Chapter 92 Going home to see parents (seeking the moon)
The media are still hyping up the "Phonegate" incident and rumors of player transfers. But if they want to hear what Chang Sheng has to say, I'm afraid they will all be disappointed.
Because they can't contact Chang Sheng at all now.
So where is the constant victory?
Chang Sheng returned to China with his girlfriend Avril.
This is the first time he has taken Avril back to China after he and Avril established their relationship.
Although I had brought Avril home before, the relationship between the two of them at that time was completely different from what it is now. They were just good friends.
Now, I am more or less ready to take my wife back to meet my parents-in-law.
Why do you want to go back to see your parents? Because Avril wants to marry Chang Sheng.
It has been six years since they met in the summer of 2000. They are already very familiar with each other, so Avril made this request, and Chang Sheng agreed.
At the age of thirty-three, it is not too early for him to get married.
As for Avril, getting married at the age of 22 seems a bit early. And it will definitely have an impact on her career, but Avril is very determined, and Chang Sheng has no objection.
So this time, Chang Sheng planned to take Avril to meet his parents. If his parents had no objections, he would prepare to hold the wedding.
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Although Chang Sheng bought a house for his parents in the best community in the city six years ago, that house is still vacant and his parents still live in that dilapidated family community.
So Chang Sheng naturally had no choice but to bring Avril to the family community.
Unlike the last time when many people gathered around, when Chang Sheng came again with Avril, there were not so many people watching.
Although everyone will still follow their figures with their eyes, at least they will not follow behind to watch the fun.
Everyone's quality has also improved over the years as the overall national strength has improved. In the past, it was very rare to see foreigners on the streets, but now it is commonplace, and naturally no one will make a fuss.
So what if Chang Sheng and Avril Lavigne are both celebrities?
In the eyes of people like them, there is no difference. They grew up watching Chang Sheng, and they have much less admiration for celebrities than Chang Sheng. Of course, there is some envy.
Chang Sheng took Avril back to the family community where he grew up.
The mother who knew the news in advance couldn't sit still at home, so she went to the gate of the community to wait to greet her son and his girlfriend - she didn't know yet that Avril was planning to marry Chang Sheng.
Her husband, Chang Sheng's father, stayed at home. This taciturn man was not good at expressing his emotions. He couldn't handle the urgent need to see his son and then running to the gate of the community to wait for his son.
came out.
The three of them met at the gate of the community. Avril said hello to her future mother-in-law in Chinese, which made Chang Sheng's mother smile from ear to ear with joy.
"So good!" She was full of praise for her girlfriend Chang Sheng.
Avril Lavigne, who only wore light makeup, was almost bare-faced. Her signature smoky dark circles were gone, and she looked much fresher.
Chang Sheng's mother was very proud that her son came back to see them after he became successful. On the way home, he would say hello loudly to everyone he met, and he walked with great energy and high spirits. He suddenly looked two years younger.
Just like ten years old.
Chang Sheng looked at his mother's back from behind, feeling a lot of emotion in his heart.
Some things, if you don’t live it again, I’m afraid you won’t understand it so thoroughly...
In his previous life, he particularly hated the thing where "parents place their ardent hopes on their children." He felt that parents are parents and children are children. Why should children live according to their parents' wishes? Why should parents place their hopes on them?
What about his own child? He longs for freedom and lives a rebellious life. For this reason, even though his parents sent him to Beijing to study in the hope that he would find a good job, he still chose to learn guitar and sing in the subway, but he still achieved nothing.
In the end, he could only return to his hometown and wander around.
But now his thinking has changed, and he begins to understand why his parents place their hopes on their children, and why parents are always used to arranging their children's future.
Because parents who have eaten more salt than their children have eaten always hope that their children can grow up safely, start a family, and start a career. So they pass on their experiences to their children, hoping that they will follow the instructions.
Your own experience can help you avoid detours.
But which child would want his life to be arranged from the beginning? So the war between children and parents will always exist.
The result of this is that parents and children become enemies.
Seeing his mother's cheerful expression in front of him, Chang Sheng understood the painstaking efforts his parents had made towards him.
They always want to be good for themselves, whether they are famous or not, rich or not. However, in this society, if you don’t have money, you will basically not be able to live well.
So now that Changsheng is rich and famous, they are happy.
It's not that they are greedy for their children's money, but that their children have the ability to make a lot of money, and finally they don't have to worry about it. This is more important than anything else.
Raising a child who still needs to be supported by his parents when he is thirty years old will only make his parents worried.
The former Chang Sheng was just such a person.
