The two children usually have a quiet relationship with each other, which Fan Jinyou can accept.
But the two of them are half-brothers, so there is really no need to antagonize each other. After all, Chen Xueru does not have the throne for the two of them to inherit.
To avoid deepening the conflict, it is better for the two of them to separate.
"The relationship between the two is good. Zhijun can't just play with Hou Kui. For such an older child, both parents have to go to work, so the child should be sent to the Yuhong class."
"Those who are sent to the red class are all families who have no one to take care of their children. We have someone to take care of their children. When the children are older, I will hire a private teacher for them. Is it necessary to send them there?"
The family environment in which I grew up is different, and the difference in educational philosophies is quite big.
There is no absolute answer to which one is better or which one is worse, but facts have proven that according to Chen Xueru's thinking, raising two children together is not a good choice.
When people get along with each other, it's often like being far away and being close together. It's possible that the two brothers are a little far apart. If they don't get together every day, the relationship can be better.
"It is very necessary. The matter of sending Zhijun to the Yuhong class has been decided. If the effect is not good, it will be up to you to decide how to educate the child in your belly in the future."
"Fan Jin has you..."
"Listen to me this time. You forgot that during the public-private partnership, you didn't listen to me and let Xu Huizhen take the lead. How do you regret it?"
"Don't just tell me, ask the child's opinion. Is the child willing to go to the education red class?"
"Zhijun, come here." Fan Jinyou called his son over: "Zhijun, would you like to go to the Yuhong class? There are many children playing with you every day."
"Dad, I am willing to go."
This result is not surprising to Fan Jinyou. Children are naturally lively and active, yearning for new things and full of curiosity about the whole world, so they are not suitable to be kept at home all the time.
Fan Jin has two families. Because Chen Xueru is a strong woman, she is more independent.
I'm not that attached to my mother, and I won't cry and scream when she leaves her.
I don’t know if there will be trouble in the Yuhong class, but when I ask now, the answer I get is definitely in the affirmative.
After hearing Fan Zhijun's answer, Fan Jinyou showed Chen Xueru's hand, and the matter was settled.
As for Hou Kui, who was looking at him helplessly, even though his eyes were pitiful, Fan Jinyou was powerless and couldn't really intervene.
Chen Xueru had no problem with Hou Kui's elite education. Fan Jinyou really had no reason to help Hou Kui refuse something that ordinary children could not ask for.
It's easy to say anything about your own son, but it's even less likely to be a cheap son's turn.
If you help Hou Kui refuse, you may want to raise the child to be a waste.
Even if Chen Xueru doesn't think so, her neighbors will inevitably think so.
The Chen family has a long tradition of nurturing their children, and they are proficient in all kinds of music, chess, calligraphy and painting.
Chen Xueru also kept pace with the times and did not let Hou Kui learn traditional musical instruments such as the guqin. He was very enlightened anyway.
Chen Xueru’s educational ideas were at least twenty years ahead of the times.
This is how my brother-in-law was trained. Apart from having no business ability, he is quite good in other aspects.
A person's success cannot be judged simply from his business ability.
There are also many things that are very meaningful even if you don't make so much money.
Moreover, the child's ability in business is too strong, which may not be a good thing for Chen Xueru.
An heir who is too capable, and a mother who is unwilling to delegate power. No matter how you look at it, there will be conflicts, and it will not be easy to live in peace.
Fan Zhijun was going to the Yuhong class. A few days ago, Fan Jinyou thought it would be better to pick him up and drop him off in person.
Even if the child is quite willing to go to the Yuhong class, there is no familiar person around him, and he has to adapt to a strange environment.
When I gave him away on the first day, the child behaved well, neither crying nor fussing.
When I picked him up in the evening, there was no problem with the child, and he told Fan Jinyou enthusiastically about the games he played.
But after the three days of novelty wore off, he started to look like other children.
"Zhijun, don't cry yet. You are playing with other children in Yuhong class. Your father and I will pick you up after get off work. If you still cry, I can only send you home and let your little sister take care of you. I want you to play with Hou Kui."
Then Fan Jinyou saw the child's cry and stopped abruptly: "Dad, come pick me up early."
"Are you so unwilling to play with Hou Kui?"
"Dad, please come and pick me up early, okay."
At a young age, he would pretend to be stupid and answer questions incorrectly. Fan Jinyou couldn't figure out whether the child didn't want to be locked up at home, or whether he didn't want to play with Hou Kui. The relationship shouldn't be that bad.
After half a month has passed and the child has basically adapted, the other benefits of being sent to the Yuhong class have not yet been experienced.
First of all, I experienced that the children are much more attached to their families.
One of Fan Jin's goals has also worked. The relationship between the two children has improved a lot since they don't spend all day together.
Of course, being intimate is temporary, and things will start to break out again when we stay together for a long time.
After the child got used to it, Fan Jinyou entrusted Xiaoya with the pick-up and drop-off of the child.
"Fan Jinyou, Hou Kui said he also wants to go to the Yuhong class."
"Um."
"It was you who asked Zhijun to go. Now Hou Kui, who is causing trouble, also wants to go. He has told me several times."
"yes."
"Fan Jinyou, can you please stop imitating Cai Quanwu in speaking? It's enough to meet Cai Quanwu every day when you go to work. Can you give me a full reply?"
"It's up to you whether to go or not."
Fan Jinyou's principle has always been very clear, not to express his own opinions on Hou Kui's matters, so when Chen Xueru asked, Fan Jinyou had no choice but to transform into Cai Quanwu and just respond.
Fan Jinyou expressed support for whatever ideas Chen Xueru had.
"No, Hou Kui has to study music and calligraphy every day, so how can he be sent to Yuhong class to play."
Asking and answering questions by herself, Chen Xueru was also having fun, and asking Fan Jinyou was just Chen Xueru's politeness to a cheap father like herself.
"You have a point."
"Although the child has mentioned that he wants to go there several times, children are playful. It's just that the child himself is not sensible, so he needs me as a mother to make the decision. The child will naturally thank me when he grows up."
"you're right."
Although Hou Kui would be a little unhappy if he was not allowed to go to the Yuhong class, it was just a temporary temper.
The two children in the family, neither Hou Kui nor Fan Zhijun, could oppose Chen Xueru's final decision.
Chen Xueru is not someone who will let her children lose their temper. When she is angry, she is really capable of being cruel to her children.