Chapter 829 The old lady goes to the appointment
"Do you know what's going on? Mom hasn't talked to you yet."
Li Suhua wanted to talk to Zhou Bingkun about this matter. It was obvious that he was ill and had to go to the doctor. He wanted Zhou Bingkun to help mediate.
Things are changing very quickly. A few years ago, when Zhou Bingyi was just fifty, the old lady still hoped that Zhou Bingyi could divorce and remarry.
Now that Zhou Bingyi is nearly sixty, there is no hope of having a child. The old lady only hopes that Zhou Bingyi can have a companion in his later years and have a stable and harmonious family.
"I know, I know. If you want to chat, I'll come over and chat with you another day."
Zhou Bingkun certainly did not have the ability to mediate the conflict between Zhou Bingyi and Hao Dongmei, but he could still chat with Li Suhua.
But it would be more convenient to talk when Zhou Bingyi and Hao Dongmei were not around, so that Zhou Bingkun could comfort the old lady as much as possible.
The next day, Zhou Bingkun picked up Li Suhua and went out to return the photo album.
After all the staff of Guangzi Film were relocated, Guangzi Film had a bunch of small adobe houses, which were quickly demolished.
Using several excavators and forklifts, the light lettering tablets were flattened in a day's work.
In less than two months, the original house was demolished, the foundation was laid, and construction began.
The optical film is now a large construction site. Regarding construction safety, it is difficult to get in front of it. There are some obstructions and nothing can be seen outside.
Zhou Bingkun pushed Li Suhua, and the two stopped in front of the planning map.
Li Suhua's physical condition means that although she can still walk a little, she still has to use a wheelchair to go shopping.
Looking at the planning map, we can see that compared to the demolition and resettlement houses in Wangjiatun, the commercial community planned and developed here is obviously much higher-end.
"Mom, you see, everything is like this. It can't go out, and new ones can't come in. How could such a beautiful community be built if the light lettering plates were not demolished."
On the surface, Zhou Bingkun is talking about light-text films, but in fact he is also talking about Zhou Bingyi's marriage.
"Although many of you think it is better to live in a building, in fact, what Mom likes is the original adobe house at home. It is warm in winter and cool in summer."
Li Suhua said that old houses are good, and Zhou Bingkun was a little unsure whether Li Suhua understood what he meant, whether he was saying that old people are good too.
After all, the old saying that clothes are not as good as new clothes is as good as old ones is still very popular in Li Suhua's generation.
"How can an old house that is more than fifty years old be so good? Our house is pretty good to live in, and it has been overhauled many times. If people hadn't lived in it all the time and had regular maintenance and repairs, our house would have...
He might have collapsed early."
The house needs to be maintained, and the relationship also needs to be maintained.
There is little maintenance in the relationship between Zhou Bingyi and Hao Dongmei.
They have been married for more than thirty years, and the relationship between the two of them when they were young has long been exhausted.
"Bingyi and Dongmei, the two of them have indeed spent a little time together over the years."
Li Suhua pointed it out directly, and Zhou Bingkun knew that Li Suhua had always understood what he said.
More than ten years ago, Zhou Bingyi served as deputy mayor in Jichun and then went to work in Hayang.
Zhou Bingyi and Hao Dongmei entered a state of separation.
Over the past ten years, Zhou Bingyi and Hao Dongmei have never spent a few days together seriously.
"This is one aspect. The reason why two people become like this is not just because they spend less time together. There is already a problem between the two people. When Zhou Bingyi was transferred, the two people would choose to live apart in two places."
Zhou Bingkun now thinks about it, when Hao Dongmei was unwilling to follow Zhou Bingyi for external transfer.
This somewhat illustrates the point that Hao Dongmei, unlike Zheng Juan, does not put her own family and her own man as the center.
In fact, my feelings for Zhou Bingyi are not that much.
It can be said that Hao Dongmei stayed in Jichun and took care of Jin Yueji as an excuse.
Jin Yueji is a retired old lady. As long as she can follow her daughter and son-in-law, she can live in her old age wherever she goes.
"Your brother and your sister-in-law have such a good relationship. I persuaded him so much in the past few years, but he was not willing to divorce Dongmei. How come there was a problem in the past few years?"
"What's the problem? Do you really think it's so easy to be a home-based son-in-law? You can live in someone else's house and be more comfortable in someone else's home than in your own?"
It cannot be said that the Hao family treats Zhou Bingyi poorly, especially after knowing that Hao Dongmei cannot get pregnant, the Hao family treats Zhou Bingyi very well.
But it doesn't mean that Zhou Bingyi, the door-to-door son-in-law, can be happy doing what he does.
