Yan Changgeng heard that Xiao Jin, the old-fashioned man, mentioned in class that he had a quarrel with Ye Ming last night, and criticized himself for having privileged ideas and an official style, and almost got angry. He wanted to stand Get up and slap the table and roar Xiao Jin a few words, asking him to close his beak, but the school vice principal Luo Xiao stood on the podium. If he quarreled with Xiao Jin on the spot, he might be punished, so he had to do so. He forcibly suppressed the ignorant karma fire in his heart, and listened to Xiao Jin's speech with anger.
After hearing this, Xiao Jin actually criticized Ye Ming again, and his words were also sharp and he showed no mercy at all. Yan Changgeng's heart calmed down a little, and turned his head and glared at Ye Ming viciously. , eyes full of resentment and hatred.
Ye Ming was scolded by Xiao Jin for not name in the first class. This was something he had never seen in his study career, and his face was flushed with embarrassment.
Moreover, when I was having breakfast this morning, many students in the class learned from Liu Ziliang that Ye Ming kicked the door of the dormitory last night and almost fought with Yan Changgeng. So, Xiao Jin mentioned this matter at this moment. Many students turned their eyes to Ye Ming. Under the eyes of these different expressions, Ye Ming felt as if he had been stripped of his clothes in public and displayed under the spotlight for people to visit. He was both ashamed and helpless , feel ashamed.
Among these eyes that were cast towards Ye Ming, some were gloating and secretly happy, especially those three students who had a competitive relationship with him. Obviously, Ye Ming, the lucky one who was the leader in the exam, is now on The first class was severely criticized by the class teacher, which made them feel very happy and very excited.
At the same time, more students who didn't know the inside story began to whisper and whisper, and they were all inquiring about what was going on. Why is this new young man so brave that he dared to provoke Yan Changgeng, a local tyrant.
On this day, Ye Ming always felt something was wrong: whether it was during class or after class, he felt that there were many eyes staring at him, making him feel like a thorn on his back, and after lunch, he finished eating at noon After lunch, it was probably Yan Changgeng who told many classmates about what happened last night. Of course, he would definitely not tell what happened last night truthfully, but would say bad things about himself in a jealous way. Ye Ming used this I guess I can guess my butt.
Therefore, in the afternoon, many students looked at their eyes a little strange, a little vigilant and guarded, as if they were just a thorn. Once they came into contact with them, they would be stabbed and covered in bruises.
Moreover, every time Ye Ming smiled and took the initiative to greet those classmates he didn't know yet, few students responded enthusiastically to him, and most of them nodded coldly, or glanced at him with a few glances, but did not follow him. He talked and did not shake hands with him. It seems that Xiao Jin's criticism of himself and Yan Changgeng's slander was extremely lethal to him and had successfully isolated himself or even opposed him from other classmates in the class. ,,This made Ye Ming both wronged and depressed, but he was helpless.
Fortunately, Cha Jiliang and Chen Yufei are both very enthusiastic about themselves. After the last class, because tomorrow is Saturday, Cha Jiliang is preparing to go home. Before leaving, he pulled Ye Ming to a secluded place. , First mercy, he explained that Director Xiao Jin has this temper, one is one, two is two, criticism that should be criticized, praise that should be praised, never concealed his own views, and never mix with him. Good-looking gentleman, in fact, such people are more likely to deal with, no more than those hypocrites who are in person and behind the scenes, and it is difficult to guess what they think in their hearts. Therefore, don’t take Director Xiao’s criticism too seriously.
Speaking of this, Cha Jiliang frowned and said with a little concern: "Director Ye, the problem you need to solve the most now is to find ways to eliminate the misunderstandings of your classmates about you, and let everyone know as soon as possible that you have a quarrel with Yan Changgeng The truth, as far as I know, at noon today, Yan Changgeng and Liu Ziliang talked bad things about you to many classmates, saying that you were young and ignorant, arrogant and arrogant, and thought that you had the first place in the exam, which was amazing and didn't respect you at all. A classmate who is older than him and has a higher position than him will hit someone if he disagrees, and kicks the door of the dormitory with one kick...
"You also know: Yan Changgeng has money to treat guests and give gifts, and he is a local snake, so many classmates and some teachers in the class think he is a capable person and a loyal person, so I have a good relationship with him. Now you have offended Yan Changgeng. Those classmates with good relationship with him will definitely not pay attention to you.
"So, you are likely to be isolated by the classmates now. In that case, you will be miserable, because everyone knows: If a person who is in the career can be selected to study at the Provincial Party School, then It is a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity. Why? Because cadres who can come to the Party School to study, especially those who study in the Youth Cadre Class, are all officials at all levels who are facing promotion or have great development prospects. You can participate in the first Youth League. In cadre training, if you can establish good relationships with several students with bright prospects, once they become successful in the future, you can benefit from them.
"So, some people say: The key to officials coming to the Party School to study is not to learn knowledge, but to make more friends and make more friendships. It is best to choose one or two students with great prospects and use all means to become friends with them. Friends, in this way, you will have a network of connections with huge energy. This network of connections will provide you with great convenience and will also bring you endless benefits.
"On the contrary, if you are isolated by classmates like you, no one pays attention to you, and no one wants to make friends with you, then you will not only lose a huge network of connections, but also may Directly affect your future. For you, if you are really isolated by your classmates and rejected by your teachers, even if your academic performance is good in the future, if the evaluation and scores given by your teachers and classmates are very low, I guess you will also It is difficult to enter the provincial party committee office, so, brother, you must be vigilant now and you must get rid of this dilemma as soon as possible.”
When Ye Ming heard Cha Jiliang telling him, he felt that everything he said made sense, but now he was a little helpless.
So he asked worriedly: "Director Cha, give me some advice: If I want to break the current dilemma, where should I start."