Chapter 561: Marry and obey your husband (monthly ticket)
In Wu Fujin's carriage, Shi Fujin came to ask for advice on how to pay respects to the concubine.
Princess Duanshun was her great-aunt. She didn't know whether to go to the palace alone to pay her respects in the future, so she wanted to refer to Wufujin's approach.
Wu Fujin couldn't make up his mind after hearing this. He thought about it and said, "What do the ninth siblings say?"
Shifu Jin said: "I haven't asked yet..."
She just heard that Wu Fujin, in addition to following them to greet the Queen Mother, would sometimes greet the Queen Mother alone, so she wondered whether she should follow Wu Fujin's example.
She happened to find that Shu Shu had something to say with Si Fujin, so she got on Wu Fujin's carriage and asked about this.
Wu Fujin considered it and said: "It doesn't need to be a formality for now. When I meet the concubine in private later, it would be better to ask the concubine what she means."
According to etiquette, whether you marry into a royal family or into an ordinary family, your seniority and relationship must be calculated from your husband's family.
Just like Shu Shu and San Fujin, they are called "third sister-in-law" and "nine younger siblings" instead of "cousin" and "cousin".
But etiquette is etiquette, and human feelings are human feelings.
Shi Fujin can be accused of marrying the prince Fujin, which is somehow related to Princess Duanshun.
Otherwise, among the more than 40 flags in Mongolia, which flag does not have a check mark?
Princess Duanshun was one of the only two remaining concubines. It was probably because the Queen Mother and Kangxi felt pity for her loneliness in her later years that they chose Prince Fujin from Abahai.
If Shi Fujin is unfamiliar with the concubine, I think the emperor and the empress dowager will not be happy.
But if you are too enthusiastic and go past the Queen Mother, that would not be in line with the rules.
Shi Fujin nodded and said, "Well, well, I'll ask my great-aunt next time."
Wu Fujin patiently reminded: "You can just call your younger siblings and concubine in private. In front of others, you should follow the elder brothers and call them 'toffee'..."
Shi Fujin continued to nod his head honestly and said: "I know this. It is a rule set by the Han people, which is called 'marry to obey your husband'."
Although she is ignorant and not as dignified and polite as the ladies of the Eight Banners in the capital, she is quite cute looking like she is being taught.
Wu Fujin kindly reminded: "Filial piety is not limited to the number of greetings. You should also think more about it on weekdays. The prince's dining room can 'serve dishes'. If you get something fun or useful outside, you can also show filial piety to your elders. It's just
Don’t forget about Concubine Shuhui. Even if the younger siblings are related to Concubine Duanshun, the two concubines are in the same place now, so they shouldn’t treat one favorably over the other.”
At this point, she said: "If you can't make up your mind on weekdays, just ask my elder brother, or ask your ninth sister-in-law. It's not strange to be polite to many people, especially when serving elders. It's better to be polite than to be rude..."
All ten blessings were recorded.
When they arrived at the palace, someone sent a message.
Although Sanfujin was the sister-in-law, and all the people who came were younger siblings, she was the head of the family, so she followed her stepmother and several sisters-in-law, and the younger siblings came to greet her at the door.
I heard that several princes Fujin had arrived, and San Fujin also felt that his face was radiant.
But when she saw Shu Shu getting off the Fourth Fujin carriage and Shi Fujin getting off the Fifth Fujin carriage, she felt a little sad.
What does it mean?
You must know that there is still a lawsuit between the government and the government. Is this because the brothers and sisters have taken sides?
Are they all biased towards Shu Shu?
After meeting Li, she welcomed everyone to the flower hall for tea.
Today, when "picking up San", there were other women who came to express their condolences, so San Fujin asked his stepmother and others to entertain him, while she entertained some of the princes Fujin.
When she entered the flower hall, she invited Si Fujin to sit at the east end of the guest seat.
Sifujin did not take a seat, but took a seat in the west seat.
The others followed Si Fujin and sat in order from east to west.
San Fujin licked his temples and took a seat in the east seat.
She said to Si Fujin: "We made an appointment to come together. Do the fourth and ninth siblings have a good relationship?"
Si Fujin didn't want to bring up the matter of Qi Fujin, so he nodded with a smile and said: "We haven't seen each other for a long time, so I thought about it, and we were just passing by, so we can chat on the way."
Sanfujin was heartbroken, and looked down at Wufujin, who saw that Wufujin and Shu Shu were having a lawsuit.
San Fujin looked at Xiang Shushu, suppressing his displeasure, and said: "The ninth younger brother and sister are really virtuous, and they know how to 'obey their husband when they marry'..."
Shu Shu glanced at San Fujin, was he being picky?
She didn't expect the lawsuit to be filed, she just thought it was because she was too late to express her condolences.
It’s not like I’m making a mistake, there is still a lot of affection for Sanfujin here.
At that time, the funeral announcement for Xinda Li was over, and San Fujin immediately went over to comfort Shu Shu.
This time, Shu Shu only thought about the unity of husband and wife, but forgot about the "courtesy exchanges" with San Fujin.
Although Sanfujin was in the southern patrol team at the time, it was convenient for Sanfujin to pass by, but now she is separated by the palace wall, but negligence is negligence.
Shu Shu stood up and admitted her mistake and said, "I'm late. Third sister-in-law, please express your condolences!"
Sanfujin: "..."
I get yelled at every time for being so honest, it's hard to believe.
When Shifujin saw this, his face looked a little confused.
She looked at San Fujin, then at Shu Shu, and then said to Wu Fujin, "Fifth sister-in-law, didn't you say 'if you marry, follow your husband'? Ninth sister-in-law should not wait for ninth brother, should she do it alone?"
