After dressing up as a superb old lady, I became the backbone of the whole village Chapter 639 Talking about Saburo's marriage and the future of his children and grandchildren
Chapter 639 Talking about Saburo's marriage and the future of his children and grandchildren
Su Sanlang's letter was placed on the table, and Chen Yu was not in a hurry to open it and read it.
First, Lin Junyan had just arrived home, and he wanted to see how Lin Junyan and Yu Nuan were getting along. Furthermore, he didn't know how to handle this matter beautifully.
I have to go to the capital, but I have to be well prepared and find a matchmaker. After all, marriage can't happen without a matchmaker. Besides, I don't really know what the Lin family is like inside.
In fact, if a girl from the Su family encounters such a thing, she will definitely not be left alone. No matter what happens, she will have to take her home and make plans. In fact, Lin Junruo, as the eldest sister, has always been the one who ran away before Lin Junyan's matter.
Later, it was like this now, and it was like this at the beginning. Furthermore, when we met again some time after Lin Junyan returned to Beijing, it was obvious that the life was pleasant, which meant that it was not pleasant in the Lin family.
It doesn't matter if it's a serious matter to propose marriage. If it succeeds, it's marriage. If it doesn't, it doesn't matter. But since the children are already born, this matter can only succeed and cannot fail.
Zheng Yue'e came in with ginseng soup and said, "You've been working hard again, are you tired?"
"I'm tired, Yue'e, do you want to go to the capital to see it?" Chen Yu saw Zheng Yue'e and thought of another thing, that is, the children of the Su family are starting to discuss marriage.
Marrying a girl is a big event, and taking Yue'e to the capital for a visit is a must.
Zheng Yue'e sat next to her: "Chunhua just said that she was wondering if Shiro was doing well there and wanted to go back early."
"Xiuying and Yuling are both going back to live together, and half a year has passed in a flash." Chen Yu rubbed his forehead: "Mom still hasn't figured out how to handle Sanlang's marriage."
Zheng Yue'e has been thinking about this matter for several days: "Mom, it would be better for the wedding to be held in the capital."
Chen Yu raised his eyebrows slightly: "Tell me and listen."
"Sanlang has to be over there, and the Lin Mansion is over there. Even if they get married in the future, Jun Yan and Sanlang have to be over there in the capital, so it's better for the wedding to be in the capital." Zheng Yuee'e said.
Chen Yu sighed: "If Jun Yan goes back to her parents' home to be married, what will happen to the two children?"
"With so many people in our family taking care of us, this matter cannot be hidden, but our Su family's attitude towards children and marriage is enough to stop those people's mouths." Zheng Yuee'e said: "Although it is in the capital.
It's a wedding, but our whole family will go there."
Chen Yu nodded slowly: "Sure, it seems our family has to go to Beijing."
"It's not like we won't come back if we live there. The third brother's marriage is a big deal, and it affects our Su family's reputation in the capital. Besides, Jun Yan's temperament is not weak. There will definitely be no worries in the capital in the future.
." Zheng Yue'e said with a smile: "You don't want to live in the capital permanently, and I don't want to go either, so we two can look after the house."
Chen Yu laughed out loud: "You have seen through me clearly. Okay, don't worry now. Our family has prepared the betrothal gifts and has them shipped to the capital first. We will wait for Jun Yan to take a rest here.
Mom still has to discuss it with Jun Yan."
"Okay, leave the betrothal gift to Yue'e." Zheng Yue'e took over the matter directly. She said she felt sorry for her mother-in-law countless times, but she couldn't do anything about it. Things came up one after another, and she really didn't dare to take action directly.
, especially when it involves Saburo’s marriage, I really can’t do anything for my mother-in-law.
Chen Yu patted Zheng Yue'e's arm: "Don't be too provocative. After San Lang, we Qianxiu, and all future marriages have to be taken into consideration. Our family's standard for marrying a wife starts from San Lang. After all, things are different now.
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"Okay, Yue'e has remembered it." Zheng Yue'e said with a smile.
The girls are not afraid of lavishness in their marriages, because a married girl has to live the life of her husband's family. If she is not lavish, she is afraid that her life will be too long and she will not be able to take care of it. As for their modest marriage, it is just like what the mother-in-law said, and they cannot be too outstanding.
After softly talking about all the preparations Su Yunuan had made, Chen Yu felt very attentive. It was very important for her children to be sensible. For Lin Junyan, she was the daughter-in-law who was about to enter the house, and Su Yunuan was the girl in the family, so Yunuan
Their attitude largely determines how well they get along with each other in the future.
After thinking through it, Chen Yu opened the letter written by Su Sanlang to herself, and asked Mrs. Wang to deliver the letter to Lin Junyan, and also asked the third lady to come over.
Mrs. Wang left quickly and came back quickly. Su Yunuan came over and hugged grandma's arm: "Grandma."
"Good boy, your second uncle has told me." Chen Yu took Su Yunuan's hand and asked with a smile: "Do you feel a little uncomfortable when you see your father writing to Jun Yan?"
Su Yunuan smiled and nodded: "A little bit, but Yunuan is more happy. Grandma, my third brother and I have grown up and can't stay with daddy. He can meet a good match and live a good life."
If it’s good, I’ll be happy.”
"Well, grandma, let me show you the letter your father wrote to you." Chen Yu took out the letter and handed it to Su Yunuan: "This letter is also for grandma, so grandma read some and wrote it to Yunuan.
,Grandma didn’t look at it.”
Su Yunuan took the letter and was ecstatic. She sat down next to Chen Yu and read her father's letter word by word.
Chen Yu looked at the child who grew up under his nose. This child had no intention of lying to him at all. This Akagi was so precious!
In the letter, Su Sanlang told Yu Nuan the cause and effect, the arrangements for the future, and also mentioned that as a father, he not only wanted to put these things on the table to tell his daughter, but also wrote to Zhuyin at the same time, saying that he
As a father, I will not favor one over the other, let alone neglect the two brothers and sisters.
Gently folding the letter, Su Yunuan leaned on Chen Yu's arm and remained silent for a long time.
"What's wrong?" Chen Yu asked.
Su Yunuan said softly: "It's not easy for dad. Why do you need to explain this kind of thing to my third brother and me? In fact, if the whole family is in the same heart, they hope that he will live well, and there will be no one to take care of the affairs of the inner house for him.
, we all feel very sad.”
"Do you think your father is a little humble?" Chen Yu followed Su Yunuan's back: "Yu Nuan, this is not humility, this is love, which is the foundation of a stable family. What's the use of a family if he doesn't say it in his heart?
On the contrary, when we are together, we must speak out openly to avoid misunderstandings. In the future, Junyan can treat you as her own, and you can respect and be filial to her. That is your father's blessing. It will not be easy for both of them.
, it will not be easy for you and Zhuyin, Asui and Ayi, but everything is difficult at the beginning. As long as you all accept each other happily now, you will have no worries in the future."
Su Yunuan nodded.
Chen Yu added: "Zhuyin's seedlings who have become an official will have to get down to study after a few more years of experience. You, don't be anxious about your marriage. After the new year, you will go out with your second brother and the others to see the world. If you really want to live in harmony with your brothers and sisters,
, it would be great if the way your aunts get along with their families is the way girls of your generation get along with their families."
"I will!" Su Yunuan rubbed Chen Yu's arm: "Don't worry, grandma, I will definitely do it!"
Chen Yu nodded: "Grandma Xin, you are all smart and sensible. This is the blessing of our family. Think carefully about whether you should go to the capital to live permanently. Don't settle this matter in a hurry. Grandma will be here anytime.
I can listen to Yu Nuanzi explain her plans carefully."