Sister Bai took off her white coat, revealing a military uniform. She picked up her hat from the hanger on the side and put it on before turning around and walking out.
Qu Zhiheng looked at Lin Yaxin, who smiled at him, stood up, and followed Sister Bai out. At this point, Qu Zhiheng had no choice but to listen to their arrangement, stood up, and followed them out.
Arriving in front of a two-story building, Lin Yaxin curled her lips and said, "Sister Bai, why don't you treat us to a working dinner after all the fuss?" It turned out that there were two obvious entrance halls protruding from the two-story building.
Big characters----restaurant.
"It's not like you don't know my habits." Sister Bai entered the restaurant, paused, and then said, "If you don't bring anyone here, I think I will treat you to a big dinner."
The latter sentence made Qu Zhiheng a little embarrassed. Hearing what Sister Bai said, it seemed that she was not willing to help him. In other words, she didn't want to see a doctor for herself.
"Don't mind, that's just how she is." Lin Yaxin said to Qu Zhiheng, and then pulled Qu Zhiheng into the restaurant.
However, I have to say that the food in the restaurant here is still very good. After all, this is not an ordinary place.
Soon, the three of them finished their meal. Sister Bai said, "Okay, you can go. He can just stay."
"Then I'll trouble Sister Bai." Lin Yaxin stood up and said, "Cooperate well with Sister Bai." The latter sentence was obviously meant for Qu Zhiheng.
Qu Zhiheng nodded, and Lin Yaxin turned and left. It seemed that she knew that Sister Bai would not see her off.
At this time, Qu Zhiheng watched Lin Yaxin leave with a hint of reluctance... Perhaps it was because the person he had to face alone was Sister Bai, a person he met for the first time and was unsmiling and even cold.
There is always an uncomfortable feeling in my heart, which is why I have such thoughts.
"Are you full? Let's go." After Sister Bai said that, she immediately stood up and left. Qu Zhiheng had no choice but to follow behind her.
Returning to Sister Bai's psychology department on the second floor of the hospital, Sister Bai motioned Qu Zhiheng to lie down on the examination bed. Looking at the white sheets on the bed, Qu Zhiheng was about to take off his shoes and lie down on it. Seeing Qu Zhiheng's movements, Sister Bai frowned.
Said: "You don't need to take off your shoes, just lie down on it."
This made Qu Zhiheng feel a little confused. He had heard that doctors asked patients to take off their shoes and lie down on the hospital bed. This was the first time that they were not allowed to take off their shoes. Although he felt a little strange, Qu Zhiheng still listened to Sister Bai's words.
, and lay down with his shoes on. However, his shoes were not clean after all. Looking at the white sheets, Qu Zhiheng moved down slightly and hung his feet outside the end of the hospital bed.
Seeing Qu Zhiheng's movements, Sister Bai's frowned eyebrows relaxed, as if she was very satisfied with his movements.
"Relax now and don't think about anything." Sister Bai said, putting on her white coat again, and instantly transformed back into a doctor's attire.
"Are you going to hypnotize me next?" Qu Zhiheng asked. He had seen many psychiatrists use this technique to treat patients. Of course, he saw it on TV. But he still couldn't help it.
This question was asked.
Although Sister Bai has always been serious about her words, she was still made to laugh and cry by Qu Zhiheng's words.
"Ahem, cough, cough." Sister Bai coughed a few times before she suppressed her smile, and then said seriously: "No, it's not necessary. Those things on TV are all lies. In fact, psychological
The most effective and commonly used method for doctors is to chat and communicate with patients. Only by chatting and communicating can we understand the patients' mental knots and guide them to open up their mental knots, thus curing their psychological disorders, which can also be said to be psychological diseases. Of course, hypnosis
Therapy is also a method, but in our field, hypnotherapy does not advocate its use. It will only be used unless you encounter a patient who has a psychological shadow and instinctively resists thinking about it."
Sister Bai is unambiguous when it comes to her professional knowledge.
"Oh, so that's it." Qu Zhiheng said.
"Okay, try to relax now. Don't think of me as a doctor. Just think of our conversation as a chat between friends." Sister Bai said, moved a chair and sat next to Qu Zhiheng.
Down.
"Okay." Qu Zhiheng said, slowly relaxing in his heart, intending to follow what Sister Bai said and not regard this conversation as therapy, but only as a conversation between two friends.
"I heard from Yaxin that you are still in school now?" Sister Bai asked.
Qu Zhiheng replied: "Yes, I am studying at Guangyuan University."
"How are your academic performance?" Sister Bai continued to ask.
