Of course I don’t want my children to suffer the hardships I have endured. I am still very open-minded.
Besides, these two competing women have no intention of becoming their children's in-laws.
Fan Jinyou looked at it quite interestingly. Both of them talked about nibbling joints without mentioning it casually.
Without pulling the child, these two will have to wait until they are in their thirties before getting married.
But no matter whether the two children like to play together or not, because of the complicated relationship between Chen Xueru and Xu Huizhen, the two of them meet frequently.
It's okay to say that this kind of relationship is between childhood sweethearts, but it's definitely almost meaningless.
Since meeting Xu Jingli, Hou Kui has become a lot more intimate with Chen Xueru, his biological mother.
When he saw someone, he said "Mom, hug me" and pointed at Chen Xueru to take him to Xu Jingli to play.
Fan Jinyou made a bold guess, maybe this kid doesn't necessarily like Xu Jingli now, but such an older child may just like it and find children of the same size to play with.
Chen Xueru also liked to go along, simply because Hou Kui had been in college for so many months and could speak a few simple words. It was really just to show off the baby to Xu Hui.
No matter what, time flies by quickly, and it’s 57 years in a blink of an eye.
Although the New Year is here again, there is not much difference after getting married. That is, I went back to the courtyard on New Year's Eve and stayed there for one day.
For the time being, Lao Fan’s New Year’s Eve dinner can’t be upgraded much.
Making a new set of clothes every New Year is of course a bit of a luxury for adults.
But for a family with a daughter-in-law who owns a silk and satin shop.
Just using cotton to make clothes is already very low-key.
Even if there are no cloth tickets, it is not a problem for the Chen family, who have been in the silk and satin business for decades, to obtain some cloth.
According to Chen Xueru's wishes, one person should make a suit of silk clothes.
However, no one in the Fan family agreed. If we wear silk clothes, how can my father go to work and my mother do housework?
For ordinary people, it is really impractical and they would be reluctant to wear the clothes after making them. It is better to just make cotton clothes.
It was also inappropriate for Fan Jinyou. A street cadre was wearing silk and looked like a capitalist, which was outrageous.
In the end, I managed to make two sets of pajamas out of silk.
After staying at my own home for a day, I followed Chen Xueru back to my mother-in-law's house for a day.
After such a long time, Fan Jinyou finally had a good drink with his brother-in-law Chen Xuefeng.
Fan Jinyoucai discovered that this brother-in-law was not as bad as Chen Xueru usually described.
My cultural literacy is not low. I also went to middle school seriously. I am also proficient in everything about eating, drinking and having fun. Where can I find delicious food? Which alley has the successor of which cuisine? Which restaurant, which chef and which dish is delicious? Let’s fight with each other.
, I know how to raise a bird, and my speech is humorous, and I can be considered a second-rate person.
He was despised by Chen Xueru because he had no business talent.
My brother-in-law is not a prodigal. He has not got into the bad habit of gambling. His family is rich enough for him to be handsome.
Life seems to be much more fulfilling and joyful than that of Chen Xueru.
"Jin You, come to my house sometime, show you the birds I raise, and sing you a song."
The two chatted happily, and when they were leaving, the elder brother-in-law was reluctant to leave.
It was not easy for the two of them to get together, because it was Fan Jinyou's first year of marriage, and his uncle had even changed the time of returning to his mother-in-law's house.
"Okay, brother, I'll come play with you when I'm not busy."
"Okay, when you come over, I'll invite a Cantonese chef to come over to my house and cook a table for you to try."
In the north, if you want to eat some Cantonese food, it is indeed rare. The ingredients are rare and there are few cooks with this skill.
Fan Jinyou really wanted to hang out with his uncle for a while. At least he would see more of him and other people wouldn't be surprised by what he cooked.
"Okay, thank you first."
"Fan Jinyou." After returning home, Chen Xueru sat on the sofa and started talking: "How come you and my brother are chatting so happily."
Although he said it with a smile, Fan Jinyou could tell with his eyes closed that Chen Xueru was not satisfied.
"That's your brother, my brother-in-law. I have to build a good relationship. Of course I have to chat with my brother-in-law. It's just like you and my mother can have a happy chat. This is the truth."
"It's okay to chat, but you should have less contact with him. You can't learn from him. The most important thing for a man is to pursue a career. A man is just like my brother. What can he do if he doesn't do his job properly?"
My brother-in-law wanted to start a serious business, but he couldn't. You Chen Xueru took over the silk business. Fan Jinyou secretly slandered him without speaking out.
"Okay, no problem. I won't eat Cantonese food for now. I just said I need to be on duty during the Chinese New Year and I'm busy with work."
To be honest, Fan Jinyou was still a little disappointed.
Not many people in this era know how to play, and they are all busy supporting their families in Hukou.
It's rare to meet such an interesting person as his brother-in-law, so Fan Jinyou still wants to follow him to experience and have fun.
Fan Jinyou is sometimes in a dilemma, not knowing that Chen Xueru wants to keep him busy with his career.
I still want to be Chen Xueru, the man behind this successful woman.
It changes all of a sudden. If you want Fan Jinyou to do it all, there are contradictions and it is impossible.
In the next few days, most of them ate at home, and Erya also had a holiday during the holidays. Fan Jinyou also saw Chen Xueru's true cooking skills.
It can only be said that it is better than nothing. It is okay to make some radish, cabbage and potatoes during normal times. During the Chinese New Year, it is too difficult for Chen Xueru to eat some good food.
It was difficult to process the semi-finished products, so I decided to marry Fan Jin. Ordinary men don't know how to cook.
Without a nanny during the Chinese New Year, food is not as good as usual.
It's not very good at taking care of children, which is quite the style of this era.
If the child wants to cry, cry, fuss if he wants to, and rest quietly when he is tired.
Fan Jinyou had only a few days to celebrate the New Year, so he took the time to cultivate Chen Xueru's cooking skills and life skills at home.
Or times are different, women don’t have so many problems.
Even if Chen Xueru wants to be a strong woman, she does not object to cooking and housework.
Nowadays, there are not many varieties of home-cooked dishes. In a few days, Chen Xueru can at least understand the home-cooked dishes that she often eats.
At least it won't just be the third thing, cabbage, radish, potatoes, but they can be cut into shreds, slices, and cubes.
It is not easy to get some meat dishes, chicken, duck and fish.
In terms of pasta, Chen Xueru cannot be said to know anything about it, but she can only make dumplings.
Fan Jinyou clearly remembered that Chen Xueru could cook Shaomai, but Chen Xueru did not have this skill yet.
The rest time during the Chinese New Year is not long. After starting to go to work, Chen Xueru is much happier than celebrating the Chinese New Year at home.