People always say the word "idealist", but sometimes this word is not a complimentary word.
It means that this person is too emotional, emotional, idealistic, ignores reality, and seems to only live in his own fantasy.
Rudy Gonzalez is such an idealist—that was the case two weeks ago.
But idealists cannot last long, because in reality, the world created by their own imagination is like soap bubbles under the eyes, with colorful spots floating on the surface. Although beautiful, it will break down with a light touch.
It shattered and turned into a puddle of fine water droplets, leaving nothing but water stains on people's faces.
Ye Gong is an idealist.
Rudy is also an idealist.
They were all frightened by the cruel and terrifying reality.
Facing Rudy like this, Chang Sheng really didn't know how to comfort him.
Thanks to the developed Internet world in the future, although he never leaves home, he has witnessed the joys and sorrows of many people, and their stories have become everlasting experiences.
But even though he had seen many idealists die in reality, he still didn't know how to comfort Rudy.
Should he be allowed to cheer up again and continue to work hard to pursue his ideals regardless of the situation?
But this is impossible.
So after hearing Rudy's words, Chang Sheng was silent for a long time.
Psychological problems are the most difficult problems to solve. Even if there is a psychiatrist, they may not be able to successfully help Rudy solve his problems. Because Rudy usually seems to be normal than normal people, but who would have thought that he would
So why are you so afraid of being a head coach?
It's just like allergies. If someone is allergic to pollen, and you still insist on letting him come into contact with pollen, you're going to make him die.
So after Rudy had clearly expressed his fear of being a head coach and saw how he made a mess of his life because of this fear, Chang Sheng could no longer persuade him to work hard for his ideals.
It's easy to say some specious truths, and it's also very easy to give the other party a slap in the face to cheer up the other party. It's just a matter of words and some big truths. But even if such truths are universal truths and are applicable to everyone, they will not work.
If it comes to a single person, it would be the truth.
This is the saying "his wine is my poison".
To put it bluntly, making yourself look like a life mentor is only satisfying your own vanity.
But can it really help others? Life coaches probably won’t care.
Maybe one of my words pushed the other party to a desperate situation, and they wouldn't care.
Because when they decided to talk about these great truths, they probably didn’t take the other person’s future and destiny to heart. They just wanted to act as a respected life mentor. If the other person succeeded, they would feel that it was all theirs.
Credit, if the other party fails...who the hell cares?
Chang Sheng deeply understands this truth, so he doesn’t want to be Rudy Gonzalez’s life mentor.
No one is qualified to be someone else's life mentor. What kind of specious principles can deceive others? Everyone should think clearly about the path they want to take. This path must be decided by themselves, rather than using big ideas.
The truth is deceived.
But I don’t want to be Rudy’s life mentor. So do I have to let Rudy stay so depressed?
That obviously doesn't work either.
It is probably impossible for any normal person to stand by and watch someone so weak and helpless in front of him, let alone that this person still has a good relationship with him.
It's definitely not possible to let Rudy continue like this.
If a person suddenly loses the ideal that has supported him for more than ten years, the consequences will be very serious.
Because ideals have become Rudy's belief in life over the past ten years and the source of motivation for his hard work and life.
Now that the motivation is gone, where do you want Rudy to go?
Chang Sheng was silent for a while and then sighed: "No matter what, life has to go on. If you can't be a head coach, you can still be an assistant coach. It's not bad to be the number one assistant coach in the world... ha..."
At this point, Chang Sheng laughed dryly.
Because he felt that the goal he mentioned was simply too nonsensical...
Sure enough, Rudy Gonzalez had no reaction.
Chang Shengzhihao coughed, and then said to him: "We can let go of the football thing, but life waits for no one for a moment. So you'd better go and get Heather back now."
After venting, Rudy Gonzalez, who had been keeping his head down and silent, finally raised his head this time with a surprised expression on his face.
"Catch him back?" he asked in surprise.
"Yes, if you get it back, you can get it back no matter how you lost it." Chang Sheng nodded and said.
"We haven't contacted each other for two weeks. They may have boyfriends..."
"Then go poach!" Chang Sheng said firmly.
"Are you kidding..."
"I'm not joking. If you don't want a girl like Heatherlin, what else do you want? For the sake of Getafe's victory, you have to go and get her back for me." Chang Sheng said seriously, asking Rudy Gonza to
Reiss fully realized that he was not joking.
"What does this have to do with Getafe's victory?" Rudy Gonzalez was confused.
"Of course it does matter!" Chang Sheng looked at Rudy Gonzalez as if he were an idiot. "You are my assistant, right?"
Rudy Gonzalez nodded.
He is an assistant coach who always wins, so naturally he can be regarded as an assistant who always wins.
"You don't know how important your job is, don't you? You are in charge of the team's training coordination, and you are also responsible for many chores. In addition, you are responsible for communication between players and coaches. Also, the weekly coaching staff
You presided over the meeting... You see, you have so much work. If your mood is wrong and affects your work, wouldn't the whole team be paralyzed?"