"It's okay. I can't say it's good, but I can't say it's bad either." Qu Zhiheng continued.
"Well, how are your interpersonal relationships at school?" Sister Bai asked again.
Qu Zhiheng thought for a while and said: "Some relationships are good, some are average. Of course, there are also bad relationships."
"No, you are not relaxed enough." Sister Bai suddenly stood up and said. From her conversation with Qu Zhiheng, she could feel that Qu Zhiheng was not relaxed. What she wanted Qu Zhiheng to do was
It's like a conversation between friends, rather than a question-and-answer system.
Sister Bai thought for a moment and said, "I can't blame you. After all, it's the first time we've met. Psychologically, it's hard for you to treat me as a friend, but you can only treat me as a doctor. Well, let's change
When you ask me, you are only allowed to ask about my situation. After you get to know me better, it will be easier for you to treat me as a friend."
Qu Zhiheng nodded and said: "Okay, let me ask Sister Bai first, what is your name? You can't be friends who don't know your name, right? My name is Qu Zhiheng, maybe you already know it."
Sister Bai said: "My name is Bai Jie, clean Jie. You call me Bai Jie or Bai Jie, they are the same." As she said that, a rare smile appeared on her face.
I have to say that Bai Jie looks pretty when she smiles.
Qu Zhiheng asked again: "Looking at you at such a young age, how could you become a psychiatrist?"
Bai Jie shook her head and said: "This is my specialty abroad. In fact, psychiatrist is just a popular name in the Chinese cultural context. There is no word psychiatrist in English. It is usually called a psychological counselor, or a psychologist.
Therapist or counseling psychologist, clinical psychologist, marriage counselor.”
"I have a question, I don't know whether I should ask it." Qu Zhiheng said.
"Ask." Sister Bai said, "As long as it doesn't involve other aspects, I can answer you."
"Lin Yaxin brought me here so that you can provide psychological counseling. But I always feel that you seem to be unwilling to treat patients with mental illness. I wonder if this is my misunderstanding?" Qu Zhiheng asked cautiously. This kind of question
, some involve a sense of privacy.
Sure enough, after hearing Qu Zhiheng's question, Bai Jie looked at Qu Zhiheng with sharp eyes, looking at Qu Zhiheng with uneasiness, and said: "Well, I just asked casually, if there is any difficulty,
You don’t need to answer.”
It is said that the eyes are the windows to the soul, and this is absolutely true. Especially for a psychiatrist like Bai Jie, human eyes are the best way to directly see through the human heart. Seeing Qu Zhiheng has no other meaning, really
After asking casually, Bai Jie breathed a sigh of relief and said, "This is actually not a difficult question to answer. It doesn't hurt to tell you."
After a pause, Bai Jie continued: "The work of a professional psychological counselor mainly includes the following: obtaining information about the visitor's psychological problems and psychological disorders from information sources such as the visitor and their family members; providing information on the visitor's psychological growth
, comprehensive assessment of personality development, intelligence, socialization, family, marital life events, etc., and summary of psychological and physiological tests; based on the results of psychological development history and psychophysiological tests, make a psychological diagnosis and formulate a psychological treatment plan for the visitor,
And provide guidance on implementation; if a client is found to have a mental disorder or physical illness during psychological consultation, he or she should promptly request consultation or be transferred to another specialty.
Specifically, there are 1. Psychological crisis intervention: psychological intervention taken when a person encounters heavy psychological trauma and blows, such as the loss of ideals, goals and careers, the unexpected death of relatives, the deterioration of interpersonal relationships, etc., leading to a sharp mental breakdown.
consult.
2. Counseling on life problems: including love, marriage, family and sexual problems, choices for further education and employment, maladjustment, learning difficulties, poor child behavior, interpersonal problems, and various mental health problems such as alcohol and drug dependence.
3. Physical and mental disease consultation: Many physical diseases, such as hypertension, coronary heart disease, tumors, etc., the occurrence, development and outcome of the disease are also related to psychological and social factors. Psychological consultation can be carried out in time to relieve psychological pressure.
To prevent physical diseases from getting worse.
4. Mental disorder consultation: If you suffer from neurosis, personality changes or other mental disorders, you can seek medical advice on issues such as drug treatment, social function rehabilitation, marriage and childbirth.
5. Consultation on other mental health issues: such as family and group mental health issues, psychological consultation can also be provided.
Psychiatrists must not only have a certain level of professional knowledge, but also have certain professional qualities.
There are many causes of psychological problems or mental illnesses, among which issues such as conflicts and frictions between people, love and marriage, family conflicts, parent-child relationships, college entrance examinations, employment choices, etc. are particularly prominent. At the same time, a lot of people's privacy is involved, and some
The meeting is very story-telling. Keeping clients confidential becomes the basic moral character and primary quality of a psychiatrist."
