89. The frog at the bottom of the well does not know the heights of the sky and the depths of the earth
"Looking at Xiao Yan's extraordinary temperament and proper speech, I think he is also a cadre in the system. Well, he should still be a leader..." The review was carried out very thoroughly, but it was not Yan Ning who was reviewing Li Ji, but Li Ji's mother
When I was conducting a review for Li Ji, the review was very sharp. After asking about Xia Lian's situation, I pointed the finger at Yan Ning, which was very meaningful to trace the origin of Xia Lian's family and investigate the third generation.
From beginning to end, Li Ji's mother kept asking, saying that she wanted to find out the details of Yan Ning and Xia Lian. She looked like Yan Ning and Xia Lian sitting in front of her, who were two profound Taoist craftsmen.
She wanted to show her true colors in the question. However, facing Yan Ning's leaking answer, she also put a little bit of contempt and slowly suppressed that suspicious attitude.
After all, Yan Ning felt very uncomfortable after being young.
What made Yan Ning even more angry was that Li Ji's mother had nothing out of her extraordinary except for her arrogant and discomfortable posture. This was due to her concern for her children, and it would be reasonable to learn more about the situation.
.Li Ji's behavior is questionable. Apart from looking up from time to time and looking at Xia Lian and wanting to say something, he basically stays silent and keeps silent, just like a good baby. Obviously
There is no right to speak in front of his mother, and he is not a person who is responsible. Such a person is not worthy of Xia Lian, so Yan Ning denies it from the bottom of his heart.
However, Li Ji's mother was quite vicious, and she had been in the top position for a long time, with a transcendent leadership temperament, and in Yan Ning's often speaking and ease-based dialogue, it was basically determined that Yan Ning was also a cadre within the system.
When asked Yan Ning to understand the situation, he focused on Yan Ning's work and tentatively touched Yan Ning's background.
"I am doing audit work, and I am considered to be within the system. However, I can't be called a leader. I am just an ordinary middle-level cadre. Judging from my aunt's extraordinary demeanor and knows the situation within the system, I think she is also a leader.
"Li Ji's mother was touching Yan Ning's bottom, and Yan Ning was also touching her bottom. Although she had already had a clear idea of Xia Lian's marriage in her heart, it would be meaningless to understand or not.
But in order to make Xia Lian realize the facts and completely cut off this mind, Yan Ning still patiently followed the woman to attack. She was idle around and was just to be amused. And Yan Ning was also too.
I want to see where this woman got her confidence because of her arrogance.
"The Audit Bureau is a good unit. Moreover, Xiao Yan is a middle-level cadre at a young age. He is in charge of the situation and his future development is limitless..." Li Ji's mother praised Yan Ning for having a good job and a good future.
, but he didn't agree with it, and even a look of disdain flashed across his face. Although this expression was fleeting, he still recognized Yan Ning and captured it keenly. If Yan Ning hadn't let Xia Lian give up his thoughts
He always suppresses his personality and disdains to care about anything with such a woman, but he is afraid that he will even lack the interest in sitting down.
"I work in the Women's Federation, and I have no serious business all day long. Li Ji's father is the main leader in Kuandian City. He is busy with work all day and has no time to restrain Li Ji. If you want to say that this marriage is a big deal, you must be aware of the roots and the bottom line.
The parents are accused of making bad friends for their children and delaying their lives. Xiaoxia’s family is not in Gannan, so I will ask more and learn more about the unruly areas. Xiaoyan should not mind..."
Turns out, Li Ji's mother began to introduce herself, saying that she was quite polite, but she seemed to be used to being praised by others and being used to the style of a noble leader and wife. This sounds a bit like showing off.
, and also specifically emphasized the main words, and there was no sign of the rude expression on his expression, as if everything was so proper. However, Li Ji's mother said the words of her identity and status clearly, and even more
As a result of the traditional custom of being a good match, it was obvious that he did not like Xia Lian as his daughter-in-law, and implicitly warned Yan Ning and Xia Lian to get out of the difficult situation.
"Haha, it turns out that Li Ji's father is the mayor, and then the aunt is the mayor's wife. No wonder what she said makes sense. It's really a disrespect. It's a good match. Haha, it makes sense. If I want me to say, this marriage is good, too.
, Love is all about the basics and fate, from status, power and money, from small to food, clothing, housing and transportation, and living habits, they are all manifestations of a good match..." It was a coincidence that Yan Ning had learned about it all morning
With Kuandian's situation, he actually met the family of the Kuandian leader again. Yan Ning didn't know if he was really destined to Kuandian.
Ma Pengcheng, Secretary of the Kuandian Municipal Party Committee, and Li Xinming, are all people that Yan Ning is focusing on. Although he has never met them, Yan Ning is familiar with the relevant situation and cannot be familiar with it anymore. Listen to Li Ji's mother, he particularly emphasizes the main point.
