Yan Ning can't say he has any good impressions of Qian Xiaoyu. I guess Qian Xiaoyu treats Yan Ning the same way. But no matter what, the two of them can still be regarded as friends, especially today. Qian Xiaoyu gritted his teeth and went to help Yan Ning meet his colleagues.
It would be hard for anyone to feel sarcastic and sarcastic during communication, so for that matter, Yan Ning was very grateful to Qian Xiaoyu from the bottom of his heart.
In addition, look at others and reflect on yourself. Yan Ning quietly compared with Qian Xiaoyu and found that if it were not for the secret control of the teacher, the help of the police, the support of Brother Zhonghua, the guidance of Minister Xu, and the support of Qian Liyun
, with Qu Yaoqin’s encouragement, I estimate that my current appearance is not much different from Qian Xiaoyu’s, it’s just that my personal circumstances are different.
"Qian Xiaoyu, don't think too much. It's not just you. Everyone who has just joined the workforce is like this. They bully students and are squeezed out. But without pressure, there is no motivation. We must turn grief and anger into appetite. Eat first and then eat.
You don't have the energy to fight them." Looking at Qian Xiaoyu's laziness, Yan Ning couldn't help but say that Qian Xiaoyu's attitude was wrong. He had no fighting spirit and no energy. No matter how high his academic ability or ability was, he was useless.
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"Fight? Why should I fight with them? They are either the niece of the mayor, the nephew of the secretary, or at last the daughter of the director, or the son of the deputy director. They want power, power, and money.
And what am I? I'm just a little worker's daughter. What's wrong with having a degree? It's just a piece of paper. What's wrong with being capable? You have to stand up without me. I'm an undergraduate, but I make copies for them in the office every day.
Materials, working as a typist, you can do this job after graduating from elementary school, why do you still need to go to college?" After hearing Yan Ning's words, Qian Xiaoyu was a little dissatisfied, threw away his chopsticks, and said angrily.
"Workers, what's wrong with workers? When workers and farmers combine, won't they also overthrow the rule of bureaucratic capitalism? You think it's wrong for your undergraduate student from the University of Chemical Technology to work as a typist. Then I, a graduate of Beijing University, will be assigned
I don’t know whether Donghai Town is aggrieved or not. I don’t know what others think, but I don’t feel aggrieved. The question is how well I did the work assigned to me. I want to ask you, have you done all the typing and copying?
If someone finds fault with you, let me tell you, you haven't done a good job. If you have done a good job, he can't find fault even if he wants to. Since there is nothing wrong with you, how dare he give you a little face?" Looking at Qian Xiaoyu's nagging,
Yan Ning is very rude. Her attitude of having high ambitions and low abilities is often seen in graduates who have just started working. The results are nothing more than two. One is to change their ideas, adapt to the environment, and gradually be assimilated; the other is to
They pack their bags and leave, looking for a job that suits them. However, this kind of person cannot bear even small setbacks and cannot achieve much in a short period of time. When all the edges and corners of his body are rounded, he will look back many years later.
Full of emotions.
"Huh, they just have the power to look down on people. They treat their little problems as if they are something serious. If they don't hold them high, they will talk about people behind their backs and talk about being arrogant and evil. I'll
You are provoking someone." Qian Xiaoyu drank all the wine in the glass in one gulp and vented her dissatisfaction.
"Actually, this is understandable. When I was in school, conflicts between classmates and roommates were all trivial matters. There was no conflict of interest and it was over after the quarrel. But it's different now. You join the work, and then it's over.
Working in a powerful department, every position has huge benefits. Isn’t there a saying, cutting off someone’s financial path is like killing one’s parents. Whoever cuts off my financial path, I will kill the parents. Although it’s not that direct in the agency.
, but it’s not that bad. You are a college graduate and have an advantage in academic qualifications. Sooner or later, you will grow up. People regard you as a potential opponent. They don’t care who you are guarding against, and they don’t exclude anyone you exclude.”
Yan Ning knew that Qian Xiaoyu was confused and couldn't see the key to the problem for a while, so he analyzed it for her from the perspective of a bystander.
"Then I'm just going to endure it like this? Whoever is caught will be given a thumbs up, and whoever is touched will be hurt by a few words. If not exhausted to death, I will be pissed to death." Qian Xiaoyu finally understood Yan Ning's analysis and felt it.
This is true, but I am not reconciled to it or convinced.
"Endure it? Why endure it? Does what they said have anything to do with you? Just pretend you didn't hear it. I suggest you read a few books, such as "Old Fox Classic", "Cai Gen Tan", and "Hou Hei Xue"
If you just read a book like this, you will have a great understanding of how to deal with interpersonal relationships. In addition, when it comes to work, you should do your work in a down-to-earth manner, don’t ask, don’t fight, don’t grab, listen more, do more, and talk less.
During the New Year and festivals, go to the leader's house and walk around. Don't rush to express yourself. Treat yourself as an idler. If you have time, read more books. Get professional titles, academic qualifications, computer hardware, whatever you can get, and slowly accumulate them.
As for your own qualifications, society is always improving, and the same is true for an organization. When you are able to do some jobs that others cannot do, your leaders will naturally think of you. And because of your previous accumulation, you will be able to work smoothly.
, when you occupy a high position, no one will exclude you, and no one will dare to exclude you again. This is the path of growth that most civil servants take. Of course, there are different paths, but that path is definitely not something ordinary people can take.
