Yes, that's right, that's what he thinks.

Because Ye Yuran told him that this is how couples are, one is always strong and the other is weak. Isn't it right that the weak one should be protected by the strong one?

Princess Yaoyue is the eldest princess. In terms of status, besides Emperor Qin's family, how many people in the world are better than her?

Zhu Qi is not as good as Princess Yaoyue in terms of status, so it is normal for her to be a "soft rice". If someone gossips, it must be because they can't eat the grapes and say sour grapes, and they are jealous of him.

Zhu Qishen thought so.

Therefore, he not only ate it as a matter of course, but also told Princess Yaoyue when he returned home, calling that person a fool.

Princess Yaoyue: "..."

Does the other party know that he was sued by a "fool"?

Zhu Qi will not resent and retaliate, and Princess Yaoyue will not be polite. No one caught by her can escape the dominance of Dayan's law.

Princess Yaoyue used the law to decide matters, and others could not say anything about her, so she gradually became more honest.

Two generations of the Zhu family have gone from mud-legged to upstarts in the court. This time, they even won the first prize due to their ability. It makes people jealous.

This kind of ability also makes people explore-why are the descendants of the Zhu family so good at reading?

Many people were moved when they thought that Emperor Qin had praised the Zhu family for their ability to raise children and that the Zhu family was planning to build their own book school.

Therefore, the capital branch of the Zhu's School that Ye Yuran handed over to Zhu Bamei and his wife was built very quickly. As soon as the land was selected, people were already coming to inquire about when they would be able to enroll.

Zhu Bamei said with a smile: "It's still early to enroll in school. My mother runs this book school actually for my two children..."

It means that today's book schools only accept men, not women. But the rules of the Zhu family are quite special. Both men and women must study, because a good girl can prosper for three generations.

"My mother knows how to read and write. If it weren't for this, she wouldn't have thought of sending our brothers to study."

"You also know that my mother gave birth to eight of us brothers and sisters. Everyone said that my mother could give birth, but even if she could give birth, she also had to feed her. In our rural areas, there are many families who cannot feed them after giving birth.

Already."

"My mother can support eight of us brothers and sisters only because of her own ability."

…

Zhu Bamei put the concept that she had prepared for a long time into everyone's mind - what is the virtue of a woman without talent? If she really has no talent and learning, and cannot read a single person, how can her mother support so many of their brothers?

So, that sentence should not be understood that way. What the sage said is: If a woman has no talent and learning, she must have moral character. There must be the same in both.

The crowd was in an uproar.

If you just want to refute Zhu Bamei's words, there are so many scholars in the world, and there must be tens of millions of people who can. But the problem is, Zhu Bamei also said that she has such an understanding based on her own experience.

Because her mother is like this, her mother is incomparable to a real rich lady, but to them, her mother is a "talented woman". She supported eight of their brothers and sisters with her own ability, and taught them extremely well.

good.

There are ready-made examples. Her third brother and seventh brother took the imperial examination and became officials, and her eldest nephew and second nephew just got the top prize in the examination. These are the results of her mother's "education".

But why is it that among so many women in the world, only her mother can do this?

"Because my mother has read books, she knows the importance of reading."

"She said that a good daughter-in-law can prosper for three generations. She doesn't want to harm her future in-laws, so she plans to train the girls from the Zhu family well. She hopes that the girls from the Zhu family can prosper the husband's family for three generations after they get married."

Therefore, girls who want to marry into the Zhu family must also be prepared. The Zhu family does not mean that a woman is a good woman without talent, but that - a woman, you either have talent or moral character, you must have both.

Like her sister-in-law, not all of them are as talented as her third and seventh sisters-in-law, but so what? Her sixth sister-in-law is of good moral character and is a good dancer and marksman; her eldest sister-in-law, second sister-in-law, and fourth sister-in-law,

The fifth sister-in-law was born in a rural area, but she is well-mannered and good at farm work.

Look, this is the Zhu family's standard for marrying a wife. Either you have talent or you have moral character. You must have something that you can use.

As for some people who are worried that mixed-education between men and women will break the rules, Zhu Bamei said: Men and women sit on different seats at seven years old, and they are not yet seven years old?

Even if you have to follow the rules, it will only be after the age of seven.

Besides, if children want to learn rules, they must be involved in them and practice them several times before they know how to obey them, right?

Otherwise, just talk without practice, wouldn't it be Zhao Kuo's talk on paper?

Zhu Bamei gave some more examples and asked each wife if she wanted to manage the shop. Apart from her husband, could she not be exposed to anything strange in her life?

Father, brother, cousin, valet...

Colleagues, friends of the future husband, and even strangers passing by while shopping.

Do women really have no need to have contact with so-called "foreign men" throughout their lives?

"If their fathers, brothers, and future husbands really have themselves, then the women should be retracted into the ivory tower. From childhood to old age, they will not see any foreign men. Male servants and bodyguards are also included.

…”

"Oh, by the way, your future son-in-law must also be considered. After all, before your future son-in-law marries your daughter, he is also a 'foreign man'."

Zhu Bamei quickly reported a bunch of "waimen" and drew a clear path for everyone as to what exactly constituted a "waimen".

If there is no blood relationship or in-law relationship, he is a "foreign man". Even if some in-laws of the same age are also "foreign men", you have to be careful, but what the heck is it before you become in-laws?

See you no more.

They are all "foreign men".

So, who said that women cannot meet "foreign men"?

Just like when a person learns how to read and write, he is not allowed to learn anything, but he is raised until he is eighteen years old, then thrown into the examination room, and asked to come back with a top score. When he returns from the exam, he will be a "talent".

But the question is, can he pass the exam?

It’s the same with women. They guard against clinging to each other since childhood. When she reaches the age, they throw her to a man she has never met before and let her stay with him for the rest of her life. It seems that she suddenly learned how to get along with her husband and how to face him.

To other so-called "foreign men"...

"Women are really powerful. When men go out to socialize, they are always taken by their elders and handed over hand-in-hand. When they come to a woman, they don't have to do it. Their eyesight goes dark. When they grow up, they become more capable. This is also the first time I've seen her."

Zhu Bamei gave many examples, but she didn't understand. Are women really so "gifted"?

Look, she wasn't allowed to learn this or that. She was raised like a pet when she was in her parents' house. But when she got to her husband's house, she learned everything?

Take care of the family business, run it properly, take care of your husband and teach your children, and be filial to your parents-in-law...

She asked, this woman has no "talent and learning", how can she teach her children?

Men are busy with their careers outside. If the children grow up well, it’s because of the men. If the children don’t grow up well, it’s because the women didn’t teach them well. That’s really embarrassing. Women are not allowed to study or be talented, but it’s not just their hair that gives them insight.

Short?

If you ask a woman with long hair and short knowledge to teach a child, what else do you want her to teach?

Finally, Zhu Bamei asked sincerely: "So, I just can't understand. While saying that a woman has long hair and short knowledge, she leads her to be ignorant, and at the same time, she carelessly leaves the whole family to such a 'short-sighted' person."

, a woman who says, "It is virtue without talent", are you really not afraid that she will hold you back?"
Chapter completed!