"Isn't this all what your brother wanted?"
"If the Hao family didn't have that kind of status, would Zhou Bingyi be willing to be the son-in-law? If the Hao family didn't have that kind of status, would you and the old man have agreed to allow Zhou Bingyi to live in the Hao family?"
The fact that Zhou Bingyi moved into the Hao family was semi-forced. After the Hao family proposed it, Zhou Bingyi did not want a divorce, so there was no possibility of rejecting it.
No matter Zhou Bingyi originally wanted Hao Dongmei as a person, or the background of the Hao family, or both.
Zhou Bingyi was not so willing to be the door-to-door son-in-law, that's for sure.
"Your brother can't stand a lot of grievances." No matter what, Li Suhua would of course stand by Zhou Bingyi.
"He is wronged. Hao Dongmei, the daughter of a senior cadre, is not wronged when she marries Zhou Bingyi, the son of a worker. Zhou Bingyi has been working in other places for so many years and has ignored his family and his wife for more than ten years. Isn't Hao Dongmei wronged?"
Even if Hao Dongmei is infertile, her appearance, education, and personality are all excellent, so she will marry Zhou Bingyi.
"It's Dongmei who feels wronged." Li Suhua paused for a while before nodding.
"Don't you understand this? Both of us have grievances. When we have feelings, we can tolerate each other. After we no longer have feelings, we naturally can't tolerate each other anymore."
The two of them had conflicts before, and they only broke out at this time.
Zhou Bingkun still felt that the most important reason was because Jin Yueji was no longer there.
When his mother-in-law was here, Zhou Bingyi took a lot of convenience from the Hao family in his career, and he always wanted to give in to Hao Dongmei no matter what.
When Jin Yueji was around, Hao Dongmei herself felt confident.
With her mother by her side, Hao Dongmei would not feel inferior because of her inability to have children.
But after Jin Yueji disappeared, Hao Dongmei was just a pretty good doctor, and Zhou Bingyi was also an important leader. The gap in status between the couple became highlighted.
In an ordinary family, if there is a slight gap between strong men and weak women, or there is a big gap, then that is fine.
But Zhou Bingyi and Hao Dongmei are the son-in-law's family.
It is normal for women to be strong and men to be weak. Hao Dongmei's status suppressed Zhou Bingyi for his whole life.
Suddenly the status of the two people changed, a two-level reversal, and of course Hao Dongmei lost her sense of security.
Hao Dongmei's current mentality is the same as Debao Chunyan's.
When Chunyan's career was not as good as Debao's, and her family status was out of balance, Chunyan would have a violent temper, become irritable, make trouble without reason, and look for trouble when nothing happened. It was the same as wanting to quarrel with Debao.
When she was confident, Hao Dongmei could always be more tolerant towards Zhou Bingyi.
You won't lose control, get angry, get angry, or quarrel just because Zhou Bingyi has a female subordinate or colleague next to him.
After losing her sense of security and confidence, Hao Dongmei naturally looked at Zhou Bingyi, and there was a problem everywhere.
"Then your brother and your sister-in-law can only live like this? What kind of life are they living like this!" Li Suhua said unwillingly.
"Children and grandchildren will have their own blessings. You are already this age, so you can live a good life on your own. Why do you have to worry about Zhou Bingyi? He is almost sixty, how can he still not handle his emotional problems?
There's something wrong. He can control the hearts of millions of people, but he can't control his own."
When it comes to relationships, it's not easy for outsiders to get involved.
Zhou Bingyi has always had good ideas. When he was young, Li Suhua could not interfere.
At Zhou Bingyi's current age, it would be even harder for Li Suhua to interfere in Zhou Bingyi's feelings, so it would be better to let it go.
"No matter how old Zhou Bingyi is, he is still my son. Can I not care about him if he is my son? I have listened to your quarrels. You want a divorce. Dongmei is going to live in the hospital dormitory."
"You also have to think about the good news. Even if Zhou Bingyi gets divorced, it is not necessarily a bad thing. Although it is possible that when he gets old, he will be helpless and helpless. But it is also possible that the old tree will sprout new shoots and get married again.
If you can have a child of your own, even if you have a child now, it will be too late to take care of you in old age. But if you find a new wife, it doesn’t mean that Zhou Bingyi can’t find a cheap son.”
It is difficult for Zhou Bingyi to have a child, but he wants to raise a son.
Considering Zhou Bingyi's identity, it is quite easy.
Just as Zhou Bingyi was willing to be the son-in-law of the Hao family at the beginning, there are also many people who are willing to be Zhou Bingyi's son-in-law at an advantage.
