Lin Jingzhi's soul comes from the modern times, so he naturally knows that educating children is a difficult and long process. In modern times, many pregnant women have even practiced prenatal education. Lin Tian is a boy and is over four years old.
The age group can no longer just spoil.
Many children don’t care when they were young, but when they grew up, they can’t control themselves, and they will no longer be able to control them if they want to.
Once a person has his own thoughts, he will naturally be self-centered. Although the child is still very immature and his thoughts are not mature, he himself feels that he is mature. If he reaches this stage, it will be too late.
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"Tian'er, believe in yourself, you can stand up." Lin Jingzhi walked aside, helped Lin Tian pick up the apple, and nodded to him to show encouragement.
Since childhood, Lin Tian has been praised for his intelligence, but is scolded as a wild child without a father. How could he hear words of encouragement?
He was just used to being hugged by others, and was a little afraid of pain, so he didn't dare to use too much force with his hands and couldn't stand up. Now when he heard this, he suddenly had confidence and supported the ground with his hands and crawled quickly
He got up, and when his palm touched the ground, the pain came from his palm. He just twisted his face and rushed over.
After standing up, Lin Tian rushed towards Lin Jingzhi again without slapping the dust on his body. His tender little face was filled with a cheerful smile.
This smile is very real, from the bottom of his heart, because he has overcome a difficulty just now.
After hearing Lin Jingzhi's words, Lin Zhou was stunned on the spot. She lived in her twenties and had never seen anyone say words of encouragement to a child over four years old. In fact, let alone a child, it was just a child.
Seventeen-year-old boys usually care about their identity and just give them a lesson, instead of lowering their attitude and saying words of encouragement.
Seeing Lin Tian rushing happily to the front, Lin Jingzhi bent down, stretched his hands and stuck on Lin Tian's ribs. With a sudden force, he lifted the little boy into the air, "Well, I know Tian'er is
Good thing."
Hearing the praise, Lin Tian opened his mouth and burst into laughter.
Lin Jingzhi's approach is based on the modern Western method of educating children, which is to use words of encouragement to tell children that you do what you do, thereby cultivating children's self-confidence and self-reliance.
Of course, he will not blindly learn Western educational methods. For example, after he is over 16 years old abroad, many teenagers no longer ask their parents for money and support themselves. In China, many parents seem to think that
Foreign children are more mature and sensible than Chinese children.
Lin Jingzhi scoffed at this point. Even if a teenager grows up with a urge to grow up, how could his thoughts mature? Only with age, he sees more and encounters more things.
Only when children can truly mature, but if parents blindly want their children to grow up as soon as possible, it is tantamount to pulling seedlings to help grow. There will definitely be some and there will be no good results.
For example, foreign children can be escorts to earn this year's tuition and take it for granted. If they are Chinese parents, can they agree?
So parents, don’t tell their children how sensible and good foreign children are. In fact, the actual situation is not that true, otherwise the children will be under great psychological pressure, which will be worse.
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Furthermore, the crime rate in Western countries is generally high, which is also because I was too late to be independent when I was a child, and I was unable to distinguish the real thing from the right or wrong, and my personality was distorted.
Now that Lin Jingzhi has a child, although he is not his biological child, he has also begun to think about how to educate Lin Tian. This is the responsibility he must bear as his stepfather.
"I'll pay my respects to the Second Master." Lin Zhou wiped away the tears from the corners of his eyes and stepped forward to give him a blessing.
"Get up." Turning his head, Lin Jingzhi realized that Lin Zhou's eyes were red. He seemed to have just cried. His thigh turned slightly and he roughly guessed the cause.
Seeing Lin Jingzhi's brow frowned slightly, Lin Zhou knew that he had figured out why he was crying. She also knew that she could not hide it, so she gave another blessing, "It's me that I misunderstood Erye, please Erye.
I'm punished me."
Lin Jingzhi did not immediately let her get up, "From the sky, I will be my biological son!"
Lin Tian is not only beautiful and cute, but also his eldest brother's only son. He has the responsibility to train this little boy into a truly upright man.
Lin Zhou lowered her head, and a hint of ashamed appeared on her delicate face. She must have misunderstood Lin Jingzhi, otherwise her son would not be happy at the moment and could not even close her mouth. She realized that the second master's method of educating his children was far more important than
She was much more wise, "Yes, Tian'er will ask the second master to train him in the future."
Xu helped him and Lin Jingzhi said, "Get up, are you and your mother and son still used to moving here?"
"Mr. Xie Er is concerned, and my mother and son think this place is very good." The yard where Lin Zhou used to live was not so large, let alone a garden.
"Second uncle, Tian'er also thinks it is very good. The yard is big and there are many houses. Tian'er can play with his mother in this garden in the future."
When Lin Tian heard the question, he also answered crisply. While speaking, he pointed his little finger at the walls, wing rooms, and this small garden.
