If we understand these things, we can say that it is not a question of trusting or not trusting a man, but a question of whether a daughter-in-law cares about her own man or not.
Whatever Chen Xueru does, she likes to figure out the money first.
Fan Jinyou spent all day messing around with various things, and Chen Xueru was always concerned about the source of the money.
Although Xu Huizhen is not as clear about money as Chen Xueru.
But a businessman's instinct is to know Cai Quanwu's salary very well.
How much salary Cai Quanwu received, what he bought for his family, and how much money he should have left, even if he didn't do calculations specifically, he would have a rough idea in his mind.
Salary is a transparent matter, and any neighbor can help you figure it out, let alone a member of your family.
"No, Xu Huizhen's life is too hard. We are good sisters. How can I see Xu Huizhen suffer. Fan Jinyou, when will you prepare some good food again, let's treat Xu Huizhen's family to a meal."
Chen Xueru wanted to help Xu Huizhen, but she definitely wanted to show off to Xu Huizhen.
"Okay, no problem. Just treat me to a meal. There's no problem. Leave the ingredients to me."
There is no other meaning, just because Xu Huizhen stimulated Chen Xueru and made Chen Xueru willing to have one more child, it is still worth a meal.
After agreeing, Fan Jinyou got ready. He came back after get off work every day and brought home some things, including eggs, mushrooms, fungus, vermicelli, fish, and finally used this month's ration to buy a pound of pork belly.
"Mom, Uncle Fan, do you want to invite Xu Jingli to our house for dinner?"
After Hou Kui found out, he looked happy and grateful and said to the two of them.
Seeing how moved he was now, Fan Jinyou asked Hou Kui to call him dad, and Hou Kui would definitely be willing to do so.
"Yes, your Aunt Xu and her family are coming to our house for dinner tonight. You have to act sensible to your mother tonight. You can't let your mother and I lose face in front of your Aunt Xu."
"Okay, Mom, I will definitely not be naughty and behave well. I will play the harmonica for you in the evening."
If Hou Kui liked Xu Jingli when he was a child, it was because he simply liked playing with children of the same age.
Now that she is five years old, she still likes Xu Jingli so much, just because her parents are cute.
Hou Kui is a little young, but he is still very smart. He knows how to please girls at such a young age. If he doesn't show it at all, it will be so difficult to find a wife in the future.
"Xue Ru, when I first heard what our Lao Cai said, I couldn't believe it. In this year of disaster, everyone doesn't have enough food to eat. You want to invite our family to dinner for no reason."
Before dinner, Xu Huizhen came as invited.
No matter why Chen Xueru wanted to invite this meal, even if it was just to show off, Xu Huizhen had no reason not to come.
It's OK to wrong yourself, but no parent would be happy if you wronged your child if you have the means.
By bickering with Chen Xueru, the two children at home can have a good meal and a toothpaste.
If this kind of thing happens every day, Xu Huizhen can come here every day without any problem.
"How can this be said to be for no reason? I heard that you, Xu Huizhen, eat steamed buns at home every day. How can I, Chen Xueru, watch helplessly? I don't have the ability to provide food for your family, but treating your family to a good meal is not a problem.
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"Jingli, Jingping." Xu Huizhen called the two children over: "Come and thank you Aunt Chen. Thank you Aunt Chen for thinking about us and treating our family to dinner."
"Aunt Chen, thank you."
"Hey, my girls are cute and well-behaved. Jingli, Jingping, you don't have to be polite when you get to Aunt Chen's house. You can eat more later. You must be a good girl, unlike our two naughty children who are naughty and mischievous all day long."
If these words were spoken to others, Fan Jinyou would still believe that Chen Xueru was trying to reassure people and be polite.
But speaking to Xu Huizhen, Fan Jinyou sounded a bit like showing off.
As for boys, it's normal for boys to be naughty. There are two boys with a similar age gap in the family, so there's no way they won't fight and make trouble. Even brothers can't avoid it, not to mention that these two children don't have the same father.
Although Hou Kui is a little older, heredity is also very important. Fan Jin has the talent to be strong enough to carry a tripod. Although Zhijun is young, he is much stronger than his peers and does not suffer much.
With Chen Xueru, a strict mother, in charge, the quarrel between the two brothers was not serious.
When two children fight, Fan Jinyou definitely can't be the referee. He doesn't want to wrong his son, and he can't deal with Hou Kui.
Chen Xueru also understood this situation and consciously took on the role of the red face at home.
"Xueru, don't talk anymore. The food is ready. Let's serve it first. It's time to eat. Chatting without eating will be too much for adults, and neither will the children."
No matter what Chen Xueru thinks, Fan Jinyou did this to thank Xu Huizhen.
In Fan Jinyou's opinion, there is no point in the two women fighting over each other.
But when it comes to stimulating Chen Xueru, Xu Huizhen is really a useful tool.
"Okay, Huizhen, Lao Cai, let's have dinner." After the adults and children were seated at the dining table, he said: "Lao Fan, we are always treating guests to dinner, how can we not have wine? Bring out our family's good wine.
Bottle. Although I can’t drink, you three can.”
Fan Jinyou took a bottle of Fenjiu and poured three glasses of it, then opened a bottle of soda for each of the children before the meal officially started.
Food is precious, and the invitation to eat is sincere, so at first I was busy taking care of the children's meals. I didn't say anything that would affect my mood. I just kept the conversation simple.
After the children had eaten, Hou Kui wanted to show off his musical talent, and the children all followed him to watch the fun.
The remaining adults really started drinking and chatting.
"Chen Xueru, your food is indeed good, but you can't just care about yourself. If you have spare time, help my family buy some."
Xu Huizhen is still very rich, but at this time, pure money is not that important.
Among ordinary workers, those with a salary income of more than 20 to 40 yuan are the most common.
But after all, this is the capital city, where there are many senior technical personnel and many leaders. The salary of a department-level cadre is more than 100 yuan a month.
Therefore, there are a large number of people who have the ability and need to improve their lives.
Not to mention the hundreds of merchants under Daqianmen, not one of them is short of money.
There is a small black market near the front door that has some supplies, but they will be gone soon.
"Fortunately, I have prepared a few days in advance to entertain you this time. Lao Fan is responsible for our family's purchasing. If you have any spare time, I have to ask Lao Fan." Chen Xueru first said to Xu Huizhen, and then: "
Lao Fan, when purchasing supplies, can you buy some for Huizhen?"