What Chang Sheng said was an exaggeration. Rudy Gonzalez was also responsible for ordering lunches, buying bus tickets, and collecting water and electricity bills... In fact, the assistant coach is not a nanny and cannot do that much work.
But he said this exaggeratedly just to show that Rudy is very important to the team and must not give up on himself.
"The whole team is paralyzed. The results will definitely be affected, so in order to win, you have to get Heather back to me." Chang Sheng spread his hands. "To be honest, I am a very selfish person. I don't
I hope my most capable assistant’s work status will be affected by things in his life.”
After listening to Chang Sheng's powerful logic in stunned silence, Rudy Gonzalez finally laughed.
This was the first time he smiled in two days.
Although the smile was a little forced, it was still a smile.
Seeing him smile, Chang Sheng felt a little relieved.
Finally, he said: "That's it... no matter what, you have to cheer me up, I don't want to be buried with you!"
Rudy rolled his eyes at him.
"As for how you get your ex-girlfriend back, I don't care." After Chang Sheng finished speaking, he stuffed the last pancake in his hand into his mouth, and then munched it without any regrets. "That's you guys.
It’s a couple thing. I just need to see you show up at the training ground in high spirits.”
"You cruel guy!" Rudy Gonzalez cursed, then picked up the cold pancakes on the plate and ate them.
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Chang Sheng didn't know what Rudy Gonzalez would do to pursue his girlfriend, but he thought that since they had known each other for ten years and been in love for five years, they must have some tacit understanding. This relationship is not that easy.
perishable.
Anyway, he can guess the progress from Rudy Gonzalez's performance every day.
As a result, the next day, he saw Rudy Gonzalez appear in front of everyone with a cheerful face, as if he had been resurrected on the spot with full health.
Chang Sheng was stunned: "What is going on?"
Rudy said proudly: "I called Heather after dinner yesterday and apologized to her. We got back together!"
Chang Sheng was dumbfounded: "Is it that simple?"
"Yeah, it's that simple. Otherwise, what else do you think?" Rudy Gonzalez asked.
"Uh... shouldn't you say something like 'Listen to my explanation, Heatherlin!' Why should I listen to your explanation? I don't want to listen to your explanation!' Okay, please don't be so ruthless, cruel, and unreasonable."
Heatherlyn! ''Then you are not heartless!? Not cruel!? Not unreasonable!? ''Where am I heartless!? Where is cruel!? Where is it unreasonable!? ''Where are you not heartless!? Where is not cruel!? Where?
Not unreasonable!? ''No matter how ruthless, cruel or unreasonable I am, I will never be more ruthless, cruel or unreasonable than you!'..."
Rudy Gonzalez looked at Chang Sheng with a crazy look, which immediately made Chang Sheng unable to speak any more.
"Well...this means that Heatherlin still loves you deeply, Rudy. You'd better not let her down in the future."
Rudy smiled and nodded: "We plan to have a child."
"Are you married?" Chang Sheng was surprised when he heard this.
"No, what's wrong?"
Chang Sheng suddenly realized that it is normal for many foreigners to never get married, even if they already have several children. It is also common to raise children first and then get married.
In the romantic comedy "Four Weddings and a Funeral" starring Hugh Grant, didn't the hero and heroine end up together, but agreed never to get married?
However, Rudy plans to have a child, which is a good thing for Chang Sheng.
After a man has a child, his life becomes stable.
When life becomes stable, a person's mental state becomes stable as well.
When you are mentally stable, you can naturally put more energy into your work.
In the end, it is yourself and the team that benefit.
"Well, let me congratulate you in advance, Rudy."
"Hehe." Rudy said with a smile, "By the way, I think what you said is pretty good..."
"Which one did I say?" Chang Sheng was confused by Rudy's sudden words.
"The ideal of becoming the number one assistant coach in the world. I thought about it carefully and I think it is impossible for me to be the number one head coach in the world, but it is still worthwhile to be the best assistant coach in the world.
The meaning of struggle.”
Chang Sheng smiled: "You said this! It's that simple. As long as you keep following me and being my assistant coach, I guarantee that you can become the world's number one assistant coach - the assistant coach of the world's number one head coach. Is it possible?
Could he still be the number one assistant coach in the world?"
Rudy Gonzalez rolled his eyes.
"I don't see the possibility of you becoming the number one head coach in the world... Well, after you really lead this team to a successful upgrade, I will seriously consider this proposal!"
This time it was Chang Sheng's turn to be surprised.
Because he didn't expect Rudy to actually consider this proposal - he was actually just joking...
But then I thought about it, Rudy Gonzalez is indeed good enough as an assistant coach, and after he became the head coach, he became his assistant coach. If they can really cooperate together all the time, maybe it will be really good.
My partner... (To be continued...)
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