At the age of thirty, what I earn every month is not even enough to support my family, and it is not even enough for my own expenses. At the end of every month, I become a moonlighter and have to rely on my parents for support.
Would anyone be proud of such a child?
I'm afraid I will just bury my head lower and lower and my back will become more and more hunched amidst other people's comments.
It may be a bit utilitarian to say this, as economic income is used to measure whether a child has a promising future. But in this real society, what things don’t require money? If you don’t have money, you can’t even find love, so why should you like it?
How about people living a miserable life without money with you?
So money is really important.
Because having money means you have the ability to survive in this world.
After understanding this, Chang Sheng understood the pride shown by his parents, and felt guilty for his previous ignorance.
Fortunately, he still has a chance to do it again, otherwise he would really regret it to death.
He is an ordinary person. Apart from loving football, he is no different from ordinary people. To put it bluntly, he is a common man.
He likes money, likes beautiful women, hopes his parents can live a long life, and hopes to make his parents proud of him. He is not noble, not maverick, and cannot learn to be fresh and bourgeois.
So seeing his parents happy, he felt happy from the bottom of his heart.
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After returning home, he met his father and the family sat down to have a meal happily. Then Chang Sheng told his parents about his idea of marrying Avril.
There's no such silly plot about parents' objections.
Chang Sheng's parents do not discriminate against foreigners, nor do they say that Chang Sheng is not allowed to marry a foreign girl. In their view, as long as their son likes her and the girl's character is trustworthy, then there is no problem.
Now that the son is rich, there is no need to consider whether the woman is rich.
As for the fact that Avril Lavigne is an entertainment star, the two old people are quite open-minded about it - as long as the children are willing, what do the old people care?
Chang Sheng is no longer a young man in his early twenties. He is now thirty-three, has a successful career, and has matured a lot after so many years of experience outside. Why should we be uneasy about his choice?
Isn’t it said in the media all the time that Chang Sheng has a very accurate eye on people? Then his eye on a girl shouldn’t be too different, right?
The two old men looked at each other and said nothing, but the tacit understanding of their married life for many years had already made them aware of each other's thoughts.
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After Chang Sheng revealed his marriage plan, Avril looked at the two old people nervously. On the way to China, Chang Sheng taught her a lot about traditional Chinese customs.
So she knows that Chinese people attach great importance to their parents and elders. A major life event like marriage cannot be as simple as holding hands and going to church when they are in love. In China, the opinions of parents are very important.
So she was a little nervous. She was afraid that Chang Sheng's parents would disapprove.
What should I do if I don’t agree?
She hadn't even thought about it.
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Chang Sheng's parents looked at each other and then looked at Avril, who was obviously very nervous. This girl is not good at hiding her true inner thoughts...
They couldn't bear to make this well-behaved girl worry so much. In the end, Chang Sheng's mother smiled and said to Chang Sheng, "As long as you like it, your father and I have no problem."
In fact, Chang Sheng could not refuse Xin's parents because he knew them very well. He had been a man for two generations and had a total of more than sixty years of experience, so he knew very well who his parents were.
They are an ordinary working-class family, received an ordinary education, and have the simplest and most ordinary values.
As long as the children like it and it is really good for them, they will not object.
Is Avril good to me? I believe they have already seen it in their eyes.
When he brought Avril back for the first time, Chang Sheng could tell that his parents really liked this little foreign girl... Of course, it would be better if her hair color and makeup were normal...
So Chang Sheng turned to Avril and said, "I want to give you an engagement ring, Avril."
This sentence meant that Chang Sheng's parents agreed. Avril jumped up from her seat in surprise, and then kept bowing to Chang Sheng's parents: "Thank you! Thank you! That's great! I love you!" she mixed in
Chinese and English, jumping up and down.
Chang Sheng's parents looked at Avril with smiles, as if they were looking at their own daughter with loving eyes.
Chang Sheng also turned to look at Avril, with an indulgent smile on his face.
Then Avril finally realized that her behavior seemed indulgent and frivolous in front of her elders, so she sat down obediently on her seat again and coughed.
Chang Sheng reached out and scratched her head.
Then the taciturn father suddenly said: "Let's buy the wedding wine sometime."
His mother glared at him: "I just said that you want to buy wedding wine? Why are you so anxious!"
My father also realized that he was too anxious, so he took a sip of wine and pretended to cover it up.
Chang Sheng looked at his father and realized that his parents had been waiting for this day for a long time...
According to Chinese tradition, men should be married when they are older, and women should be married when they are older.
It's really time for him to start a family.
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