Many things, even if everyone knows them well, are not suitable to be spoken out publicly and directly. They are vague, but a necessary choice.
For example, a woman's boudoir name
Of course, ethics are not so strict nowadays. You must keep your moral integrity if you don’t remarry. That is only after Neo-Confucianism is prevalent. Today’s women are now. If you like men, you can pursue them. If your husband dies, you can remarry, but your name cannot be said.
, mainly because there is a "name-question" link in the six marriage rituals.
If a man and woman want to get married, after the man’s family performs a ceremony, he will ask the matchmaker to ask the woman’s name, date of birth and time so that the man can ask questions, decide whether to get married or not, and what is the good or bad luck, after all, if you marry a real wife,
Marrying is an important part of the family and a lifelong companion. In this era, you must consider your birth date and horoscope, and consider whether you will win your husband and wealth in the future. You must be cautious.
Although you can ask about the name of a girl's house, as long as you want to inquire, you will know directly. This is a very embarrassing thing.
Duan Ye is a casual person and didn't care much about these things, but Cui Hao and others repeatedly instilled with him six essential procedures in the wedding, and told him that these things are big things, so they really can't be careless.
The career was also concerned. After all, this was a marriage with the royal family, but I didn't expect that I would follow it. Fu Bao, the girl, was quite impatient.
For a moment, both sides were a little embarrassed, so they didn't know what to say
Qiu'er was still sharp-eyed. In order to avoid a cold situation, she took the opportunity to come up and said, "Prince..."
The voice was soft and happy, Duan Ye was quite happy when he looked at the pretty maid and joked, "You girl, although I was named Prince by Your Majesty, you are the one around the princess, how can you
Call me that's it"
"If you don't call that, what's the name?" Qiu'er said with a silly look on her face.
"Call..." Duan Ye was about to say "Call her husband", but when he thought that the opposite side was not an ordinary woman after all, but a dignified princess. Now that he hadn't passed by, you would tease her maid before he could pass the door. It was not a good thing, so he endured it.
"What's the name? Sir, why are you trying to speak but stopping?" Qiu'er refused to let go of her.
"Whatever you like, just call it," Duan Ye said helplessly.
"Qiu'er! Don't be naughty!" Fu Bao glared at Qiu'er, "I'll call you sir now, and... what should I call you in the future? Madam will teach you!"
"Oh!" Although Qiu'er nodded obediently, the smile on her face could not be hidden at all.
Of course Duan Ye knew why she laughed and called her master now. She would have to call her master in the future. Fu Bao was really married, and Qiu'er could still escape?
Before we knew it, the group had left Chang'an City and arrived at the former site of Shanglinyuan in Lantian County.
The content of Shanglin Garden is a palace and garden group established by Emperor Wu of Han Liu Che in the past. It can be used to work and live, hunt and play, and the emperor's personal army can also conduct military training. However, later, the Red Eyebrow Army entered Chang'an and destroyed it.
The glorious Shanglin Garden was torched
Originally, Shanglin Garden was more than 300 miles away, but now the group went to Lantian County, which is closest to the city. After the demise of the Western Han Dynasty, Chang'an declined relatively. Even if the Qin Dynasty regards Chang'an as its capital, it can only manage the surrounding area of Chang'an City and
Fu Jian, the other military fortresses in Guanzhong, doesn’t like luxurious show too much, so of course it is impossible to rebuild Shanglinyuan.
Shanglin Garden, which was once a palace, has now become a wild land, with wild beasts rampant, which is a good place for princes and nobles to hunt.
Along the way, Duan Ye and Fu Bao gradually became embarrassed. Although they were very ordinary little things, Duan Ye spoke carefully, Fu Bao listened seriously, and occasionally came a few people without any habit.
The joke made Fu Bao very happy
Qiu'er followed behind, looked at Duan Ye disdainfully and said, "This person, he has a very thin lips, so why is he so greasy and smooth-tongued!"
But Duan Ye is quite moved now. Shanglinyuan was once a place where the emperor hunted and enjoyed, but he had been sparsely populated along the way, and gradually became empty. Looking around, there was a lot of trees and almost no roads. Many years ago, here
Maybe it's where the emperor and his concubines enjoy themselves
Thinking of the change of things and the world changes, Duan Ye couldn't help but sigh
"Why did Shimin sigh?" The two were already quite familiar with each other just now, so Fu Bao simply called Duan Ye's word "大". Although this was called by Lu Guang, Duan Ye was also very satisfied with this word, which was considered to be Li Shimin
Say respect
Fu Bao has a noble status and cannot be regarded as an ordinary woman, so he also respects both parties. Duan Ye raised his horse whip, swept it gently, and said, "Look, there are still some ruins here, maybe this place was a palace in the past!
It's like this now. If Liu Che knew that the place he worked hard to manage was now home to birds and beasts, I don't know what he thought."
"This..." Fu Bao was suddenly asked. Liu Che's evaluation in history books was actually very polarized. He specialized in salt and iron, attacked the Huns in the north, and his martial arts were powerful. He could be said to be a wise man, but the opposition said that he was a powerful man.
He lost all the money that Wen Jing accumulated. When he was old, his father and son killed his own son Liu Ju. Almost everyone has a different view of him.
However, Duan Ye asked that, and he didn't expect Fu Bao to answer. He said, "It's a pity that Liu Che, although a genius of generation, still can't see clearly or thoroughly. This magnificent palace will not have to be in the end.
What is the purpose of turning it into a piece of loess?”
Qiu'er was dissatisfied with her hearing, and she said, "My sir, this is a bad thing."
"Oh?" Duan Ye was a little curious, "Qiu'er, what do you think?"
Qiu'er was quite fierce, and since Fu Bao didn't stop her, she said boldly, "Sir, the king must rely on cultural education and martial arts to educate, but these alone are not enough! Just talk about the great practice.
Palaces and gardens are not just for their own enjoyment. The truth is very profound.”
"I wish to hear it carefully." Duan Ye looked sincere and had no airs at all
"Sir, think about it," Qiu'er said proudly, "How many of these people who can become kings, except for those who have been raised in the deep palace since childhood and have never seen the world? I'm afraid there are very few of them.
Can you not know the reason why you can't enjoy the overhaul of palaces and gardens? "