When Wen's mother heard this, her hair suddenly exploded. She raised her hand and patted Wen Wen's arm, "You girl, what nonsense are you talking about? How can you, a young and gentle person, be alone?"
In the eyes of people like Mother Wen, the best outcome for a woman in life is to find a man to rely on.
Even if Wen Nuan has a successful career now, she will still feel that a woman without a home is without roots and her life is unsatisfactory.
"Although the old saying is that raising children can prevent old age, when children grow up, they will have their own lives, and they will not be able to spend a lot of time with their parents."
As Nuannuan and Lin'er live in the same city, it is already very filial to come back to see them often.
"You should listen to your mother's advice and find a companion, otherwise you will be very lonely."
She had been seriously ill before, but now she is in good health, but she has nothing to do and her life is too monotonous, so she feels very lonely.
If it weren't for Lao Zhang...
"Your dad left early, and mom knows this very well."
Mother Wen was also talking to her daughter from the bottom of her heart. After her children left her side, she suddenly lost the focus of her life, and her feeling of loneliness became even stronger.
"Mom doesn't want you to go the way Mom did. It's too lonely. Mom hopes you can find someone who loves you and is kind to you. You will have someone to discuss big and small things with, and you will have someone to talk to on a regular basis.
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"Whether you remarry Yanzhi or find Jing Xing. If it's not them, you can find someone else. Mom has no objection."
"Mom just hopes that there is someone by your side to take care of you, who knows how to feel the cold and the hot. If you were alone, mom would be really worried about you, you know?"
Mother Wen owes this daughter a debt.
The environment in which she was born determines her thinking, and carrying on the family line is engraved in her bones.
So she insisted on giving birth even if the conditions were not good.
She also didn't expect that her husband would die unexpectedly as soon as her son was born.
She was left with her two children.
She also knew that she and Lin'er were a drag on her daughter.
Now, my daughter has a successful career, her son is also doing well, and everything has changed for the better.
It is really not easy for my daughter to be where she is today.
She worked really hard.
She hopes even more that her daughter will be well in the future, and that she, who has been taking care of others, can find someone who knows both coldness and warmth to take care of her, so that she can live happily for the rest of her life.
"Mom, I understand, and I will take what you said to heart."
Nuan Nuan did not argue with her mother about this.
Even though my mother is now exposed to more new ideas, her old ideas have changed a bit.
But some ideas are deeply ingrained and difficult to change.
Seeing that her mother wanted to continue persuading her, Nuan Nuan held her hand and changed the subject with a smile, "Mom, when it comes to finding a companion, Uncle Zhang upstairs is very good.
I think he has been very interested in you in the past two years. Now that my brother and I have grown up, you can also consider finding a partner for yourself."
When Lao Zhang was mentioned, Mother Wen couldn't help but blush, her eyes flickered, and she didn't dare to look directly at Wen Nuan anymore.
After a while, he muttered, "You girl, when you go on a trip, you even dare to make fun of your mother! Your Uncle Zhang and I are just ordinary neighbors, don't talk nonsense!"
The warmth is to change the topic, and it is also serious.
She did not end the topic as Wen's mother did, but continued: "Mom, weren't you just telling me that I will always be with you?"
"My brother and I have been observing Uncle Zhang for a long time, and we all think he is good and a candidate worth considering."
"Don't mind other people's eyes. Life is for you. It's a good life if you feel comfortable. You don't have to worry about my brother and I objecting. He and I have discussed this issue a long time ago."
"As long as that person treats you well, we support him."
After she returned to Jiangcheng, before she had Uncle Zhang, she discussed this issue with Wen Lin.
Regarding the mother’s problem of finding a wife.
They will not take the initiative to make arrangements, but they are not opposed to the mother finding a wife.
Just make sure that person is really good to their mother.
Uncle Zhang is very good.
Wen Nuan's mother was shocked by what she said.
"Are you and Lin'er really not opposed to the matter between me and your Uncle Zhang?"
In their generation, there are many middle-aged widowed or divorced people who have never found anyone for the sake of their children.
Lao Zhang is also a middle-aged widower, a grown man who has raised his daughter as both father and mother.
Now my daughter has her own family, and she is filial to her daughter, but after all, she has her own family, and she can only come back to see him throughout the year.
She and Lao Zhang met while shopping for groceries.
The people upstairs and downstairs become familiar with each other as they come and go.
Usually, she is the only one at home, and Lao Zhang takes care of her a lot.
Half a year ago, Lao Zhang asked her to talk to Nuan Nuan Lin'er about their affairs. He wanted to reorganize the family.
