Lian Xin came into the room, bowed slightly and said in a cooing voice: "Little girl Lian Xin, I have met all of you adults."
Seeing Lian Xin's beautiful face, her voice was so loud that it made people tremble all over.
All the interviewers already had a good impression of him.
One of the interviewers looked up at Lianxin and asked:
"Do you know the three obediences and four virtues in the ancient proverb? Which three obediences and four virtues are they?"
Lianxin smiled slightly and said in a sweet voice:
“The ‘three obediences’ are to obey your father before you are married, to your husband when you are married, and to your son after your husband’s death.
The ‘Four Virtues’ are virtue, appearance, speech, and merit.”
All the interviewers nodded, and one of them asked:
"Then do you know what the three obediences and the four virtues mean?"
“‘Three obediences’ means that girls must obey their parents’ instructions before they get married.
Don't arbitrarily refute the teachings of your elders. After you get married, you must obey your husband.
Run the household and practice business together with her husband, honor the elders, and educate the young;
If your husband unfortunately dies before you,
You have to stick to your duty,
Find ways to raise children to grow up,
And respect their children’s life philosophy.”
Lian Xin's voice was still very sweet,
When people heard this, their hearts felt numb:
"The 'Four Virtues' means being a woman,
The first important thing is moral character, being able to stand upright;
Then there is "rong", which is appearance,
Point out that entry must be dignified, steady and polite, and not frivolous and casual;
"Yan" means that you need to be able to add meaning casually when talking to others.
Able to understand what others say and know what you should and should not say;
"Gong" means the way to run a family,
The way to run a family includes caring for your husband and raising your children, respecting the elderly and caring for the young, being diligent and thrifty and other details of life."
Lian's heartfelt answer made all the interviewers present very satisfied, and they unanimously agreed to enter Zhongxiu Palace.
I thanked him for my kindness, and then the next person came in.
But when this beauty to be chosen comes into the house,
But he always had his back turned to everyone present.
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