Murong Nong, however, did not notice Duan Ye's unhealthy expression at all, and said excitedly: "...Mr. Governor, although I am young, I am ambition, but I am not young at all. Hahaha, let me say
Some boastful words, my sister is also the most compatible girl among the current female protagonists.
Duan Ye adjusted his emotions and said, "Will the sister himself be willing?"
"Ah?" Murong Nong obviously didn't react.
"I mean," Duan Ye said patiently, "This marriage is a big deal, it is related to a woman's life. Didn't you ask Miss Murong what she meant?"
"Uh..." Murong Nong obviously didn't think of this, and he said naively: "This is a matter of course for a woman to get married, and so, isn't this all the orders of her parents and the words of the matchmaker?"
"It's not possible in my place!" Duan Ye said directly
"Ah?" Murong Nong suddenly felt a little incredible. He said that Lord Duan was different from ordinary people and had many confusing things. Is this the same thing in this marriage?
Duan Ye said with a serious and earnest voice, "Others say that men are superior to women, and women are inferior to each other. Women should follow the orders of their parents and matchmakers when they get married, but this is not true for me!"
"What do you think is appropriate?"
"Since she is my wife, she must really want to marry me, not her father and brother want her to marry me. Do you understand?"
Murong Nong nodded silently
"So, Brother Murong, to be honest, based on what you said and what I know, Ling Mei is indeed a good girl, but please be honest, I can't accept this method, if Ling Mei is really willing to be with me
I want to get her own words”
After saying that, Duan Ye gently picked up the teacup. The meaning was very obvious. He had already said that he had said everything he should say. You should consider it yourself. I am going to see off the guests!
Murong Nong shrugged and had to stand up and say goodbye
After Murong Nong left, Liu Yiru, Bald Fa Ling, Zhe Yannalan and his group of women walked out of the back room. For a moment, the room was fragrant and fragrant. It turned out that Duan Ye and Murong Nong were just talking, they
A few are worried and have been eavesdropping behind
Duan Ye frowned and said, "You guys, I said I don't want it, you insist on it. Murong Nong is very capable, but he is not convenient for him to have an attack. I tell you, you must have been discovered by him long ago!"
Liu Yiru didn't say anything. Zhe Yannalan was very favored recently. She said with confidence: "So what if you are discovered? What dares he do?"
Duan Ye shook his head helplessly. Since Zhe Yannalan moved into the governor's mansion, although he had not yet achieved good things with Duan Ye, he had completely regarded himself as Mrs. Duan, and the place where she came was Yifu tribe!
The place is different from other places. Liu Yiru comes from Jiangnan. The place is naturally full of literary style. The Tufa Ling comes from the Tufa tribe. He deals with Han people all year round. The tribe's upper class is seriously sinicized and they also admire the Han culture. Therefore, the Han women's
He is subtle and knows a little bit about bald spirit, but sometimes he can't help but can't help but be unable to control himself, and Lan Xin and Jiang Yu naturally need not say that both of them are more subtle.
Only Zhe Yannalan is brave and dares to say anything. She always doesn't care about her image. She has made everyone know about the governor's office.
But Duan Ye is too busy and neglects to discipline, and now he has become a fait accompli
Although Zhe Yannalan is wearing silk, she looks like a woman from Jiangnan, and even her hairstyle has been replaced with cute twin temples, but seeing her jumping and looking at her ladies, there are so many ladies in her family who can pretend to be
of
"Okay, OK," Duan Ye waved his hand, "Murong Nong comes today, it is a state affairs, but since he wants to come to talk about marriage, it must be a family matter. Now Lan Xin is going to find a master, Yu'er is going to the Western Regions again, you are the ones
I want to discuss with you some at home.”
"What else can I discuss about this?" Zhe Yannalan said, "It's clear that you just wanted to marry someone."
"Where do I have it!" Duan Ye hurriedly shouted, "You didn't hear me. Have I rejected me just now?"
"Hmph!" Zhe Yannalan snorted heavily, "Do you think I don't understand? Tell you! I've learned the idiom. You are a move among you Han people, called the tactic of hard to get! Hahaha, you know
I know that the Murong family really wants to marry you. You don’t have to worry about anyone anyway, so you deliberately want to keep his appetite, right?"
Duan Ye was shocked and had to admit that this little girl was very accurate in seeing it, but she still had this idea.
Of course, what I said to Murong Nong just now is definitely the truth. If the marriage makes it possible to marry an enemy, it will definitely not work. The person next to me is not the same as me, how bad would it be?