But she has seen many children of single parents or divorced families who object to their parents reorganizing their families, and there are also many cases where the family is not harmonious.
In her life, she values her children the most and does not want her family harmony to be affected by her search for a wife.
So she kept putting it off. Unexpectedly, Nuan Nuan and Lin'er knew about it early and supported her unconditionally.
"I really don't mind, and neither does my brother. How about I call him now and let him tell you again in person?"
"You girl."
Mother Wen squeezed her warm hand.
Mother and daughter can talk about anything, but there are many things she can't say between mother and son.
Just then, the doorbell rang.
Uncle Zhang's voice sounded outside when he said that Cao Cao had arrived.
Nuan Nuan let go of Mother Wen's hand and stood up, "Mom, I'm going back to the room first. You and Uncle Zhang talk."
She left space for the two elders and went back to the bedroom.
The sound insulation in this community is not particularly good. If you speak louder in the living room, you can hear it in the bedroom.
As soon as Nuan Nuan sat down, she heard Uncle Zhang's voice outside because he was so happy that he forgot to lower his voice, "Really? Nuan Nuan and Lin'er both agree?"
Wen's mother scolded, "Please lower your voice. Is Nuan Nuan in the room?!"
I'm still embarrassed after all.
I couldn't hear clearly what warmth was said next, but I couldn't help but slowly raise the corners of my lips.
…
A month later, the Lu family
"Knock knock."
Lawrence Lu stood outside the study door, raised his hand and knocked on the door, then turned the doorknob and pushed it open, "Dad."
As soon as the door opened, he saw his father, Lu Jingxing, hiding something in the drawer.
In fact, he already knew what was in that drawer.
You obviously like Aunt Wen so much, why don't you pursue her?
"What's wrong? Did you encounter a question you don't know?"
My son has a very high IQ. He is what others call other people’s children. He basically doesn’t have to worry about homework.
"no."
Lawrence Lu shook his head.
The current homework is not a big problem for him.
"Um?"
Lu Jingxing raised an eyebrow at his son.
This time point is Xiaozhe's time to do homework. It's not a problem about homework. Why did you come to see him?
Lu Yuzhe clasped his hands behind his back, straightened his face, and walked towards Lu Jingxing with a serious look on his face, standing next to him.
Staring straight at his face, she said seriously, "Dad."
Lu Jingxing looked at his son's serious face, feeling funny in his heart, but pretended to be serious, "Say."
Lawrence Lu raised his hand, touched the corners of Lu Jingxing's eyes, and sighed like a little adult, "Dad, you are not young anymore. I see you have wrinkles. Is it time to find a partner? What do you think?"
"I think you are itchy. How dare you dislike your father?"
Lu Jingxing raised his hand and flicked his son's forehead.
"Yes, Dad, I have begun to dislike you. You should quickly find someone who doesn't dislike you!"
He had brought up Xiao Zhe, and he knew very well about Xiao Jiujiu in his heart.
I went to the study specifically to find him, talk about my wrinkles and find a companion, there must be something more to say.
As expected.
He was silent and didn't answer. Lu Yuzhe had already taken the initiative to say, "Dad, I heard from the young minister that Aunt Wen is back."
He and Shaochen studied in the same private school.
They both have excellent grades and have a good relationship in private.
"Um."
Lu Jingxing responded softly and raised his hand to touch his son's head.
He has been paying attention to Nuannuan's news since she got married.
After the divorce, there was no change.
Everywhere she goes, he knows.
When she came back, he received the news immediately.
The time we met at the mall half a year ago.
He knew that Nuannuan needed time, and he was willing to give her time and let her go all the way, hoping that one day she could come to him again.
After waiting for more than half a year, she had traveled to many places, but she never thought about walking back to him.
Thinking of this, Lu Jingxing's heart still couldn't help but sting.
He raised his hand and patted his son's arm gently. He didn't want to continue the topic, so he said gently: "Dad knows, children don't have to worry about adults' matters. Dad has a sense of propriety."
"After you finish your homework, go back to your room to take a shower and go to bed. Dad still has work to do. Be obedient and go out."
After saying that, Lu Jingxing turned his eyes back to the closed notebook on the table.
Lu Yuzhe, who was usually very obedient, didn't. With a squeeze of his little body, he squeezed in front of Lu Jingxing.
Facing him, clear and bright eyes were staring straight at Lu Jingxing, his expression became more serious, and his voice sounded mature, "Dad!"
"It's wrong to run away from trouble. You obviously like Aunt Wen very much. Why don't you go and bring Aunt Wen back to be my mother?"
