal gift of five gold bars as soon as he opened his mouth.
With five gold bars, he can marry more than a hundred wives in fourth-tier cities or even villages.
"No, no, even if that woman looks like a flower, I don't want it, let alone a Japanese woman. Will there be a shortage of women around me, Fang Zhiwen? What a joke!"