You haven’t experienced the joy of Damao’s desolation, but I understand. I advise you to cherish it, present the facts, be reasonable, and tell Xu Damao not to divorce because he has no children. He firmly disagrees with Xu Damao and Lou Xiao’e’s divorce.
He wondered if Yi Zhonghai had anything to do with this matter.
Lou Xiao'e's mind is still relatively simple now. Although she and Xu Damao have no children and their life is not considered happy. However, Xu Damao still listened to Lou Xiao'e's orders before, and the two of them also had a wonderful past.
I had never thought about divorce before, but when Xu Damao proposed divorce, I just felt aggrieved. You Xu Damao doesn’t want me, and I don’t want you Xu Damao. I can’t stand the grievance, and now I want a divorce.
The aunt can only advise Lou Xiao'e that one day is a day for a husband and a hundred days, and a hundred days for a husband and wife are like the depth of the sea. They have spent hundreds of years practicing to cross the same boat, and thousands of years of training to sleep together. If there are no children now, it does not mean that there will be no children in the future. For the cultural level of the aunt
That said, it has been played for a very long time.
For the second uncle, this is also a big deal. Lao Yi has lost all his prestige, and it is he, the second uncle, who is in charge of the courtyard. Since Xu Damao and Lou Xiaoe live in the backyard, this matter naturally falls within his jurisdiction, regardless of whether Xu Damao
Whether or not to divorce is a major matter in the courtyard, and his second uncle cannot be left out.
The second uncle and Xu Damao understood the situation. As the saying goes, there are three types of unfilial piety, and having no heirs is the most important. He is not Yi Zhonghai, but an old homeless man. He hopes that everyone will be homeless like him. I think it is not unreasonable for Xu Damao to divorce because Lou Xiaoe cannot have children.
Xu Damao expressed support.
The third uncle is good at making peace with each other. He would rather tear down ten temples than break up a marriage, and encourage reconciliation rather than divorce. At the same time, he felt that divorce would not be a bad thing for two people. He went over to understand their thoughts and wanted to reconcile.
The third uncle agreed, and the third uncle also supported the divorce.
When I heard that the two people were getting divorced, the happiest person was Qin Jingru, and the second happiest was the deaf old lady. She had just recovered from her injuries and could barely walk, and then heard that Lou Xiao'e was getting divorced. It was a double happiness for the old lady.
The deaf old lady has been thinking about Lou Xiao'e for more than a day or two. Whenever she has something to do, she will ask Sha Zhu to come to Lou Xiao'e. She often asks Lou Xiao'e to buy various things for Sha Zhu. But because Sha Zhu and Xu Damao are rivals, Sha Zhu and Lou Xiao'e can also do it.
It is said that they are naturally in opposition, and the two of them are disgusted with each other.
The deaf old lady took Lou Xiao'e's baggage and took Lou Xiao'e back to her home. She separated the two people first. If they don't want to separate, they have to leave. Such a stupid and rich woman should raise her as her grandson, Silly Zhu.
The enthusiasm of the people in the courtyard was aroused. Divorce, I have heard of it, but I have never seen it. This kind of thing has not happened in the more than ten years since the founding of New China. Old girls, young wives, old and young men all expressed their concern about the incident.
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The sensation caused by the incident was second only to the time when He Daqing ran away with the White Widow.
"Xie Cheng, you and Xu Damao have a good relationship. Go find out what's going on. Why are the two of you suddenly getting divorced? Xu Damao usually listens to Lou Xiao'e more at home." Yu Li said coquettishly with a big belly.
"How do you ask me to ask this? It's not a happy event. I like people to come to ask for congratulations. The couple has broken up, and you still let me make trouble. Don't you know Lou Xiao'e? You can ask Lou Xiao'e for information. I
I also want to know what is going on." Yan Jiecheng also asked excitedly.
"Lou Xiao'e and I know each other, and we just chat with each other, not much. We are neighbors in the same courtyard, and she can't talk to me as ordinary acquaintances. Our relationship is not as good as that between you and Xu Damao
, you two have been drinking together, maybe you can find out the inside story." Yu Li said gossiping.
"I can probably guess the reason. I don't know the specific situation. In fact, if we don't care, we will always know what is going on after a long time. Xu Damao's house is so lively now. The three uncles are taking turns to do Xu Damao's work.
I have to do some ideological work. Even if I want to go, I have to wait until there is no one around Xu Damao’s house before I go there.”
"What could be the reason? Didn't they all say that Lou Xiao'e can't have children? You said that the relationship between the two of you is usually very good, and the living conditions at home are among the best in the courtyard. The two of them don't have to worry about anything, except for daily life.
There were more quarrels, but Xu Damao was also very kind to Lou Xiao'e. Lou Xiao'e did what she said at home, and Xu Damao cooked, washed dishes, and did housework at home. Why did it end up getting divorced this time?" Yu Li said with emotion.
"The root cause must be because there are no children, but it is not the beginning of having no children. The two of them have never had children before. They had a quarrel before, and Xu Damao went to buy some Chinese medicine. The matter was over. This time, he looked at Xu Damao
If you really want a divorce, it’s impossible for nothing to happen.”
Yu Li said angrily: "Why are you men so heartless? Lou Xiao'e, a young lady, has been living with Xu Damao for several years. She used to live in a big villa, but now she lives with Xu Damao in two rooms in the courtyard. She used to eat at home.
What I eat is delicacies from the mountains and seas. Now I will eat a little game with Xu Damao at most. Xu Damao is still not satisfied with this. He wants a divorce if he wants to get divorced. How can a man be dissatisfied with anything!"
Yan Jiecheng didn't expect that this could hurt innocent people. He looked at Yu Li's face when she was pregnant with the child and let her do it once.
"Stop, stop, stop, let me tell you, Lou Xiao'e is living a life that no one else can live. Besides, even if everything is good, she has not given birth to a child. Xu Damao only represents Xu Damao.
, cannot represent all men. Xu Damao went to the countryside and had a relationship with the widow. I don’t know, except for Yi Zhonghai and Shazhu, there are also men who like the widow." Yan Jiecheng explained, the more he explained, the more uncomfortable he became.
The men in this courtyard are really dishonest, and all of them are philandering. Good women just don’t have the fragrance of widows, right? People who like widows are all concentrated in this courtyard, and it’s all because of the evil trend brought up by He Daqing.
Yu Li said in surprise: "Xu Damao wouldn't have true feelings for any rural widow. He wants to marry him and go home! Do you think what I said makes sense?"
"How dare you think about it and have a real relationship with a rural widow. Do you know what a rural widow looks like? Do you know how many children the widow has in her family? Xu Damao is the kind of person who likes to be a father, likes to do good things and raise children for others.
People." Yan Jiecheng said with a smile.
"It's unlikely that she'll fall in love with a rural widow. She'll fall in love with a rural girl. If the two of them are privately engaged for life, then Lou Xiao'e will be at a disadvantage."