Moreover, the best result is that the marriage of the two is a political marriage, but they can truly develop feelings and love each other, which is perfect. Duan Ye doesn't even want to get married first and fall in love first, but fall in love first.
Once you get married, Duan Ye will have a clear mind if he has a emotional foundation.
Having said that, what Zhe Yannalan said is not unreasonable. Marriage is essentially about doing business. People give away their daughters and are a living person. Of course, if you want to get something, you will definitely not be able to get it for nothing.
But since it is a business, you can ask for a lot of money and pay it back on the ground, depending on your ability. The tactic of trying to get is indeed a test-making skill that has not changed for thousands of years. Why not use it?
But as soon as Zhe Yannalan said just now, the three girls looked at him in unkindly, and Duan Ye knew that this would never be admitted, because there was a very important thing, that was, they were
, I haven't even settled my status yet!
The issue of status is really important. Duan Ye used to think that the ancients were polygamous. As long as a man was capable and women were willing, then he would still marry as much as he wanted.
But when Duan Ye really started to consider these issues and began to ask people about specific details, he realized how naive he was.
In fact, in ancient China, except for primitive society, once entering a civilized society and having written etiquette and law, it was never polygamy, but monogamy and polygamy system.
Because the wife is the one who is in charge of the family and is a formal marriage, she must tell the people of the ancestors of heaven and earth that they have a high status and represent the entire family of their wives. Of course, they cannot be neglected. The old saying goes, "There are no two lords in the princes", which means even if they are not even a lord.
Even if it is the emperor and the princes cannot marry two wives at the same time, so there is usually only one wife, and the others are concubines.
Only then did the Duanye realize that in fact, the main reason for taking concubines was not to be lustful, but to continue the family line, because the child is too easy to die. If the child born by the wife dies or cannot give birth to a son,
What else can I do if I take a concubine?
There is a clear boundary between a wife and a concubine. In fact, generally speaking, the status of a wife and a husband is equal in terms of law and principle. Since the wife has paid homage to God and her ancestors before, even after death,
To enter the clan tablet, the children born to be born are legitimate, and the legitimate son can inherit the title, but the concubine is different. Strictly speaking, the concubine is not considered a member of the family, but is treated as the owner and can be bought and sold at will.
The items are like a horse or a treasure sword, and the concubine will not be included in the clan tablet after death. The children born to be born as concubines and cannot be inherited. However, the family property can be divided unless in a very special situation, the wife does not have it.
The son can be promoted to the title, but even if this happens, the mother of the concubine's legal sense is still the father's wife. If you care about your own mother, you can only call her aunt.
Duan Ye hated this very much, so after Duan Ye's career had just gained some foundation. After gaining a foothold in Dunhuang, he once called his own women to have a meeting, and at that time he said that his future home,
Everyone should be equal, and no such things that go against human nature can happen.
But later Duan Ye realized that he was a little too ideal. In fact, the so-called three wives and four concubines later developed into one positive wife, two equal wives and four concubines. This is the specific method of three wives and four concubines. This is why it is like this.
It is precisely because Duan Ye is facing the problem that people often face in the past, that is, marriage.
Marriage is a political need. Could it be that because they already have a wife, you won’t marry someone?
For political benefit, it is necessary to give your daughter
But the problem is that if you send a woman to be a concubine, of course they won’t have any objection, but if you are in your own face, you can’t help but say that you want your daughter to follow her. The purpose is nothing more than to be favored and can influence your husband.
, For example, blowing the wind beside the pillow, and then seeking benefits for your family
But a concubine has no status and no weight in speaking, so how can she talk about anything else?
But if you want to change the monogamy system for many years, it is impossible, so the smart ancients began to adapt to the fact that you married a wife before. It was a formal marriage between the media. We have nothing to say. She started early, so she should still be a wife.
But we are also rich families. Do you marry you as a young man? That doesn't work, absolutely not, just marry you as a fair wife? The so-called fair wife means having a legal status and admitting that you are a member of the family, not a concubine.
To terminate a marriage, you have to write a divorce letter. You cannot give it to someone like a concubine, but your status is still lower than that of a wife.
Since it is a marriage, it is likely not once. For convenience, it is usually two. There is a saying that one is a righteous wife, two is a common wife and four concubines, that is, three wives and four concubines.
But what is certain is that the position of Duan Ye’s wife in his heart will never be left to the person who married him. This is nothing to think about.