With the words "leader", there is no need to say that the mother and son in front of him are Li Xinming's family. It's just that Li Xinming is very cautious and has such a pair of Hubao's family members. I really don't know whether he should be grateful or unlucky.
"For example, everyone has a similar political background, the same social circle, similar living habits, and common interests and hobbies in love, which is manifested in love, and the sound of the piano and the sound of the zither. But if it is a princess in the palace, the other one is not a good person.
The soft-boyed yamen is a person living in two worlds. If the family is not right and the family is not right, you will give them a common language. It is just a matter of talking about the ox and a mandatory matchmaking together, and there is no happiness.
So, I said that the aunt is a good match, and she is really aware of it..." I was worried about how to persuade her so that she could not hurt Xia Lian's feelings, but also let Xia Lian give up her thoughts. This mayor
The lady took the initiative to cooperate and took the lead in bringing up this opportunity. Yan Ning naturally would not let go of it. When the other party finished speaking, she immediately took the words and turned her head and smiled at Xia Lian, as if she was telling a truth.
In fact, he was persuading Xia Lian with some slightest meaning.
"Li Ji's father is the mayor of Kuandian. Looking at the entire Gannan, he is also a top-notch leading cadre. Our family is well-educated, has a good family, and has more girls who want to be friends with Li Ji.
They are all with family background and beautiful appearance. As a mother, I have to check it out for him. I can't let all people with ulterior motives deceive Li Ji's feelings by relying on their beautiful appearance...
"When hearing Yan Ning not only understood the implicit meaning of her words, but also took the initiative to analyze it for herself and explain Xia Lian, Li Ji's mother felt that Yan Ning was quite sensible and was complacent for her successful tricks. However,
Yan Ning's words became less and less prone to them. In the end, she compared her husband to an insignificant little official, and his beloved son became a soft-boy. This was not a bad thing, but not a soft-hearted person.
The person was so choking that he felt uncomfortable, which made Li Ji's mother's true anger come out. He immediately changed his conversation and became sarcastic and mean.
"Mom, why are you talking like this? You don't have to worry about my affairs..." Fortunately, Li Ji, the soft boy, was not stupid enough, and Yan Ning's conversation with her mother became more and more intense, and he finally made him
Something was wrong. Moreover, he didn't like Xia Lian when he heard his mother's intention. The details of Xia Lian's strong and arrogant personality that he had discussed with the two of them before were to use their own power to destroy Xia Lian's heart.
Likewise, he was anxious and couldn't help but scream. However, it was fine if he didn't speak, but he was still a little calm. This opening completely made a character who was ignorant, lacked in opinion and willful.
All were exposed, and the handsomeness she brought to Yan Ning at first completely disappeared, which made Yan Ning look quite frowning, and she felt helpless.
"Shut up, marriage is a big deal. What do you kid know? Our family is also a well-known, prestigious and status-based family. Not a cat or a dog can enter our house..."
The eldest son actually wanted to resist him. Li Ji's mother became even more angry, and her personality became stronger. In front of two outsiders, Yan Ning and Xia Lian, she shouted at her.
The soft-boy son came, and his angry expression and the sudden increase in volume immediately scared Li Ji to stop. He didn't dare to argue with his mother again. It was obvious that Li Ji's mother had a unique position in his family.
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"I can understand that aunt cares about the major events of her children's marriage. However, what I don't understand is that Xia Lian and Li Ji are colleagues at work and are good friends after work. If you say you care about each other, it would be
Should it be, is the sincere friendship between revolutionary comrades? But the two of them are ordinary friends, and they seem to have nothing to do with their boyfriends and girlfriends. Li Ji's father is the mayor, shepherds, or driving a car, this is it
It has nothing to do with my Xia Lian. Auntie, don’t make a mistake. It’s bad if you have a misunderstanding…” Judging from Li Ji’s mother’s performance, it also confirms Yan Ning’s evaluation of Li Ji being a soft boy.
, a typical soft boy who is young and has nothing to do with, looks glamorous and has no burden.
Putting aside Li Ji's weakness and incompetence, it is Li Ji's mother's domineering and overbearing personality. You can tell at a glance that she is not a person who is easy to get along with. If she is the daughter-in-law of such a woman, if she cannot lower her eyebrows and eyes, she will be able to look down.
He was so angry that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law could almost be foreseen. So, from any perspective, Yan Ning felt that Li Ji was not Xia Lian's good match. Since there would be no intersection, there was no need to be polite.
Yan Ning disdains to argue with a frog in the well, and does not know what to argue with a woman with high spirits. But Yan Ning disdain to argue does not mean that Yan Ning can be controlled by others, especially Li Ji's mother's words are actually belittled by Xia Lian.
Meaning, this is something Yan Ning cannot tolerate. If he does not fight back against this domineering woman, Yan Ning feels that he can be defeated.