Chapter 1786 Most of them have been brainwashed by men
In fact, some things really cannot withstand scrutiny.
It's just that throughout the ages, everyone has only brainwashed women, saying that a woman's lack of talent is a virtue, but no one has pondered the reasons behind this.
As men who have vested interests, they will definitely not think about it.
And what about the women?
Most of them have been brainwashed by men and sincerely believe that "it is virtue" for women to have no talent, so they hide their talents and become well-behaved women to guard their "virtue".
But they have never thought that perhaps the sage's saying that "a woman's lack of talent is virtue" is actually an option, either talent or virtue. It is not the lack of talent that means virtue.
Zhu Bamei drew a line, just to tell everyone: You want to come to study with me, right?
Okay, but the premise is that you have to understand what I teach here. Don't teach it when the time comes and say that you were deceived by me. I have never lied to anyone.
Here, both my son and my daughter go to school together.
They may be separated when they grow up, but when they were young, they were definitely together.
Don't say she doesn't follow the rules. Men and women sit on different seats when they are seven years old. Anyone under seven years old is a child. What's wrong with them studying together?
No problem?
She just abides by the rules left by her ancestors.
Everyone: "..."
It feels like it's followed, but it feels like it's not.
Zhu Bamei said, don't worry, I have learned all the "Girls' Ring" and I will still abide by the rules. As for the feeling that I don't abide by the rules?
Do you dare to argue with me and show real evidence?
Sharp-tongued and sharp-tongued?
No, I just abide by "the husband sings and the wife follows" and "the husband is the heaven". My man has no objection, so what does it have to do with you having an objection? Who am I? Shouldn't I listen to my husband?
"Puch..."
Ye Yuran was happy when she heard this, and asked Zhu Bamei with a smile, "Did you really say that?"
Zhu Bamei took a sip of tea and said: "Yes, that's what I said. And I'm right. I am originally a husband who takes care of my wife and takes my husband as my heaven. My husband doesn't have any objections. What does it have to do with outsiders? I listen to my husband.
Yes, is it possible that you still listen to outsiders?"
"Then Rong Qi is under great pressure." Ye Yuran looked at Rong Qi.
Rong Qi had an honest look on her face, and she felt that it was incredible. How dare she go against Zhu Bamei at this time, and immediately said: "It's okay, I am her husband, and I should pamper her a little."
"So, Shujing is lucky to meet you. If it were another person, she wouldn't be as happy as she is today." Ye Yuran said that Rong Qi still needs to worry about the family.
Without Rong Qi to comfort the Rong family, how could Zhu Bamei, a married woman, be as happy as she is now.
He also told Zhu Bamei that Rong Qi is such a good person, but she should not always "bully" others and remember to be nice to others.
It looked like Zhu Bamei was a scumbag and wanted to abandon Rong Qi.
Zhu Bamei was a little dumbfounded. On the way back, she said to Rong Qi: "Did you do it on purpose? You are so honest every time in front of my mother, making her think I did something to you. Why didn't you tell me?
Do you also enjoy doing these things?"
Rong Qi immediately laughed and said flatteringly: "Hey, aren't I in front of my mother? She is your mother, and she definitely wants me to treat you well. If I don't behave better, what if your mother dislikes me?
In your house, you are responsible for coaxing your mother, and I act like a good girl; in our family, I am responsible for coaxing my mother, and you act like a good girl, so don’t we have a good division of labor?"
"You will suffer a loss." Zhu Bamei smiled and poked Rong Qi's forehead, smiling happily.
Well, if she marries into the Rong family, she is the daughter-in-law of the Rong family, and the time she spends with the Rong family will only become longer and longer. And the time she spends with the Zhu family will become shorter and shorter.
Rong Qi took over the job of "coaxing people", wasn't he the one who suffered the loss?
Zhu Bamei knew that Rong Qi wanted to hurt her.
real!
The thing she regrets least in her life is choosing him.
The first branch of the Zhu's Book School in Beijing was the kindergarten and primary school. The children of the Zhu family and those who were related to the Zhu family moved into the school immediately.
