All in all, all in all, Wang Manyin did not stop this marriage, it was really because of Sun Shaoan, it was really not easy to find a mother-in-law with whom they could live together.
Although Sun Shaoan didn't really hit Xiulian this time, he even wiped Xiulian's tears and comforted her by hugging her.
However, after comforting her, she still disagreed with splitting up and living alone. Instead, she asked Xiulian not to act strange in front of Sun Yuhou and his wife, so that the two old people would notice that Xiulian had the idea of splitting up and living alone.
Xiulian is still Xiulian, because love stopped Shaoan, so in the end she couldn't defeat Shaoan and agreed to Shaoan's request.
However, I have knots in my heart, and naturally it is difficult to face it as calmly as before.
"Man Yin, when I return to Shuangshui Village this time, I feel that Xiulian is a lot colder to her parents."
Xiulian's strange behavior was easily noticed by Xiulian, who went to Shuangshui Village to find Xiulian to deliver fabrics and pick up clothes.
This is also the reason why the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law got along very well before, and there was no conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law like in ordinary families. It was due to the indisputable character of Mother Orchid.
But there is also Xiulian who sincerely treats the elderly people of the Sun family, treating the three elderly people of the Sun family no differently than she treats her own father He Yaozong. In front of the elderly people of the Sun family, Xiulian is more like a daughter of the Sun family than a daughter-in-law of the Sun family.
Therefore, Xiulian was not so enthusiastic about the elderly people of the Sun family, which was easily noticed by Lanhua.
"No way, Xiulian's filial piety can be heard all the time not only in Shuangshui Village, but also in our Guan Village. Normally there are no conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Xiulian has no problem getting along with her parents. Maybe she is in a bad mood occasionally.
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Although Wang Manyin hasn't understood it yet, he can guess what it is.
After Xiulian married into the Sun family, her biggest worry was that she wanted to separate the family.
When she was living in hard times, the actual conditions did not allow it. Now that the conditions are better, she has no worries about food, and the cave dwelling is well-furnished, Xiulian has found the right time and will definitely request a separation of the family.
Although Lan Hua has never served her parents-in-law, she has lived in the countryside for so many years. Most of the problems among rural parents are caused by conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
I have no experience, but I have also seen a lot of conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. I know how rare it is for Xiulian to be so kind to the three elderly people of the Sun family.
"Maybe. It's really rare for Xiulian to get along so well with her parents. If there wasn't enough time today, I should have taken the time to chat with Xiulian."
"It's okay to have a chat if you have time, but if something really happens, don't get involved. You are just a sister-in-law, and now you are considered an outsider in the Sun family."
Xiulian and Lanhua usually spend a lot of time together. Wang Manyin is afraid that Lanhua will get involved in the separation of the Sun family, so he takes a precaution in advance. It is not appropriate for Lanhua to get involved in this matter.
Conflicts often arise between aunts, aunts, and sisters-in-law in rural areas.
Just because Lanhua and Xiulian get along very well, they should pay more attention to propriety in their future interactions.
"Man Yin, do you know something?"
Maybe it was Wang Manyin's reminder, but it was a bit obvious. Lanhua looked at Wang Manyin suspiciously and asked.
"What can I know? I don't know anything. You went to Shuangshui Village. How could I know if I was at home all the time."
Wang Manyin quickly denied it.
The Sun family members are all responsible and kind people, but that does not mean they are not smart.
From Sun Yuhou to the children of the Sun family, it can be seen that the whole family is a smart person and is not easy to deal with.
Orchids are naturally very smart, but they usually don't show it, mostly because of lack of knowledge.
The only time she made a mistake was when she was in love. The woman who fell in love fell in love and married Wang Manyin.
So Wang Manyin's reminder was more explicit and Lanhua was suspicious of it.
Regarding the separation of the Sun family, it is most appropriate for old man Sun Yuhou to bring it up himself.
Sun Yuhou is not a Hu Tu father. He understands the truth. Even if he prefers Sun Shaoping, he will not ignore Sun Shaoan.
The family had a hard time before. Without Sun Shaoan and his wife, Sun Yuhou could not support the old and young at home, so it was a helpless move for Sun Shaoan and his wife to continue to subsidize the family.
Now that life is getting better, Sun Yuhou is able to support the family by himself, and Shaoan has built a cave dwelling again.
No one needs to remind him. When Sun Yuhou wakes up and the time is right, he will naturally propose to separate the family.
In the days that followed, Wang Manyin followed Lanhua to Shuangshui Village twice. Xiulian had indeed changed a lot.
Respecting the elderly and helping them with housework are all the same as before. There is no problem and they are doing well.
But it was also obvious that Xiulian no longer had the same enthusiasm for the old man as before, and there was a gap between them.
It is inevitable for a daughter-in-law to be dissatisfied with her husband.
What Sun Yuhou did was indeed unethical. He let Sun Shaoping go to Huangyuan to visit the flower world, and let Sun Shaoan and his wife serve the elderly in the countryside. It didn't count that Sun Shaoan and his wife were willing to die, and they had to share the money they earned with Sun Shaoping.
Wang Manyin did not have any objections to Sun Yuhou's actions.
Wang Manyin didn't think it was any more noble for Sun Shaoping to work as a job hunter than to start a small business by himself.
It's hard for Wang Manyin not to think about the different attitudes shown by Old Man Sun towards his son and son-in-law when they made the same choice.
Although Wang Manyin had an idea, he didn't show it.
There's no need. Wang Manyin is just a son-in-law, and he doesn't live with Old Man Sun. At most, he only comes back with Lanhua once a week.
There is a distinction between closeness and distance. It is obviously unreasonable for a son-in-law to ask his father-in-law to treat him the same as his son.
"Shao'an, how about the sofa my brother-in-law gave you to sit on? If you don't like the elastic one, wait until your brother-in-law has contacted Sponge and I will give you a sofa made of sponge."
Sun Shaoan has moved to the new cave for a while, but there is no furniture and the three-hole cave is still relatively empty.
During the years when Wang Manyin was wandering outside, Shaoan helped Wang Manyin's family a lot, whether it was helping Wang Manyin's family cultivate private land, raising cat eggs and dog eggs, or asking for leaves for Wang Manyin's forced labor camp.
Wang Manyin has kept it in mind. Shaoan has moved to a new kiln now. Wang Manyin doesn't mind giving Shaoan a set of furniture, but Sun Shaoan refuses to accept it, so when he moved to the new kiln to warm the house, he accepted a set of sofas given by Wang Manyin.
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Because people in northern Shaanxi are accustomed to sitting directly on the Kang when entertaining guests, the style of the sofa Wang Manyin now makes is also simple.
A sofa set consists of two single sofas and a small wooden coffee table.
"Brother-in-law, you don't need to give us any more gifts. The sofas we have now are very good. You don't have to worry about the furniture. I make a lot of money from transportation now. After I make more money for a while, I will buy the wood and you can help me."
We build furniture at home.”
"Shaoan asked me to tell you that if I buy furniture for you, you should use it first. The new cave dwelling is not suitable for the old furniture you are using now. When you make money, won't it be the same when you pay me back the money I spent to buy the wood? You