Zhao Yiping felt a little weak when dealing with Huang Xiaohua. Huang Xiaohua was a loach and was very slippery.
Not only is he slippery, but there are also endless tricks, making it difficult for people to guard against him. If such a person is offended, if he is not careful, he will be seduced by his tricks, and there will be no place to find the regret medicine.
Relying on his status as deputy secretary, Zhao Yiping would always give Huang Xiaohua a little look, but this man was as soft as cotton candy. If you hit him with a punch, he would be neutralized silently.
It can't hurt his bones and muscles.
Sometimes Zhao Yiping was furious, but Huang Xiaohua always had a smile on his face, a very humble and respectful smile, as if Zhao Yiping was happy to slap him twice or punch him a few times to vent his anger.
So much so that Zhao Yiping often thinks that Huang Xiaohua really confirms the recent popular witticism that the most humble person is invincible!
If Huang Xiaohua was just like this, Zhao Yiping wouldn't feel helpless. More importantly, Huang Xiaohua is very loyal and knows how to please Shu Zhiguo.
This is what troubles Zhao Yiping the most, and it is also what annoys him the most. Huang Xiaohua controls every detail of the entire county committee, including the issuance of county committee documents, the implementation of the spirit of the county committee, supervision of implementation, and so on.
From the teacups used on the leader's desk to the purchase of toilet paper used in the toilet, these are all within the scope of Huang Xiaohua's control.
He has a nose like a dog. He can detect any slight movement of the county committee's nose. Once he detects it, Shu Zhiguo will know it immediately!
Therefore, Shu Zhiguo does not need to do anything. Everything that happens in the county committee cannot be hidden from his eyes.
Shu Zhiguo has a watchdog like Huang Xiaohua, and it will be very difficult for anyone who wants to go inside the county party committee and make some achievements.
In the past, when Ma Buping was around, Shu Zhiguo would always give Zhao Yiping some space. He wanted the horse to run and not eat grass. Shu Zhiguo would not do it. If he gave Zhao Yiping space, he would use Zhao Yiping.
As a spearman, use Zhao Yiping to deal with Ma Buping.
Now that Ma Buping is gone, Zhao Yiping really feels that his living space is getting narrower and narrower.
The cunning rabbit dies, the lackey is cooked, the flying bird disappears, and the good bow is hidden. Zhao Yiping really lacks a correct understanding of this point!
Zhao Yiping did not realize this, but Huang Xiaohua understood this very deeply.
Huang Xiaohua's attitude towards the problems between Yizhou Town and Caishui Group was always based on treating the symptoms rather than the root cause. The tense situation in Yizhou Town that had just been resolved soon became tense again. Deputy Mayor Huang of Yizhou Town went to the countryside for investigation and was beaten.
Sap, sent to the hospital.
Deputy Mayor Huang cursed at the hospital, which soon angered the people again, and local people began to besiege the hospital. The town police station could not control the scene at all, and urgently asked the county public security bureau for help, and at the same time, the news was once again reported to the county party committee.
When Zhao Yiping heard the news, his last bit of persistence completely collapsed.
He recognized the fact that he could not stop Shu Zhiguo from carrying out his will at all. In Lihe, he was not sufficiently distinguished to compete with Shu Zhiguo!
Chen Jing was particularly surprised when he suddenly received a call from Hong Ai, deputy director of the county party committee office.
Coincidentally, when he received the call from Hong Ai, he happened to read the International Settlement and International Capital Credit chapter of "International Finance". In this article, Ma Buping had another wonderful record. Ma Buping was introduced by Credit International Settlement.
When it came to credit, he finally talked about interpersonal relationships in an imaginative way.
Ma Buping has unique opinions on the maintenance, maintenance and expansion of interpersonal relationships. The core of his opinions is eight words: "Knowledge of human feelings varies from person to person."
He gave an example: "When interacting with Zhiguo, the emphasis is on fame; when interacting with Zhao Yiping, the emphasis is on false fame; when interacting with Hong Qizhi, the emphasis is on practical benefits...,..."
"Zhiguo." should refer to Shu Zhiguo. Chen Jing didn't quite understand the two words, but he carefully thought about it. It should be related to Shu Zhiguo's metaphysical beliefs. Shu Zhiguo believed in fate and many metaphysics. Is this the same as Shu Zhiguo?
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Zhao Yiping attaches great importance to fame, and this point clearly reveals his character traits. The flatterer and Zhao Yiping will definitely get along harmoniously.
There is another interesting record here: "The most important thing when interacting with Huang Xiaohua and his like is domineering. This kind of people are different. When interacting with such people, do not be close to them and respect them. You treat them as pigs and dogs, and they treat you as their father and brother."
, you treat him as a friend, and he treats you as a pig or dog. The characteristics of such people can be summed up by the word "cheap"."
When Chen Jing saw this paragraph of text, he immediately burst out laughing, laughing so much that tears flowed out. At this moment, he realized how vicious Ma Buping was. In his eyes, what kind of existence was Huang Xiaohua?