Wu Fujin was silent, and she didn't understand why San Fujin was so picky.
After all, they only moved out of the palace last year, and had lived in the palace before, so they knew the troubles for Prince Fujin when he left the palace.
It would be better to go out with the prince and have an explanation to the elders; no one has ever done this before going out from the palace alone.
It is true that the two families are cousins, but they are not uncles.
San Fujin's face was a little red. He looked at Shi Fujin and thought she was doing it on purpose. He said with displeasure, "The tenth and ninth younger siblings are really good. They protect them very well and don't allow others to say a word!"
Shi Fujin listened clearly to the previous sentence, nodded with a smile, and said: "The ninth sister-in-law is like a sister, the fourth sister-in-law, the fifth sister-in-law are also like sisters, and the second... crown princess is also like a sister..."
San Fujin felt something was wrong, as if he and Qi Fujin had been left behind.
Qi Fujin had no contact with Shi Fujin because he was expecting a baby, but he had gotten along with him for two months during his southern tour.
She looked at Shi Fujin and said with a faint smile: "It seems that I am not good enough, so I am the only one among my siblings?"
Shi Fujin thought about it carefully, nodded and shook his head and said: "I don't know if it's okay, the third sister-in-law is just like the sister-in-law..."
"ha?"
San Fujin thought for a moment, does this mean he has dignity?
She asked: "How are this sister-in-law and sister separated?"
Shi Fujin said seriously: "Sister-in-law is more powerful..."
My sister is more affectionate.
It was hard for San Fujin to ask whether "powerful" and "majestic" were the same thing.
It was rare that her siblings were sleeping well today, but she didn't dare to provoke them too much.
She glanced at Shu Shu and thought of the lawsuit between the two families, so she and her third brother went together.
I feel that the lawsuit is ridiculous and has no chance of winning.
She said to the fourth, fifth and tenth brothers: "Brothers and sisters, please sit down for a moment. I'll say a few words to the ninth brother and sister."
After that, she stood up and asked Shu Shu to follow her out.
Shu Shu didn't want to get up, so she hesitated and followed her out.
When they reached the deserted area across the courtyard, San Fujin took Shu Shu's hand and said, "I can't write two Dong E's in one sentence. Can you advise my second uncle not to argue with my second and third brothers? Those two don't care about me."
Sensible bastard, no one wants to see you at home on weekdays, they are all from Hutu..."
Shu Shu withdrew her hand and said: "You are really generous. Although my uncle died because of a long illness, he was more likely to be angry to death due to the arbitrary actions of the two traitors. You don't hold grudges, but you still protect me."
Already?"
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"Why don't I hate it? I hate it so much that my teeth are itching, but everyone outside is laughing at our family, so it would be best to settle this matter as soon as possible...
Sanfujin said with helplessness on his face.
Shu Shu said calmly: "Then don't worry. The lawsuit has been handed over to the emperor. It won't take too long. No one is coming to arrest Fuhan and Fuhai now. It should be the emperor who wants to give the uncle dignity. He doesn't want to disturb the deceased at this time."
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San Fujin said anxiously: "How can we reach the point of arresting people? That won't lead to a fight in our Dong E family. It will only cause 'relatives to suffer and enemies to suffer'..."
Shu Shu glanced at San Fujin and said: "It is clearly written in the "Qing Code" that 'false accusations are counterfeiting', and the two of them falsely accuse 'seniors' as 'lower ones', and the crime will be increased to one level!"
Sanfujin said: "How can the second uncle be so cruel? My mother's body is still cold, but I have to deal with my nephew? The younger generation are not sensible. They should be beaten and scolded when they should be beaten. There is no need to say 'Ding is Ding, Mao is Mao'
'of?"
Shu Shu didn't want to waste words with her anymore, so she turned around and left.
San Fujin hurriedly caught up and said: "Although our two rooms are separated by rooms, we are still the same blood. Now that my grandmother and my new uncle have passed away, it is the time when we need to work together..."
Shu Shu quickened her pace.
I really don't know what it means.
What the Fuhan and Fuhai brothers were framed for was no small crime.
The dignitaries of the Eight Banners knew that these two brothers were crazy, but there were also some who felt that "there is no smoke without fire".
My Amma's good reputation has now been mostly ruined.
San Fujin, however, kept silent about Amma's loss. She only thought that there should be no prisoners in the palace, so as to avoid the emperor's anger on her other brothers, and the palace fell into silence.
In fact, it is a good thing that the government is currently quiet.
Kangxi obviously didn't want to see this place anymore. He suppressed Peng Chun for more than ten years and did not give him a posthumous title or a sutra or quilt after his death. He just held funerals as usual.
For a veteran who has served the country well, this is abnormal.
At this time, it’s time to be honest and quiet and be a good person.
Let’s wait until the next emperor comes.
*
In the men's room at the front, it was the third elder brother who brought brother Zengshou to welcome several elders.
He thought about the soft nail he encountered at Qi Xi's place yesterday, and looked at Brother Jiu with amusement.
With such a shrewd father-in-law and a tigress named Fujin, the life of the ninth elder brother will be difficult in the future.
Brother Ninth thought his eyes were a little strange and said, "What does Third Brother want to say?"
Although the fourth elder brother and the fifth elder brother both warned him not to talk back to the third elder brother in front of others, if the third elder brother insisted on provoking him, he would not be able to control his temper.
Ha ha!
The third elder brother shook his head and said, "It's nothing. I just thought that Mr. Qi would stay here all night for the past two days and leave in the morning. Otherwise, you and your son-in-law might just happen to meet each other."
This is your nemesis, don't recruit him.
The third elder brother is scared.
Brother Jiu raised his eyebrows and said, "That's really unfortunate..."
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