Didn't Ye Yuran help raise the two sisters-in-law of the five-room Lin family back then? What's gratifying is that after so many years, the people married by Lin Sanmei and Lin Simei finally made it out and entered the capital.
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The first thing they did when they arrived in Beijing was to meet the old lady Ye Yuran.
After so many years, seeing the old lady Ye Yuran's body as strong as ever, both Lin Sanmei, Lin Simei, and the people they married were very happy.
After all, in the entire Zhu family, except for the Lin family in the fifth room, the closest person to them was Ye Yuran, who had educated Lin Sanmei and Lin Simei for several years.
As long as Ye Yuran is still here, the relationship between the two families and the Zhu family will never be broken.
There is a difference between the relationship with the Zhu family and the relationship with the fifth branch of the Zhu family.
The fifth brother of the Zhu family lived far away in Linjia Village, and they were not members of the imperial examinations. Although they could communicate with Zhu San, Zhu Liu, Zhu Qi and others based on this relationship, they were still far away after all.
But things are different now that Ye Yuran is here. Zhu San, Zhu Liu, and Zhu Qi are Ye Yuran's sons, so they are closer by nature.
Ye Yuran did not interfere in the affairs between men and left it to Zhu San and the others. He also left Lin Sanmei and Lin Simei behind and talked intimately for a long time.
Especially when I saw the sons Lin Sanmei and Lin Simei had given birth to, the older ones were polite and courteous, while the younger ones were cute and well-behaved. They made people like them just by looking at them.
It happened that the Zhu family's book school was opening in the capital, so I asked them if they had any other arrangements. If not, they could first let the children go to the Zhu family's book school.
This is not a transition at all, it is clearly a favor. Lin Sanmei and Lin Simei did not deserve it. They immediately agreed happily and asked their children to kowtow to Ye Yuran to express their thanks.
After a lively commotion for a while, Ye Yuran asked the twins from Zhu Qi's family to be the heads of the children and took a group of children to play outside.
Princess Yaoyue also knew what was going on, and knew that Ye Yuran had something to say to her two adopted daughters, so she made an excuse and asked her third sister-in-law Xu Yujin to accompany her outside.
After a while, Ye Yuran and Lin Sanmei were the only ones left in the room, and Lin Sanmei was the only one left.
"Before there were many people, it was difficult for me to ask questions. Now that there are no people, you can finally tell me the truth. Third sister, you are the older one, so you should speak first." Ye Yuran looked at Third Uncle Lin
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When Lin Sanmei got married, Xiao Xiuzhu had not yet achieved fame, but he was the eldest son of the Xiao family in Luanzhou, and his father had a reputation as a civil servant. Logically speaking, she, a farmer's daughter, was not qualified to marry into the family.
Even if you want to be a good concubine in someone's backyard, someone has to think about it.
At that time, people would agree to Lin Sanmei's entry because of the reputation of Xu Yujin, the third wife, and the overall strength of the Zhu family, so they wanted to block her.
Fortunately, the Xiao family won their bet.
After so many years, the Zhu family has become more and more prosperous, just like everyone adding firewood to the flames. Even in the fourth generation, they have one number one scholar and one third overall, and there are obvious successors.
Zhu San wanted Dabao and Erbao to go to local places for training, but Emperor Qin did not agree, so he threw one to the Jingzhao Yamen and the other to the Secretariat Department, both of whom were officials in the capital.
As for Xiao Xiuzhu, after he made the decision to take the imperial examination, he soon received the imperial examination materials transcribed by the Zhu family, which gave him the name of a civil servant, and then he became an official through the selection process and reached a local level.
If outsiders want to achieve results, they have to rely on connections everywhere. Xiao Xiuzhu has it much easier than them. After all, he can easily get Zhu San's many years of experience as a local official and get help from the people arranged by the Zhu family.
, it can be said that he was helped up by others.
Xiao Xiuzhu reciprocated the favor, not only being very kind to Lin Sanmei, but also using the Xiao family's resources to help the Zhu family.
Chapter completed!