People can't always live in their own thinking space. That's too selfish. As he grows older, Lu Weimin also realizes this. Every woman also has their own life and space. They can't be selfish and use their own ideas to understand.
Everything about the other party, so when Lu Zhihua talked about the problem of Zhen Jie and Zhen Ni, he told Lu Weimin straightforwardly, don’t delay women, women’s youth is very short, and if they can’t give women a thought, they will lose their lives in the next few decades.
Life would be very lonely, that would be immoral.
Lu Zhihua's words touched Lu Weimin very much. He thought that if Zhen Jie and Zhen Ni really ended up alone like this, how could he bear it? It was right that they loved him, and it was right that he liked them, but when he couldn't give them anything in the future,
When you are happy, how can you greedily possess everything of the other person?
If you can't give them happiness, please let it go.
Lu Weimin indeed thinks so. He also wants to perform a parting drama that is chic, calm and calm. Even if the drama contains bitterness and loss, it is true that people cannot be too selfish as Lu Zhihua said.
He did so. But the reality is always so embarrassing. Zhen Jie's response was that her current life choices would not change because of Lu Weimin's attitude. Zhen Ni's answer was even more speechless. She was used to being alone now.
In one person's life, Lu Weimin is just a passer-by who occasionally appears in her life. If she needs it, she will ask for it. If there is no need, please don't disturb her.
Such a result made Lu Weimin feel surprised and a little helpless, but deep down, Lu Weimin found that he seemed to be a little happy. No matter what Zhen Jie and Zhen Ni's true thoughts were, this answer was unmistakable.
, they seemed to have no intention of changing the status quo, and this had nothing to do with him.
When Lu Weimin told Lu Zhihua about the result, he found that Lu Zhihua seemed to have expected it and said he knew it very calmly, which made Lu Weimin very depressed. When he asked Lu Zhihua what to do next, Lu Zhihua told Lu Weimin confidently,
If you can't give them the life they want, maybe you can give them one child or two children, because the existence of the child can effectively strengthen the relationship between the two parties, so that they will not be too lost, and the growth process of the child can also provide the mother with
A soothing and fulfilling life.
Lu Weimin couldn't understand why Lu Zhihua came up with so many strange theories. In his opinion, his second sister had lived as an old girl for too long, so that she was mentally unbalanced and perverted. So she became interested in interfering in other people's lives.
, he even doubted whether Lu Zhihua deliberately instigated him to do this, to let Zhen Jie or Zhen Ni give birth to a child to satisfy her, a man who did not want to give anything to any man emotionally, but could also fulfill her wish to "raise" the child.
, live the dream of "mother".
Of course, Lu Weimin did not dare to say this to Lu Zhihua, and only dared to think about it in his heart. However, after carefully analyzing Lu Zhihua's remarks, he had to admit that it was reasonable. If a woman cannot pursue love and marriage, then.
It seems that they will subconsciously pour this emotion into their children, and if they don't even have children, it's really hard to say what else they can put their trust in.
Zhen Jie, who was lying in Lu Weimin's arms, was filled with worry. She said quietly after a long time: "What should Zhen Ni do? What will she think?"
Lu Weimin was suffocated. He really hadn't thought about Zhen Ni's side, but now that the words had been spoken, he naturally had to carry them, "I'll take care of Zhen Ni's side. You don't have to worry about it."
"How to solve it?" Zhen Jie didn't believe it and shook her head, "For the people. Stop talking. I'm very confused now. Don't mention this matter again."
"Ajie, I understand, please think about it, but I have already spoken out my words. This promise will always be valid, and I also think you should have a child." Lu Weimin gently touched Zhen Jie's bare shoulder, "
We don’t need to live for others, and we don’t need to care too much about other people’s opinions.”
Zhen Jie shook her head and said nothing, but it was obvious that Lu Weimin's words still moved her. She curled up in Lu Weimin's arms and remained silent for a long time.
"By the way, Ajie, Uncle Zhen will be turning 60 next week, are you going?" Lu Weimin asked, remembering this question.
"I won't go." Zhen Jie's attention was immediately attracted, "What, my dad called you? He has the nerve to call you and ask you to attend his birthday party?"
Lu Weimin quickly said: "No, the radar told me. I think I might still go there."
Zhen Jie sighed, "You go, but look at my mother's situation, can I go? Even if he is spending time outside, he has to ask about his wife, right? I feel like I have given a few stinky
With enough money for living expenses, you can safely and boldly raise a woman outside? When my mother became so ill, he came back for a visit, left 100,000 yuan and left. Do you think such a man is human?"
Yueqing is ill with cervical cancer. He had surgery and is doing well.
It is said that women in their fifties should not be at the highest risk of cervical cancer, but it is a fact. Lu Weimin estimates that this may also have a lot to do with Yueqing's too dissolute life outside.
