After playing with his children for an entire afternoon, Dong Xuebin felt that his mentality was ten years younger. He entertained his children happily and was in a very good mood.
"Baby, give daddy a smile."
"Yeah, yeah, hee!"
"Haha, you are so obedient, come on, give me a kiss from daddy!"
"咿咿! 咿咿!"
"Haha, look how cute you are."
When Dong Xuebin kissed her, he pricked her with his beard. It tickled her so much that Xiao Qianqian giggled and naughtily stretched out her hand to hit her father on the chin. Dong Xuebin was so pleased that he couldn't bear to let go. He just held the child in his arms for a few seconds.
When she was young, she would hold her to drink milk and play with her. Luan Xiaoping kept saying next to her that Qianqian should take a nap, but Dong Xuebin refused to listen and insisted on holding her life and death. This shows that people in the capital are different from other places.
The difference is that people in some cities pay attention to "free range" and don't care much about their children and let them grow up on their own, but people in the capital are different. They never leave their children, even if they can walk, they have to hold them, for fear of any accidents.
I can’t say this doting is good, but I can’t say it’s bad either. Each city has its own education method.
Luan Xiaoping complained to Lao Yang: "Look at this Xiao Bin. Last time he told me not to spoil his children too much. Look at his virtues."
Yang Zhaode smiled and said: "I haven't seen him for a few days. He also misses the child."
Luan Xiaoping shook her head and said: "He has spoiled her, so how can we take care of our children?"
Yang Zhaode was amused for a moment, "Come on, don't you also sleep with your child in your arms every night? Aren't you used to Qianqian?"
Luan Xiaoping argued: "It's different for me. I'm afraid that the child will urinate at night, be hungry or something, so I can hear her crying in my arms."
Yang Zhaode chuckled, "You two, don't talk about each other."
Luan Xiaoping snorted, "Don't talk about me, who secretly went out with the child to show off this morning? You look so beautiful, you don't even know what your last name is."
Yang Zhaode smiled and said: "I didn't say that I don't love Qianqian? This little guy is so cute. I have never had a child, so of course I have to love her."
Luan Xiaoping paused and said, "You should pay more attention to Xiao Bin in the future. He won't take my words seriously now. He has too many ideas. You put up your airs. When he does something wrong, you should criticize him more. Don't be obedient.
She looked at him and said, I can see that Xiaobin respects you very much."
Yang Zhaode smiled and said, "Okay."
Suddenly, Luan Xiaoping hurriedly walked up and said: "Okay, okay, Xiaobin, don't keep lifting her up for Qianqian. If you drop her again, give her a hug."
Dong Xuebin refused, "Mom, why are you robbing me? I've been here for a day and will go back tomorrow."
"It's too dangerous for you to tease her, give it to me quickly."
"Oh, look at you."
"Hurry up and give it to me. Go talk to Lao Yang."
Hearing this, Dong Xuebin had no choice but to reluctantly give the child to his mother. After finally kissing her little forehead, he walked up to Yang Zhaode and said, "Uncle Yang."
"Haha, let's talk in the house?"
"……OK."
In the bedroom.
The two closed the door.
Yang Zhaode said: "We are the only two here. There is nothing bad to say. Haha, your mother asked me to criticize you more. In fact, I have nothing to criticize. I still say the same thing. You are already at the deputy director level.
You are a leader. You have climbed up step by step on your own for so many years. You must have your own ideas and working methods. There is no need for me to impose my methods on you. There is no need."
Dong Xuebin smiled and said: "Uncle Yang, you still understand me."
Yang Zhaode whispered and pursed his lips, "Your mother is just worried about you. She has to worry about everything in her heart, otherwise she won't be able to sleep."
"Yes, my mother has had this character for many years."
"So as a son, don't let her worry too much."
"I understand Uncle Yang."
"As long as you understand, I won't say more. Haha, actually speaking of it, I have high hopes for your way of working. When I was your age, I didn't have the ability you have. At the age of twenty-five,
You are only a deputy director-level cadre, and you are still working in the Municipal Commission for Discipline Inspection. When you take this position, who can’t give you a thumbs up? There is no second person in Bei Ha Province anymore. You are young, capable, and you have reached the level.
With Huilan as a good wife, your future development will definitely be much better than that of your Uncle Yang. Haha, do you have any plans for the future? How are you doing in this position?" Yang Zhaode said.
"It's okay." Dong Xuebin thought for a moment, "But the Discipline Inspection Commission seems to have a lot of power and holds the power of life and death. In fact, it's all nonsense. When it comes to the situation, you still have to listen to the leader. Whatever case the leader asks me to investigate, I have to go.
Investigation, the boss said that the case must be suppressed, but I can’t investigate it even if I want to. Now I am just thinking about taking my time and mixing up my seniority, making my seniority a little thicker, and then going further.”
"If you go one step further, will you be in the right place?"
"Well, haha, I've been thinking about it."
"I just got promoted from the main department to the deputy department, and I want to get a good job again? But it is good to have a goal, but it is too difficult to get a good job at your age."
"I know, so take your time."
"Well, don't worry, we have to walk step by step." Yang Zhaode paused and said, "I don't know if you like to hear this, Uncle Yang, but I'd better say it. You'd better tell Hui Hui more when things happen in the future.
Please ask Lan for advice. She is your wife and will never harm you. Moreover, Huilan took the position of deputy mayor when she was only thirty-one years old. Compared with her, I am not as good as me. Huilan is in that kind of political world.
There is no harm in asking her for advice as the children grow up at home."
Dong Xuebin smiled and said: "I understand what you are saying. Huilan is much smarter than me. I have always felt that her kind of talent is the most suitable to be an official."
"You're quite suitable."
"Stop praising me. I don't know myself. I'm just a god of plague. I'm not bragging to you. I'm good at fighting and killing. I'm not afraid of anyone who torments me. I love whoever the hell I am. I still have this.
I am confident, but if there is any political struggle, I will definitely not be as tactful as Huilan in handling the problem. I was born to offend others, and I'm afraid I won't be able to change it in this life." Officialdom pays attention to compromise and balance. This is probably Dong Xuebin.
It can never be done. There is never compromise in his dictionary, only kill! Kill! Kill!
"You, hehe."
"I'll remember what you said. I'll ask Huilan for advice in the future. Anyway, I'll just take my time this year and wait to see if there's any chance of promotion. If so, I'll try my best again."
Dong Xuebin’s goal has always been very clear, which is to climb up and keep climbing up.
After being promoted to the deputy director level, what he has to consider now is how to manage himself to the full director level!