This was the first time Qu Zhiheng heard about the profession of a psychologist. He couldn't help but concentrate on it and nodded frequently when he heard it.
"However, the living conditions of psychological counselors and psychotherapists are not as glamorous as people imagine. We sacrifice and damage high-end emotions and emotions. Psychological counseling is not as simple as a factory producing a product. I am a
Ordinary people will cry when they see some sad scenes in movies, let alone a real person sad in front of you? Due to work reasons, most of the dark side of society and negative information that psychological counselors have learned in their career is
N times more people. Therefore, there are already quite a few psychological counselors who cannot bear the influence of such negative emotions and commit suicide. This is also the reason why I hate this profession." Bai Jie said.
"Then why do you continue to do this? Since you hate it, wouldn't it be better to change your career?" Qu Zhiheng's sympathy was mobilized.
Bai Jie shook her head and said: "People always have to adapt. I am now controlling the number of patients I see. Maybe in the future, I will quit this industry. Having said that, aren't you the same now?
Is it a situation? You can’t help yourself?”
Hearing Bai Jie's words, Qu Zhiheng felt sad. Bai Jie was right, he really couldn't help himself now. After all, he couldn't stop the public opinion of his classmates.
"Let me ask you a question, do you think you did the right thing in this incident? Do you regret it?" Bai Jie asked after seeing Qu Zhiheng's gloomy expression.
At this moment, Qu Zhiheng's spirit had completely relaxed. Facing Bai Jie's question, he really felt that his friend was asking him questions, and he forgot that Bai Jie was a psychiatrist.
After a long time, Qu Zhiheng raised his head and said: "I don't regret it, I think I did the right thing. Because the guy I killed at that time was a mercenary. Who knows if they can't achieve their goal?
What kind of crazy move did he make? It turns out that his accomplice at the time, that woman, was also a madman. He planted a bomb in a large auditorium with so many people. What is he other than a madman?" Although his voice was not loud, Qu Zhiheng's tone was still...
Full of determination.
"Then for what purpose did you kill him?" Bai Jie's eyes showed a look of joy.
"Survival, self-protection. My mind was almost blank at the time, but it was also very confusing. However, I can definitely do it for self-protection and survival. Don't put some heroic halo with me, it doesn't match.
Bian. I never thought about saving so many lives." Qu Zhiheng said with certainty.
"Then do you feel ashamed now? Well, I mean, after all, you have become a hero in the eyes of your classmates, but you did it to protect yourself." Bai Jie asked with a smile.
"Ashamed? What do I have to be ashamed of? Not everyone sees me as a hero, right? Some classmates see me as a murderer, right?" Qu Zhiheng said this and smiled. However, he was not as helpless as before.
A wry smile. A smile in the true sense.
Bai Jie stood up and said: "Okay, that's it for today. We will continue tomorrow. You can move freely now. Well, have you seen those old men outside? If you have nothing to do, you can go and chat with them. Next
Play chess. I will arrange a place for you to stay later, you don’t have to worry, just go."
Qu Zhiheng sat up from the hospital bed and asked, "Does this count as treating me?" It felt strange. He didn't feel that Bai Jie had given him any treatment at all?
However, in the end, he still remembered that he vented some of his somewhat angry emotions.
Bai Jie seemed a little tired. She picked up the towel on the side and washed it. She wiped the sweat on her face and said, "Yeah, what? You still want to continue?"
"Thank you, Sister Bai." Qu Zhiheng thanked him sincerely, because he saw the fine beads of sweat on Bai Jie's face. However, he was still a little confused. He just talked once and was so tired?
Seeing Qu Zhiheng's look, Bai Jie said, "What? You don't believe me?"
Qu Zhiheng was a little confused by Bai Jie's words and didn't know what the other person meant.
"I told you, psychological counselors need to bear a lot of negative information. Seeing the sweat on my face, do you think it is incredible that you will be so tired after just one conversation?" Bai Jie asked, her tone a little playful.
.
Qu Zhiheng smiled coquettishly and said nothing.
"You won't notice it yourself, but in the end when I asked those key questions, all the anger in your heart was vented towards me. Therefore, I will be affected by you. But you won't feel it yourself, you will only
I feel relaxed. As a psychological counselor, I will not lie to my patients." Sister Bai threw the used towel into the basin and said while holding the basin.
"Okay, no need to say thank you, this is what I should do. You can go downstairs and relax." Sister Bai said, carrying the washbasin and going out.