Instead of making decisions for their children, it is more appropriate for parents to analyze the situation they are facing for their children.
After Yao Xiaojing made this bold decision, the Yao family's parents could only rely on the unique endurance of soldiers to order themselves to quickly get over the shock.
In fact, they all understand that their daughter's study at the Massachusetts Institute of Technology in the United States will be of great help to her future life, and they should fully support it. However, as parents, on the one hand, they hope that their children will make achievements, but on the other hand, they do not want their children to make achievements.
Chi Yuyan, in particular, relied on her mother's sensitivity to intuit that her daughter's behavior was directly related to the military cadets living in the surgical ward.
She could see how deeply painful the pain in the eyes of her daughter who suddenly returned to Beijing was. The empty and melancholy consciousness often made her have to stress and repeat her words several times before her daughter could hear her words clearly. Full of heartache and pity,
However, she could only remain a bystander, helpless in the face of her daughter's pain.
She once stubbornly believed that an 18-year-old did not understand love, let alone the responsibilities of life. However, after seeing Xiaojing's state, she overturned her previous thoughts. She felt that people of any generation and age, as long as it is because of
Because of love, she or he will mature quickly. Only after being hurt and falling down can the road ahead be smoother.
Everything will get better, time will smooth away the trauma, including the unforgettable memories that can't be thrown away, will be wiped away with the transfer of time and space, in the ticking of the hour and second hands.
"It's very late, so I won't bother you. My uncle and aunt should go to bed early, and Xiaojing, after a tiring day, go to bed early." Qin Zhelang politely said goodbye, leaving time and space for the family of three who had finally reunited.
"Xiaojing, go see Qin off... Oh... It's Zhelang, right... Look, auntie, her memory is always bad..." Chi Yuyan pushed Yao Xiaojing to Qin Zhelang's side, making the stupid
My daughter gave me a gift to this visiting professor who was very good-looking and seemed to be very interesting to her.
Wait until the young people go out.
Chi Yuyan suddenly fell down and sat down on the hospital bed. She complained to her husband who was lying on the pillow about to read the newspaper: "Look... I know how to read your tattered newspaper! My daughter brought a boy to the house, what did you do?
It’s like wood...can’t you greet others for me?”
Yao Zhiyuan knew that she was hiding something in her heart, so he had to pretend to be stupid and said: "Why don't you say hello? Xiaojing's teacher is not her boyfriend."
Chi Yuyan glared at him angrily: "I think their relationship is not simple."
Yao Zhiyuan disagreed. His own daughter's heart was as transparent as a snowflake. Only he, his father, understood her thoughts best. He turned to the front page of the newspaper and said in a calm tone: "I don't think so..."
"What do you know? Not necessarily... Not necessarily... They have personally escorted Xiaojing back to Beijing, can this relationship still be normal?" Chi Yuyan has a very good impression of Qin Zhelang. She is like all those who worry about the emotional problems of their children.
Like a mother, I hope Qin Zhelang can lead Yao Xiaojing out of the emotional quagmire.
Yao Zhiyuan put down the newspaper, looked at his beloved wife helplessly and said, "Can we stop guessing and ask Xiaojing later to understand everything..."
Chi Yuyan ignored him and kept arranging the clothes at hand, muttering angrily: "Don't think that I don't know about you secretly visiting that boy. You, Xiao Yang and that clouded leopard secretly went behind my back several times.
The discussion in the next room must have something to do with him! Yao Zhiyuan, let me warn you... If you are soft-hearted and betray me, I will make it clear to you that there is no way for us to remarry!" I thought.
Her threats were effective, but who knew that there was no movement for the first half of the day.
Taking a closer look, it turned out that her husband was lost in thought.
That's okay, she frowned and her tone suddenly rose an octave: "Yao Zhiyuan...where are you looking! You can't listen to my words anymore, can you!"
"Hmm... Listen... Listen..." Yao Zhiyuan hurriedly stared at his angry wife with wide eyes, and explained with a flattering expression: "Look, where did you say... I promised you
, your decision is my decision...what are you worried about!"
Chi Yuyan glanced at Yao Zhiyuan's resolute and square silhouette, and said in a cool tone: "I'm sorry you don't dare!"
Yao Zhiyuan smiled and sighed, pointing at her with a helpless and annoyed expression...
Here we go again...
Every time there was a dispute, as long as he dared to disobey even a little bit, Chi Yuyan would immediately use ruthless moves to grab his weak spots, making him unable to fight.
Yao Zhiyuan had no choice but to think of the hero lying in the surgical ward who had just defended national sovereignty and military honor. He struggled and hesitated to risk his life to comfort Chi Yuyan: "My daughter has grown up and has her own ideas and life plans.
As long as it is within a reasonable range, we parents should support it. You...you should also consider your child's wishes." Although he was talking about Xiaojing's future, he obviously meant something.
At this time, Chi Yuyan was afraid that her daughter would have anything to do with Chen Mufeng again. When she heard her husband's words, she couldn't help but feel angry. She rolled her eyes and stood up to leave.
"Yuyan...I didn't say..." Yao Zhiyuan knew he had made a mistake again...
"If you are my soldier! I have to put you in solitary confinement!" Chi Yuyan angrily dropped these threatening words and opened the door.
"Where are you going...it's snowing outside!" he shouted anxiously...
"Bang-------" The door was slammed shut.
Yao Zhiyuan rubbed his head slumped and sighed... He is such a fool. As a dignified general and deputy chief of the General Staff, when he encounters emotional problems in life, he can't find the answer...
It seems that when promoting officers in the future, we must also pay attention to the cultivation of emotional intelligence...
It's extremely cold in Beijing late at night.
Goose-feather-like snowflakes scattered in all directions with the early wind. The bone-gnawing cold air penetrated people's clothes. After just standing on the roadside for a while, Qin Zhelang felt that his legs were numb from the cold. He turned around and glanced at the hospital that had disappeared.
The slender figure in the bright light, his eyes flashed in the deep night, and fell into silence.
His lonely figure stood in the wind and snow on the roadside, quietly waiting for rental.
The plane took off and returned to Changsha two hours later, returning to the girl who was waiting for him alone...
Zhelang, are you home soon? My cake is ready. It's ugly... but it tastes good... I have a big piece left for you... Zhelang....
He raised his head, his handsome face facing the cold and crystal snowflakes, and he could not regain his senses for a long time.