"Okay, as long as Tian'er likes it." Lin Jing pinched Lin Tian's tender little face and smiled.
"And there are also many delicious foods here." After Lin Tian said that, he raised the apple that Lin Jingzhi had just handed him to him and placed it in front of him.
This apple is big, the size of two fists. It is definitely not low on the market. However, after hearing this, Lin Jingzhi frowned, "Big... Cough, Guifang, I couldn't eat apples before.
Is it?"
"When I go back to the second master, I can eat it, but it's just smaller." Lin Zhou did not think about relying on Lin Jingzhi's power to retaliate against the servant who had been disrespectful to her and her son before. He answered vaguely and said only
It's smaller, but I didn't say how small it was.
But after hearing this, Lin Tian muttered dissatisfiedly, "Mom, it's not a little younger, but a lot smaller, and it's only a month to eat."
Seeing Lin Tian in his arms gesture with a small hand, only half the size of his fist, Lin Jingzhi's face turned cold. Is such a big apple for the master of the Lin family? I'm afraid that those servants will see Lin.
Zhou had no man's support, so he greedily gave the things that Lin Zhou and his son had given to him, and then took some inferior fruits to make up the numbers.
Since Tang Yuxiang interrogated Manager Li last time, Lin Jingzhi has been extremely annoying to the slaves in the mansion who are tempted by power. He is afraid of the tough ones and bullied the soft ones. No such villain can be kept.
Seeing Lin Jingzhi unconsciously frowned, Lin Zhou quickly said, "Second Master, Tian'er is still young, don't listen to him."
"That's it, Tian'er didn't lie." Lin Tian twisted in Lin Jingzhi's arms without hesitation.
Seeing this, Lin Zhou looked stern and shouted, "Shut up, don't talk nonsense."
She was used to being low-key and knew that she should not offend people when living in a wealthy courtyard, including those servants with certain power, so that Lin Tian would not be too polite.
Lin Jingzhi never stopped Lin Zhou from speaking. Now seeing Lin Tian pouting and humming angry, he asked softly: "Tian'er, lying is not a good child. Tell me to my second uncle, you used to
Are the apples that are really that big?"
Lin Tian was going to answer, but when he saw his mother glaring at him, he lowered his head and said nothing. His mother treats him very harshly on weekdays. If he annoyed, his little butt would inevitably be slapped in the face.
Lin Jingzhi seemed to have not seen Lin Zhou's eyes just glaring at him with a warning sign, and said again: "Tian'er, a man is a real man, he has something to say, and he has something to say, and he must not be scared just because someone threatens him.
If you dare to tell the truth, otherwise you will be a boneless soft boy when you grow up."
"Tian'er is not a softie. What Tian'er said just now is true!" Lin Tian suddenly raised his head and replied loudly.
Seeing this, Lin Jingzhi kissed Lin Tian fiercely on the face, "Yes, this is how he looks like a man!"
Lin Zhou stood aside, but she couldn't understand the pride of being a man, even though Lin Tian was only a little over four years old.
"I will ask someone to investigate this matter. Such a slave who is unaware of his master must not stay in the mansion." Lin Jingzhi said coldly, and walked towards the wing room with Lin Tian in his arms.
Halfway through the way, he carefully helped Lin Tian take away the dust from his clothes while walking.
Lin Tian happily ate with the big red apple. Lin Zhou followed behind him and gained a further understanding of Lin Jingzhi. This handsome man with a thin body was full of masculine flavor in his bones.
He is a real man!
When he entered the wing room, Lin Zhou personally poured a cup of warm tea for Lin Jingzhi. Lin Jingzhi is still a little uncomfortable with letting Lin Zhou serve him. This woman was his sister-in-law before.
Because Lin Zhou was very close to him, the charming body fragrance that was already very familiar and hit into his nose again, making Lin Jingzhi feel uncomfortable again. He picked up the teacup, raised his head and drank it all in one gulp, and then stood up
Get up, "I came here today to see if you are used to living here. Now I see with my own eyes that the courtyard is quite big and the scenery is good, so I feel relieved. I still have something to do, so I will take the lead."
"Second uncle..." Lin Tian stopped hearing this, and twisted his body and wanted to act coquettishly.
Lin Zhou turned his head, but glared at his son, signaling him to shut up. To be honest, she felt uncomfortable being alone with Lin Jingzhi. In addition to being careful and always jumping around, she also showed shamelessly that she was
I can't help but secretly look at Lin Jingzhi's handsome side face...
After leaving Lin Zhou's courtyard, Lin Jingzhi walked to his bedroom. He originally thought of returning to the courtyard to rest for a while, and then told Old Lady Lin that the locust plague had exploded.
By the way, speculate whether Tian Ji and Wang Meng and others will take advantage of this opportunity to slaughter the Lin family. However, as soon as they stepped into the gate of the courtyard, an unpleasant smell penetrated into their noses, attracting him.