"You promised me before that when I can take care of sister Ke Yan independently, you will bring Aunt Wen and sister Ke Yan to live with us."
"I became independent very early, and I can take good care of my sister Ke Yan."
Lu Yuzhe said seriously, looking at Lu Jingxing's eyes there was a hint of hope that could not be hidden.
He has been waiting.
Waiting for dad to bring Aunt Wen and sister Ke Yan back.
This wish has always been in my heart and has never changed.
Lu Jingxing's nose suddenly became sour.
It was he who broke his promise.
"Xiao Zhe, I'm sorry, dad..."
Lu Yuzhe patted Lu Jingxing on the shoulder like a young adult, "Dad, as boys we should be more proactive with girls we like. How can you not take the initiative?"
The sadness in my heart was made dumbfounded by my son's words.
How does a nine-year-old child know the complexity of emotional relationships between adults?
but--
What my son said makes sense.
Is he too passive towards Nuannuan?
Nine years ago, he and Nuan Nuan had been the dominant one from the beginning, while Nuan Nuan was the passive one, and she had suffered too much because of it.
Four years ago, we met again.
It was also because he couldn't control his emotions and approached Cheng Jingshu before settling his marriage relationship with her.
Finally, she was forced to choose to marry Gu Yanzhi.
The person he least wanted to hurt was Nuan Nuan, and the person who hurt her the most was him.
Therefore, after Nuannuan's divorce, he did not dare to force her anymore and could only continue to wait where he was.
He wanted to leave the choice to Nuannuan and wait for her to take the initiative to come back to him.
After all, Nuannuan loves him.
However, after so many years, Nuan Nuan and he are no longer the same as before.
He waited silently like this, silently guessing Nuan Nuan's thoughts, it would be better to ask him personally.
Lu Jingxing's eyes were soft and he touched his son's head, "Okay, dad takes the initiative. Next week is Grandma Wen's wedding. Can dad take you with him?"
"OK!"
Lawrence Lu's eyes lit up.
Aunt Wen will definitely go to Grandma Wen’s wedding.
"Dad, you must chase Aunt Wen! Come on, come on, fill up the gas!"
Lawrence Lu is really happy.
After receiving Lu Jingxing's promise, he left the study happily.
Lu Jingxing looked at his son's back with gentle eyes.
The study door closed again, he opened the drawer and took out the Deep Sea Star.
Open the velvet box.
When I took the photo, it was partly out of my own selfishness. I didn't want it to mean that my only love was given to Nuan Nuan through the hands of another man.
Even at that time, Gu Yanzhi was justified.
When he bought it, he didn't know if he would have a chance to give it away again.
If he hadn't met Nuan Nuan, he might never have understood that true love exists in this world.
In his eyes, profit was the primary condition for marriage.
It was Nuan Nuan, the girl who foolishly loved him without asking for anything in return from the moment they met, who used her actions to make him understand that helpless and heartbreaking love really exists in this world.
If he can't be with Nuannuan in this life, then he will silently guard her for the rest of his life.
…
Mother Wen and Uncle Zhang's wedding was a warm one. Wen Lin and Uncle Zhang's daughter jointly proposed to hold a simple ceremony for them.
It was a Chinese-style wedding and we didn’t invite too many people. We planned to have a meal together.
In the Wen family, Wen's father passed away suddenly that year. The relatives on Wen's father's side and Wen's mother's side were afraid of borrowing money from them, so they became estranged.
After that, Wen Wen married into the Gu family and had a successful career. Her relatives all wanted to contact her again, but Wen's mother refused.
So she only has warmth and warmth to speak of, Mu Chenxi and Fu Yanshen are with their children, and Wen Lin is with his girlfriend.
Uncle Zhang is also part of his daughter's family, and his daughter's husband's family also has some close relatives.
It was a Chinese wedding.
After changing clothes, Uncle Zhang took Mother Wen's hand and walked out, and the group went to shoot the location.
The warm winter sun shone on them, and the two looked at each other and smiled amidst the congratulations of everyone.
We are no longer young and it is not the best time, but this picture is very beautiful.
While taking pictures, a car drove over from a distance.
The car stopped and the door opened. Lawrence Lu pushed the door open first and shouted from a distance, "Grandma Wen."
Mother Wen liked Lu Jingxing very much, and she also asked him to take Lu Yuzhe to her house for dinner several times in the past few years.
Lu Yuzhe likes Mother Wen very much.
Lu Jingxing then got out of the car, stood beside the car and looked over.
In the crowd, he found warmth at a glance, and his eyes fell on her.