Men and women should abide by the rules. The more status they have, the more rules they will have.
But Pei Yun had no such considerations.
No, when we just met, he invited people to play mahjong together and taught him how to play.
As far as Pei Yun is concerned, there is nothing wrong with this. He is just a rule-abiding person.
Pei Yun does have rules, but they are different from those in the world.
What is surprising is that as a woman, when a man offers her a seat, she sits down, and when a man teaches her how to play mahjong, she plays mahjong.
To be precise, she does whatever others ask her to do, and she doesn't know how to refuse.
Surprisingly, she played mahjong very well.
Pei Yun watched this process in his eyes.
Naturally, this was her first time playing mahjong, and she was not proficient in any gambling skills.
Pei Yun could tell that she relied on her calculation ability.
In other words, she can do arithmetic.
This is strange.
However, even if she understands arithmetic, it is limited, which is determined by current factors.
As far as the development of arithmetic in the Qin Dynasty is concerned, the most difficult thing is nothing more than being a chicken and a duck in the same cage.
Arithmetic had limited development in Da Qin and was not taken seriously.
The use of arithmetic exists all the time.
Even if you don't bother with any advanced arithmetic problems.
Necessary addition, subtraction, multiplication and division must always be used in life.
If you don't know anything about arithmetic, you will have difficulties in doing business, counting money, etc.
Arithmetic can also shine in gambling.
A person who knows arithmetic will never be weak in gambling.
Count cards and record cards to guess what cards your opponent has and what cards he wants.
These can all be done through arithmetic.
And as long as you do this, as long as you are not too unlucky, it will be difficult for you to lose.
Therefore, at the end of the poker game today, the person who won the most was a new face.
"So the lady is here." A feminine voice sounded.
The person who came was none other than the servant.
The woman who came to play mahjong was none other than Yu Zijin.
The servant first glanced at Yu Zijin, then looked at the situation in the room, and finally his eyes rested on Pei Yun.
When the servant looked at Pei Yun, Pei Yun also looked at the servant.
I have nothing to fear.
You look at me, and I look at you.
Is it possible?
You can also see that I was the one who helped Chu Mannu escape that day.
The servant naturally didn't see anything in the end and said, "Miss, it's getting late, it's time to go back."
In this way, Yu Zijin followed the servant and left.
On the carriage back to Gong's house, the servant spoke to Yu Zijin.
"I talked to the village chief named Sun Yaozu. I couldn't find out anything. But I learned some interesting things from Sun Youniang's parents."
"This Sun Youniang actually thought about marrying that guy named Pei Yun. I just met this Pei Yun. He looks really good. They even called him Young Master."
"Do you think Master Gong knows about this? Of course, if he doesn't know, there is no need to tell him."
I really didn't expect that Sun Youniang's parents would tell the servants about this.
To be honest, they were forced to say it.
The servant went to them alone and talked, saying that he wanted to learn about Sun Youniang from their mouths.
What was presented was an attitude of interrogation.
Who knows that Sun Youniang's parents are ordinary people, but her servants are not ordinary servants.
Fundamentally, it is a conversation between two classes with unequal status.
In ancient times, when it came to formal matters regarding marriage, they had to check three generations of others.
Generally speaking, you will inquire about the other party's reputation through acquaintances, and once you inquire, it will last for three generations.
The better the conditions, the more families care about this.
This is to know if the other person’s ancestors were guilty of adultery and if there are any lingering diseases.
Women also have to do this kind of thing.
There is a saying that before you marry someone, you should look at his ancestors for three generations.
When you get married, you always talk about what your ancestors did.
The reason is that a man's character and family tradition are inextricably related to his parents.
If the family tradition is not bad, it is impossible for a man to become bad.
Even if a man really becomes bad, there is no need for a woman to do anything, the family will take good care of him.
If the family tradition is reasonable, the offspring will naturally be upright.
Something else to say.
"When you get a wife, you should first see your mother; when you get a husband, you should see your father first."
"When marrying a wife, look after your mother first."
This is related to the constraints on women in ancient times.
A woman who has not left the court cannot meet a strange man in private. The person who has not left the court the most is her mother.
The way a mother conducts herself will affect a woman.
The ancients believed that what kind of mother would teach what kind of daughter.
The mother-in-law's character determines her wife's work style and life style.
"The married husband should see his father first."
In ancient times, women's status was low, and how they lived depended on men's attitudes.
Men's behavior generally imitates their father's behavior.
The ancients believed that what a man should do to a woman.
To a certain extent, it depends on how his father treats his mother.
And, as the head of the family.
If something really happens, the father-in-law will make the decision better than the husband.
Just Gong Zihong and Sun Youniang.
Naturally, Sun Youniang's parents did not dare to investigate Gong Zihong's third generation.
But Gong Zihong is different. Even if he is just a servant on the surface, he can still get to the bottom of it.
therefore.
There is nothing wrong with the servant talking to Sun Youniang's parents.
Regarding the servant's interrogation, Sun Youniang's parents also gave full explanations.
Sun Youniang's ancestors can still withstand investigation.
They are all honest villagers and have no hereditary diseases.
Originally, the matter would have ended here.
However, Sun Youniang's parents accidentally told what Sun Youniang had said to Pei Yun. By the time they felt that they had said something wrong, it was already too late.
Sun Youniang's parents said something they shouldn't have said, but judging from the servant's intentions, he didn't intend to do anything. Even if Yu Zijin heard it, he didn't give the slightest reaction.
"Miss, I've had contact with Pei Yun today. How do you feel about him?" the servant asked.
Yu Zijin: “I don’t understand enough.”
I didn't have any contact time for even one day, and during that time I was learning to play mahjong. How can I understand it?
But the servant asked: "Is it necessary to continue to understand?"
Yu Zijin: "It doesn't matter."
"Looking at him, he seems a little uneasy. Every time I talk to Sun Yaozu about him, I always change the subject. Anyway, Miss is fine these days and can continue to try to contact him."
Yu Zijin: "Okay."
She is the kind of person who does whatever others ask her to do.
If you ask her if she has any thoughts or opinions, she doesn't have any.
As a person who has no control over her own destiny, she is like a string doll.
Others were used to such an appearance, and so was she.