Volume Four The scenery here is unique Chapter 46 The branches and vines are climbing
Volume 4 The scenery here is unique Chapter 46 The branches and vines are tangled
"For the people, I'm not saying you. Men must be cautious in marriage. Although you, Sister Jingyi, is a woman, you also understand some basic principles." Zhang Jingyi smiled slightly, "Your Brother Chen is from the Propaganda Department of the Provincial Party Committee, To be honest, I could not go at that time, but Brother Chen wanted to go down and train and hone it. This would be beneficial to his future development, so I told me that the child was still studying at that time and I was busy with work here. I am also worried that I will not support it, so I will not go if I say I can't go, but I still support your brother Chen. People always have to fight for their lives. Don't regret it when they are old. Men have to have some of their own careers. , If a woman truly loves a man, she should plan for her career.”
"Haha, Sister Jingyi is a heroine. It is a blessing for Brother Chen to marry Sister Jingyi. How can ordinary girls compare with Sister Jingyi?" Zhang Jingyi said to you, Sister Jingyi, and Brother Chen, Lu Weimin wisely changed the title to Sister Jingyi and Brother Shen. If he intends to get closer, but if you are not sensible, that would be too slow.
"You can't say that, for the people, compared to your brother Chen, your advantage is very obvious now. Your brother Chen is in his thirties and has only reached a department-level cadre. In this way, many people are still jealous. You are just now. Under 25 years old, he is now a real deputy department-level cadre. If you reach such a high position in your youth, there will definitely be many people who are not convinced and say sarcastic words. The best way to make these people shut up is To achieve results, this requires you to put in more effort and sweat than others. If there is no woman who supports you, or even a woman who pulls you back, your work will inevitably be affected. Influence, so I hope you should carefully consider this point, even if it is temporarily endured, or if it is the same as your partner, don’t make a decision on marriage issues easily.”
Lu Weimin had a hot face. Zhang Jingyi seemed gentle and quiet, but she spoke extremely sharply. The meaning of tolerance is intriguing. Maybe she was afraid that she would not be able to grasp it. She could express her sexual intercourse, but she could not talk about marriage. When it comes to marriage, these words are really tough and rough.
Shen Zilie also felt that his wife's words were a bit fierce. Fortunately, he knew that Lu Weimin was not an outsider, so he just glared at his wife with anger. Zhang Jingyi didn't care, but instead glared at Shen Zilie.
"Thank you for your concern. I'm still young and haven't considered marriage yet. However, I still have a very emotional foundation between Zhen Ni. Just like Sister Jing Yi said, maybe girls are like this now. , not used to the hard life, and felt that everything had to fulfill her wish. I would communicate with her patiently, and I also believe that she should understand and support my ideas."
Although Lu Weimin also recognized Zhang Jingyi's words, feelings cannot be cut off by saying that they can be cut off. If reason can completely control emotions, then the world will become a robot world. We will judge and analyze them entirely through the calculation of gains and losses, and then make a decision. , This is exactly where humans are most different from other animals.
The lunch was very pleasant. There were only three members of Shen Zilie and Lu Weimin at this family dinner. Shen Zilie's daughter was only twelve years old and was still in the sixth grade of elementary school. She was a very smart little girl and looked quite close to Zhang Jingyi. Like, very cute.
Lu Weimin had something to do in the afternoon, so he said goodbye and left after dinner.
It was not until after Lu Weimin left that Shen Zilie complained that Zhang Jingyi should not speak too much about introducing a partner. He knew that Lu Weimin cherished his relationship with his current girlfriend, and Zhang Jingyi's words were a bit too unlucky.
"Zi Lie, we are more clear about these things than you. If a girl is arrogant and unrestrained, then it will be sooner or later for that man to leave her. Love is sweet and intoxicating, but it is not enough to be sweet.
It must be rich and mellow to last for a long time." Zhang Jingyi was confident, "You think people like Lu Weimin can be trapped by just their appearance? Humph, it's not me that a girl who is too beautiful is not for a man
A good thing is not a good thing for girls themselves. I mean it is too beautiful, not ordinary beauty.”
Shen Zilie was a little puzzled. His wife's words seemed to be a bit tongue twister: "What does it mean?"
"It's very simple. For men, girls who are too beautiful will bring a sense of insecurity to men. Of course, men with absolute confidence are exceptions; for women, if they have too outstanding appearance, it's easy
Let men focus on her appearance and ignore others, and women are used to attracting men with their appearance and appearance, and ignore the development of their own connotations. Over time, when men are used to seeing your appearance,
And if you don't realize this, then you will soon become a past tense like a broken flower and willow. Men are always happy about the new and old. If there is no real charm to attract men, relying solely on their appearance, then it's very
Unfortunately, this attraction is too light and will soon evaporate."
Shen Zilie is ridiculous about his wife's long article, but he has to admit that his wife has a thorough analysis of the psychological factors of attracting men and women. It is easy for a beautiful woman to attract men, but if you want to tie a man to your side for a long time, then
It's not easy, but to tie an excellent man tightly to you, you really need to have excellent charm. This charm is not just about appearance and appearance. As my wife said, the meaning is
,The development of temperament and personality is the most important thing.
