Kyosuke Futo took a deep breath, relaxed the stiff muscles on his face, and tried to look kind. The patient in front of him was obviously very relaxed and did not need his help, so he could proceed to the next step of formal treatment.
After the atmosphere relaxes and the patient relaxes, it is time to show a sincere attitude, guide the patient to talk about the pain in his heart, and use a focused and serious manner to make the patient feel that he is valued.
This is not only a work routine, but also very effective in treatment. Many times, the backlog of psychological problems is due to the lack of a qualified audience. Some patients with minor problems will be mostly cured after talking about it.
This method of acting as an audience is like a screen, which can directly cure some patients with minor problems.
In the process of listening, there must be a certain amount of interaction, showing empathy, standing on the side of the patient, helping him to vent his emotions as much as possible, and giving him a sense of recognition, so as to prevent the patient from becoming biased and thinking that the whole world does not understand him.
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After the patient's mood has stabilized again and he has calmed down, he can then start targeted treatment. From the previous talk, he can identify the key to the problem and get twice the result with half the effort.
Although this method is not a secret method, it has always been very useful, but today... Toru Amuro silenced Fuudo Kyousuke with just one sentence.
"I am engaged in funeral work. Can you understand the oppression of our job?"
Kyosuke Futo wanted to say yes, but this... it was not a universal point that facilitated empathy. If he insisted that it was yes, it would be considered disingenuous.
If the patient believes that the doctor is not sincere, he or she will become defensive and the treatment will be difficult to be effective.
Therefore, he had to use another way to break the situation.
"This kind of work can indeed easily make people feel depressed and frightened. Facing the silent dead every day will test your nerves, right? If it were me, I wouldn't be able to hold on for a few days. It's really amazing that you can do this job.
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Use contrasting methods to praise the other person, so that the other person can feel satisfied and accomplished, and then feel comfortable and excited, making it easier to open up.
Although Futo Kyosuke is a technical expert, his acting skills are still good, and he thinks he is impeccable.
However, how could Toru Amuro follow his words and say, "It's okay. Dead people can't lie or harm others. In comparison, living people are the most terrifying. Don't you think so? Doctor Futo?"
Futo Kyousuke was stunned for a moment, remembering something, his face turned gloomy unconsciously, and he subconsciously nodded in approval: "It is true that dead people will not harm others, and living people have the most vicious hearts..."
Amuro Toru narrowed his eyes slightly and saw that something was wrong with his mood. He took advantage of the situation and continued: "Our funeral agency is quite special. Most of the commissions we receive so far are for the deceased in criminal homicide cases."
"So, I am very clear about the details of the case. The case that impressed me the most was the first commission I received from our president. It was a story of enduring humiliation and taking revenge..."
Toru Amuro talked about the case of President Oki, telling the story of the murderer who used dirty methods to kill President Oki Yu in order to avenge his friend who was forced to death. He also narrated the grudges and resentments involved.
Futo Kyousuke was very engrossed in what he heard. When he heard that the murderer Shi Ren was targeted by President Oki Yu because of his talent, he suddenly felt empathy. He was exactly the same as himself!
When he heard that President Oki Yu secretly used unfair means to steal the fruits of labor of Toto and his friends, forcing their start-up company to the edge of bankruptcy, causing his friend to be unable to bear the pressure and commit suicide by jumping off a building, Kyousuke Futo
Clenched his fists.
In the end, when Shi Ren used a trick to kill President Omuyu, his expression immediately relaxed, and even a subtle smile appeared on the corner of his mouth.
Toru Amuro has been observing the expression of Kyosuke Futo, but he doesn't suspect anything because of this. After all, these days, there are a lot of people who feel that they are outstanding talents and are being excluded and framed, so this is a person who is very easy to sympathize with.
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The 30-year-old psychotherapist in front of me has been transferred from surgery to the cardiology department. This is an almost unrelated department, and he must have been criticized in the workplace.
Therefore, everything was according to Toru Amuro's plan. Seeing that the time was almost up, he stopped talking and then said to Futo Kyosuke:
"Ah, I'm sorry, I couldn't stop talking once I started talking. It seems it's time. There are still my colleagues waiting behind me, so I'll leave first."
Only then did Kyosuke Futo suddenly come to his senses. He was actually fascinated by what he was listening to. He stood up a little awkwardly and said, "Well, how about I extend it for another half an hour? There will be no extra charge."
Toru Amuro quickly declined his kindness, "That's no need. By the way, could you please help me issue a mental health certificate?"
"Um..." Futo Kyousuke hesitated for a moment, but thinking about the other party's behavior just now, it really didn't seem like he had any serious psychological problems, so he had no choice but to nod, "Okay."
Toru Amuro breathed a sigh of relief. With this thing, he should be able to stop the president's mouth, right?
"Thank you, doctor." Toru Amuro smiled and took the mental health certificate and left the consulting room, calling the next person in.
Futo Kyosuke quickly took a deep breath, patted his face, and cheered up. His performance just now was so unprofessional. He was so absorbed in listening to the story that he didn't provide the patient with the proper consultation at all.
I can't be so unconscious anymore.
Tuk-tuk-tuk~
"Please come in."
Kamel opened the door and walked in, and stood in front of the table. The feeling of oppression rushed towards him, making Futo Kyousuke stunned for a while.
"Please take a seat." After coming back to his senses, Fuudo Kyosuke said quickly.
"I have learned about your work from Mr. Amuro just now. Things like life and death are indeed the most touching things. It must be very uncomfortable for you to face the scenes of life and death every day, right?"
Kyousuke Futo changed directions and began to talk about human emotional issues.
Kamel replied in a muffled voice: "It's okay."
Futo Kyosuke and Kamel stared at each other for a long time, but the latter did not say anything, so he had to ask: "Excuse me...Does your industry have regulations that require you to control your expression when working?"
Kamel didn't know that Hanyu Qing'an was specifically screened because of this issue when recruiting. He thought about it carefully and didn't remember mentioning it specifically, but no one smiled in front of the family of the deceased.
, so he shook his head.
"No."
Kyousuke Futo looked at the dull big man in front of him and didn't know what to say. Is he squeezing out toothpaste?
"We are just chatting. There are no outsiders here. Can you relax a little, for example, smile?"
Kamel smiled honestly, and Kyosuke Futo suddenly felt chills running down his spine. He finally realized that smiles could not solve all problems, and might even be the problem itself...