It's hard for Lu Weimin to talk about these two people. He himself is not a moral gentleman, so he has no right to speak. But Zhen Jingcai and Yue Qing did go too far.
Zhen Jingcai stopped talking. He seemed to have never been quiet since he was in Factory 195. He became even more restless after leaving Factory 195 and went to Fengzhou. As far as Lu Weimin knew, during the ten years he had worked at Fengzhou Tuoda Cement Factory, women had become
There were quite a few, but the last one was a bit like a couple with him and gave birth to two sons. But even so, Lu Weimin learned about the situation and Zhen Jingcai was still having a romantic affair. Even Lu Weimin had to admire Zhen Jingcai for his extraordinary energy.
A sixty-year-old man actually still has such a high level of personality and energy.
But Yueqing is not inferior either. No matter in the past life or in this life, Yueqing's performance is not good. In this life, Yueqing's life in Changzhou is also particularly "wonderful". To put it more vulgarly, Yueqing is just a rotten whore.
Even in today's increasingly complex and diversified society, it is not uncommon to take money to support "old white faces", but Yueqing is willing to do so. The reputation of Yingfeng for dozens of miles also makes the Zhen sisters
She couldn't hold her head up, and even Zhen Jie and Zhen Ni were unwilling to go back to Factory 195.
The situation of these two families in the previous life caused the Zhen sisters to suffer a great deal. In this life, Lu Weimin thought that his intervention could help them, but he did not expect that Zhen Jing had just left Fengzhou and nothing had changed. The same was true for Yueqing, but they were just fooling around from the previous life.
Now I am keeping an "old face".
The more he thought about this problem, the more guilt Lu Weimin felt towards the Zhen sisters. He originally thought that having past life memories could solve everything, but he didn't expect that many things would still proceed according to historical inertia, and he could not change anything.
Lu Weimin was a little surprised when he received Andejian's call. He looked at his watch and saw that it was already past eleven o'clock in the evening. What's going on so late?
From the first words spoken by Andejian, Lu Weimin could feel the excitement and joy rushing towards him, "Weimin, what are you doing? Are you asleep? Then I won't disturb you."
"Secretary An, where can I be? I'm still reading." Lu Weimin was leaning on the bedside, still reading, while Yue Shuangting had already fallen asleep next to him.
"Oh, I just finished dinner here and sent the leader to the hotel." Ande Jian seemed to be deliberately controlling his emotions, but Lu Weimin could feel that the other party's mood seemed a little restless, "The Central Organization Department's
lead."
The leader of the Organization Department of the Central Committee of the Communist Party of China was like a bolt of lightning flashing through Lu Weimin's mind. He immediately reacted, "Secretary An, they are..."
"They came here to inspect the democratic construction of our Puming village-level team and the construction of the leader selection mechanism. They visited two counties and visited three points. They were very satisfied. By the way, they also visited several agricultural companies and local governments here.
It is very meaningful to carry out cooperation between companies and farmers at the grassroots level." Andejian interrupted Lu Weimin, probably because he was afraid that Lu Weimin would understand it wrong.
Lu Weimin laughed, trying to cover up the fact that the Organization Department of the Central Committee of the Communist Party of China came to inspect the construction of village-level political power and the democratic disclosure of village affairs in Puming at this time. It was because Xiang Zhuang danced the sword with Peigong in mind, and Ande Jian still had some skills, so he only gave it during the Spring Festival.
He mentioned this matter, and within two months Ande Jian was able to leverage people from the Organization Department of the Central Committee of the Communist Party of China. This network of contacts and skills are not easy.
"Haha, Secretary An, I understand. Yesterday I saw the news in Changjiang Daily that Secretary Rong, Governor Gao, Secretary Du and Minister Zuo met with the leaders of the Organization Department of the Central Committee of the CPC. I am still wondering what they are here for.
Yes, I'm here to see Pu Ming, that's a good thing." Lu Weimin smiled strangely.
Ande Jian, who was on the other end of the phone, also heard something strange in Lu Weimin's laughter. He pondered for a moment before saying: "The Central Organization Department and its delegation came to inspect the construction of grassroots political power and the establishment of a democratic and open mechanism for village affairs. However, they also had some discussions with the province.
Other things, there are also things about me.”
"Then what did they say?" Lu Weimin was most concerned about this.
"It's hard to say now. You know, until this kind of thing is certain, no one dares to give you a guarantee." Ande Jian hesitated for a while but still didn't say too sure. If it weren't for Lu Weimin, he wouldn't reveal it, but
Even if it was Lu Weimin, he couldn't keep his words to death, otherwise it would be too embarrassing if he missed the mark.
But when it comes to this, Lu Weimin also understands the meaning, which means that there is great hope.
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