"So do you think Yue Shuangting is quite suitable for Lu Weimin?" Shen Zilie smiled.
"Well, that's right, I have this idea. Needless to mention Shuangting's personality, she is a dancer. She seems to be arrogant, but it is mainly because of family reasons that made her develop that kind of personality. I watched her grow up.
Yes, this girl is cold on the outside and hot on the inside, and has a sharp mouth and a heart-warming heart. She has no character. She is a 22-year-old girl and has been together. Where can I find her in Changzhou City these days? The person who introduced her to her was kicked
The threshold, but this girl didn't like anyone else. Secretary Yan had talked to me twice. In addition, the people are indeed very good, otherwise I wouldn't consider serving the people. After all, the gap between this family is too big.
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Zhang Jingyi knew the meaning of her husband's smile, and she felt a little teasing, but she didn't care, "That's right, I want to match Weimin and Shuangting. Secretary Yan asked me to help find a good one, good for the people,
He has strong abilities and good personality, and is just right to match Shuangting. If they can succeed, it will be of great benefit to the future development of the people."
"Why don't you say it will be more helpful to your husband?" Shen Zilie said angrily.
Yue Shuangting's mother Yan Yongshu is the deputy secretary of the Changzhou Municipal Party Committee and is in charge of party, mass and personnel affairs in the Changzhou Municipal Party Committee.
Shen Zilie returned to the Propaganda Department of the Provincial Party Committee for almost a year and a half in a flash. With his experience as County Mayor of Nantan, he has been in full swing for two years.
It is said that this year the Organization Department of the Provincial Party Committee intends to allow cadres of the Provincial Party Committee to exchange cadres with four relatively developed cities, Changzhou, Kunhu, Qingxi and Guiping, to cultivate cadres' work abilities and experience in multiple aspects, that is, four
The municipal meeting will select a group of cadres to serve in the provincial party committee and government agencies, and the provincial party committee and government will also serve in the local area. After the term of office expires, the next step will be determined based on the situation. This means that local cadres will have
You may stay in the province and not return to the local area, and the provincial cadres may take root and develop locally.
Shen Zilie has already cleared the Provincial Party Committee Organization Department through the relationship left behind by his father-in-law, and the Provincial Party Committee Organization Department has basically agreed that as long as the Provincial Party Committee Propaganda Department pushes Shen Zilie out, then Shen Zilie can be considered and delegated to Chang.
City, Shen Zilie has been in Nantan for more than a year. Zhang Jingyi hopes that if Shen Zilie can continue this time, it is best to develop in Changzhou. Although the Provincial Party Committee Organization Department can place Shen Zilie in Changzhou, where is the specific position?
But the Changzhou Municipal Party Committee will decide.
Changzhou is a deputy provincial city. A department-level cadre like Shen Zilie will put you at the deputy director of the Municipal Archives Bureau or the deputy director of the Forestry Bureau, and is also a department-level cadre. You will put you at the city center like Wuyou or Mochou.
As the deputy secretary and the deputy district mayor are also at the level of a department-level official, but the value of such a department-level official-level official is too different.
When Yan Yongshu was a member of the Standing Committee of the Changzhou Municipal Party Committee and Minister of Propaganda, Zhang Jingyi was quite familiar with Yan Yongshu, but no matter how familiar he was, the old man was still there, but Yan Yongshu took the initiative to make friends with Zhang Jingyi.
But the old man quickly retreated, while Yan Yongshu was promoted to deputy secretary of the Changzhou Municipal Party Committee. To be precise, Zhang Xiuquan did not work in the matter of Yan Yongshu being promoted to deputy secretary of the Changzhou Municipal Party Committee, and there were even side effects. What Zhang Xiuquan wanted to promote at that time was
The other person, so after Yan Yongshu was promoted to deputy secretary of the Changzhou Municipal Party Committee and the old man retired, their relationship became a little cold and indifferent.
Now Shen Zilie wants to stay in Changzhou and seek a good position. Yan Yongshu is a step, but this step is not so easy to step on. If you step on it, others may not pay attention to you. If you don’t do it, you will have to slip.
It's boring to find something, so in this situation, Zhang Jingyi naturally put his mind on it.
In Zhang Jingyi's view, if Lu Weimin can really get together with Yue Shuangting, it will undoubtedly be a happy situation for heaven to make a good match, which will be of great benefit to Lu Weimin's future development. Yue Shuangting has also found a good husband, and her family can also be due to this relationship.
Reaching the already estranged relationship with Yan Yongshu is very important for Shen Zilie's next step.
"Zi Lie, I don't deny that I have this intention in it, but don't you think this is not inconsistent with the nature of this matter?" Zhang Jingyi said calmly: "Things in the world are like this, and more importantly, this is a good thing, which has led to
I won't feel any guilt or anxiety about it. I think they are suitable. I believe Secretary Yan can see this too."