Chen Jing combined his own life experience and carefully considered Ma Buping's words, and he was able to figure out the truth.
In reality, there are indeed some people who you cannot be too nice to. If you are too nice to them, they will turn their backs on you and not save you any face. If your attitude towards them is worse or worse, they will come over to flatter you and respect you.
When Chen Jing thought of Ma Buping's words, "The word 'mean' can sum up the characteristics of such people," he really had this resonance in his heart.
In addition to talking about "insight into human feelings, which vary from person to person" in interpersonal communication, Ma Buping focused on the essence of how to behave in the world. He believed that in dealing with the world, one should have "the heart is like a rock and the shape is like water!"
When Chen Jing read these seven words, a sudden surge of emotions burst out in his heart. A feeling of awakening and empowerment suddenly emerged, and he felt a sense of enlightenment that he had never experienced before.
The so-called heart is like a rock, which means that a person should be firm in his heart and have a strong sense of goal, direction, and mission, while the shape is like water, which means that a person's external performance should not stick to one mold, but should adapt to the situation and environment.
There are many changes, and it should be like water. Any place it passes through can be highly adapted to the environment, and there will never be a place where water cannot adapt.
To be more generous and free-spirited, let me give you an example.
Take the reform of Hongtupo Forest Farm led by Chen Jing as an example. At that time, the reform of Hongtupo Forest Farm encountered a lot of resistance. Why did these resistances exist? At that time, Chen Jing did not have enough prestige and qualifications. On the one hand, Chen Jing also had a more important aspect.
Jing neglected to engage in public relations and did not think about creating a good external environment for the smooth restructuring of Hongtupo Forest Farm. At that time, he paid too much attention to the appearance.
If Chen Jing could clear the relationship with some key leaders of the county committee and county government at that time and let the leaders correctly understand the goals and direction of the Hongtupo Forest Farm's restructuring, would the situation be different?
In addition to this example, if it is more general, Huang Xiaohua's character is so low in Ma Buping's eyes that he even used the word "cheap" to summarize him. How should Chen Jing handle the relationship with Huang Xiaohua in the future?
If according to the traditional concept, a gentleman should stay away from villains, such people should be kept at a distance and should be regarded as ferocious beasts.
But if it is "shaped like water", the way to deal with it will be completely different. Since Huang Xiaohua is so afraid of people, why not go along with them? Huang Xiaohua is also a county leader after all. According to the concept of superiors and subordinates, it is natural to respect leaders.
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Besides, if someone can be trusted by the organization, it means that the person has his own strengths. Ignoring his strengths because of his shortcomings is biased in itself.
Therefore, you must not only deal with Huang Xiaohua, but also be willing to deal with him. You must also make Huang Xiaohua happy to deal with yourself based on his characteristics.
What is the purpose of all this? For the sake of the heart that is like a rock, one's own goals, directions, and ambitions can never be accomplished by one person. In this process, China always needs the help and help of others.
, the more help a person gets, the greater the chance of success will naturally be.
If you set too many restrictions, don't know how to know a person correctly, are not good at discovering the strengths of others, and care too much about other people's shortcomings, aren't you drawing a circle for yourself?
There is a saying that "there are all kinds of birds in the forest." I am just one of these many birds. If I blindly watch the birds around me according to my own standards, how can my life be elevated to a higher realm?
"The sea is open to all rivers, and its tolerance is great!" A person's heart and tolerance determine the height a person can reach, and this is why this wise saying comes from.
Of course, the appearance of water is only an external manifestation. The human heart should always be as firm and stable as a rock. People are in the world, but they do not follow the world and watch the world with cold eyes. The word "spectate" suddenly improves the human pattern.
There was no wine in the place where Chen Jing was reading, so he drank three cups of tea. He suddenly felt that his today was completely different from yesterday.
These seven simple words, "Heart is like rock, shape is like water", brought his life realm to a new height.
Looking back on his past, he found that he had too many complaints and complaints. He always complained about the unfairness of the system. He always complained that the leaders were blind and valued mediocre people but not themselves.
I have always been worldly, pretending to be noble like many people, thinking that respecting leaders is flattering, and giving gifts to leaders is even more disdainful, thinking that it is a loss of personality and a loss of character.
In fact, all these ideas are bullshit. What people need is inner firmness and strength. As for behavior and interpersonal communication methods, why should we be too rigid? Some leaders like to listen to flattery, so why not flatter them?
Some leaders have a good reputation. As long as they don't violate their principles, what's the problem?
A person's maturity and a person's mastery of human feelings should start from "the heart is like rock and the heart is like water".
Chen Jing was savoring these seven words when a call came from Deputy Director Hong Ai of the County Party Committee. He felt very calm and peaceful at this time. The faces of the leaders of the County Party Committee, Shu Zhiguo, Zhao Yiping, Huang Xiaohua, etc. were already alive.