Even if there is a chance to go on, without the support of strong forces, the foundation is still unstable, and it may not fall into the clouds anytime." During this period, Yan Ning secretly studied the leaders of Yulin County whenever he had time.
Resume, analyzing the experience of a certain leader at a certain stage through resume, gave Yan Ning a lot of gains.
"Well, think about it, what you said is not unreasonable. There really aren't many people who can do anything quickly. Maybe it's because I have a problem with people, or maybe I'm just too ambitious at work. Right?
My expectations are too high, otherwise since going to work, I always feel that everything I do is not going well and I am unhappy. Maybe you are really telling me. It seems that I have to adjust my life and work.
"After listening to Yan Ning's words, Qian Xiaoyu pondered for a long time, and finally seemed to come out of the dead end and began to constantly reflect on herself. Yan Ning knew that if she could see her shortcomings, she would not be too far away from correcting her mentality.
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That night, Qian Xiaoyu drank a lot of wine. First she drank because she was depressed, and then she drank because her ideas suddenly opened up. If Yan Ning hadn't shared a lot of the burden, she would probably have drank the entire bottle. Beifang.
People can drink and drink well. According to Qian Xiaoyu's description, his father was an industrial worker and the enamel jar he carried with him was full of wine. When working, he would take a few sips and start working with great energy. And she inherited
With her father's genes, she can also drink. A pound of wine is no big deal to her.
However, the end of the meal was that Qian Xiaoyu, who was full of thoughts, was drunk. He staggered when he walked, his tongue was a little straight, and his words were slurred. Not to mention very drunk, he was probably 70 or 80% drunk.
. Seeing her like this, Yan Ning was really worried about letting her go back alone, so he acted as a flower protector and sent her home.
Qian Xiaoyu's family lives in the southeast corner of Shuangjiang, near the efficiency area, which is the area for the families of rubber factory employees. After getting off the car, Qian Xiaoyu felt a lot more energetic after taking a nap in the car, so she held Yan Ning's arm
He raised his arm to prevent him from falling down. When he knocked on the door of Qian Xiaoyu's house, Qian Xiaoyu's parents were surprised. Qian Xiaoyu had not yet sobered up. Taking advantage of the alcohol, she pointed at Yan Ning with a nonchalant attitude and said:
"My classmate Yan Ning, if you have anything to do, you can ask him. I'll sleep for a while." After saying that, he pulled on his slippers and entered his room, throwing Yan Ning at the door, neither entering nor retreating.
Yan Ning didn't know if this was considered an introduction to her parents, but Yan Ning really felt embarrassed. She greeted Qian Xiaoyu's parents in a low voice and wanted to leave. Qian Xiaoyu's father glanced at Yan Ning.
Qian Xiaoyu's mother was silent and couldn't tell what she was thinking, but Qian Xiaoyu's mother just pulled Yan Ning into the house, not wanting to clarify the matter.
"Xiao Yan, what's going on? It's a class reunion, why did Xiaoyu drink so much?" Yan Ning had a headache for a while, and Qian Xiaoyu's mother had a cold attitude. It seemed that she had to find out the reason.
"Oh, aunt, it's not a party. I went to Qian Xiaoyu's work today to do some work, and we happened to meet each other, so we made an appointment to have dinner together. She might not be doing well at work and was not in a good mood, so we drank a few more drinks.
." This question is about your girl drinking too much. Wouldn't it be fine if you asked her back? Ask me as an outsider. We both drank together. She drank too much and I didn't drink too much. It seemed as if I had some agenda.
"Xiao Yan, where do you work? Are you and Xiaoyu just classmates?" As Yan Ning expected, this answer made Qian Xiaoyu's mother even more suspicious, and her tone became a little colder.
"Ah, Auntie, I work in Donghai Town, Yulin. Today I went to Shuangjiang for business. Don't get me wrong. Qian Xiaoyu and I are just ordinary classmates and have no special relationship." The words were a little unclear, and through Qian
Looking at Qian's mother's eyes, Yan Ning always felt that she was not a good person in Qian's mother's eyes, and her questions were like interrogations.
"Ah, Xiao Yan, young people should be down-to-earth and rely on themselves to fight for their future. Don't always think about building relationships and reaching the sky. Who of our generation doesn't rely on themselves? My Xiaoyu is still a girl, and she will have to find a man in the future.
A friend got married, with conditions as good as ours, Xiaoyu. Why can't you find a good family? She drank so much for the sake of friendship with her classmates. I know that Xiaoyu is an honest person, and she doesn't want to save the face of her classmates. I don't know, she is afraid of saying something unpleasant.
It’s just here. It always makes people misunderstand. In the future, you should stay together less and make peace.” My daughter didn’t tell her parents when she was in a bad mood, but she went drinking with you. Who are you kidding? Do you think we are all fools? Xiaoyu is in a large institution.
At work, this Yan Ning works in the countryside. It seems that he is looking for a relationship with his daughter. He is trying to get close to her. Maybe he wants to gain both personal and financial benefits. Well, this Yan Ning has a pretty face, which is not a good thing no matter how you look at it. Well, that's it.
What's going on is that Xiaoyu, a silly girl, doesn't know how to guard against anyone. Qian's mother said it with her mouth and thought in her heart, and settled the matter in a short while.