"Zhou Bingkun, what are you talking about? Can other people's children be the same as your own?"
"Don't worry, Zhou Bingyi's life is not in vain. His identity will definitely not be disliked by his cheap son. Regardless of whether he is his biological son or not, his children will definitely be filial to him."
"Bingkun, what you said is not unreasonable." Li Suhua realized what was going on and said a little surprised.
"Although it is what it is, you don't have to be too concerned about it. Just let things develop naturally. Let Zhou Bingyi decide what will happen. If there are any changes in Zhou Bingyi's marriage, it really is
People will say there is something wrong with my style."
Zhou Bingkun was really afraid that his reminder would open the door to a new world for Li Suhua.
This made Li Suhua have the idea of inspiring Zhou Bingyi to divorce and remarry.
"I'm sensible. If your brother can live happily with Dongmei, I won't mention this to him."
Li Suhua's expression became much more relaxed.
His mood improved a lot. Zhou Bingkun took Li Suhua out this time and walked around in such a big circle. The purpose of comforting and persuading must have been accomplished.
Zhou Bingyi can only understand whether Zhou Bingkun's persuasion was too strong this time.
After having a simple meal outside, Zhou Bingkun sent Li Suhua back.
In the next two days, Zhou Bingkun did not go to Zhou Bingyi's house to find Li Suhua, but played outside with Zheng Juan for two days.
After all, Jichun is her hometown. Every time she comes back, Zheng Juan wants to go shopping and have fun in Jichun.
Take a look at the city where you grew up and see if there have been any recent changes.
The couple has gone out for so many years, taking their brother-in-law, their daughter, and their son with them.
When two people go out to play alone, there is still very little time.
Early on the third day, Li Suhua called Zhou Bingkun.
"Bingkun, do you have anything to do today?"
"It's okay to say it's okay, but it's okay to say it's okay. I'm going to go to National Day and catch up, and get together with friends."
"Then you don't have anything serious to do. Come and pick up mom. Can we go somewhere together?"
"What place?"
"Yueyue brought her partner home. Your sister asked me to come over. You are also in Jichun. You have nothing to do. Why don't you come with me and meet her?"
"I won't go to Zhou Rong's house. If you really want to go there, I can send you there."
"I'm not going to your sister's house. Yueyue's partner has booked a hotel and we'll meet in a store, that's it."
Li Suhua reported the name of a high-end hotel in Jichun. Zhou Bingkun had never stayed in Jichun for many years and had heard of it.
It is considered one of the best and most expensive hotels in Jichun.
"Okay, I'll take you to the hotel."
"You are Feng Yue's brother-in-law, why don't you go along and meet Feng Yue's partner?"
"Feng Yue is bringing her partner home to meet her parents. She has her own parents, and having you as her grandma is enough. It's not a wedding. My uncle doesn't need to be there, so he won't join in the fun."
"Then just send me there. I told your sister that you are in Jichun, so she won't be allowed to pick me up."
It wasn't a big deal to send Li Suhua to the hotel, and Zhou Bingkun didn't need to change his plan.
It's better to arrange a party for National Day and catch up.
At eleven o'clock, Zhou Bingkun arrived at Zhou Bingyi's house first and picked up Li Suhua.
After preparing to send people to the hotel, I went to another hotel to find National Day and Chao.
"106, Bingkun, this is the box your sister is talking about."
"Hey, please come over. If Zhou Rong doesn't go to pick me up, forget it. I don't want to go to the door to greet you."
When they arrived at the door of the hotel, Zhou Bingkun didn't see Zhou Rong's family, so he could only send Li Suhua to the private room to find someone.
"Feng Yue, don't think about it, I don't agree!"
Zhou Bingkun heard Zhou Rong's roar when he was still a little far away from the door of the private room.
I haven't heard Zhou Rong like this for several years. When I heard it, Zhou Bingkun was a little uncomfortable.
"If you don't agree, my love is my freedom. I will marry whoever I want to marry!"
This voice was a bit unfamiliar. It was Feng Yue's voice that Zhou Bingkun had not seen for several years.
"There seems to be a noise inside, can you come in?"
After reaching the door, Zhou Bingkun asked Li Suhua.
Li Suhua didn't reply to Zhou Bingkun at all, but opened the door and walked in: "What are you doing? Why are you still arguing?"
After opening the door, Zhou Bingkun saw that there were many people sitting in the room.
Zhou Rong, Feng Huacheng, Cai Xiaoguang, and Feng Yue were all there, as well as a middle-aged man in his forties whom Zhou Bingkun didn't know.