Chapter 2462 spoiling
"You girl, why don't you appreciate it? Do you know what I will find for you? You haven't even met anyone yet, and you just say that? Do you not believe that your uncle has this strength?" Li Yonggui glared,
Pretending to be serious.
"Okay, I can't help you. If that's the case, let's discuss this later, okay? How about we don't say anything today and just celebrate your birthday honestly?!" Wang Xia knew
He couldn't afford to offend him. Since he couldn't afford to offend him, he naturally wanted to hide, and then he said this.
Several people were talking to each other, but only Li Xiaoxiao and Fang Zhiqiang were sitting there. They were very embarrassed with each other. They didn't dare to look into each other's eyes, even when their eyes crossed at a certain point.
, can make two people feel uncomfortable.
Fang Zhiqiang is a little better. Even though his love for Li Xiaoxiao has not diminished at all, after all, the relationship between the two has reached this point. Now that it has become a fact, he obviously has nothing else to do except accept it.
Good idea.
However, for Li Xiaoxiao, it is not that simple. Originally, she should be the one to accept everything. All these things are her own choices. It is also her who made the relationship between the two people to this point.
It was all caused by herself. Faced with this final result, what could she say?
But now, she found that her thoughts in her heart had changed. Everything she thought she could accept was now really put in front of her, but she couldn't accept it. This tangled emotion made Li Xiaoxiao sit with Fang Zhiqiang.
Being next to me and feeling Fang Zhiqiang's breathing would make me extremely embarrassed.
Wang Xia was able to detect Li Xiaoxiao's small emotional changes, but Fang Zhiqiang was not.
On the one hand, with the current relationship between the two, Fang Zhiqiang also feels that she should not pay too much attention to Li Xiaoxiao anymore, because she herself may not like that she always stares at her, so Fang Zhiqiang looks at Li Xiaoxiao a lot of times
Very rarely, except when he needs to talk, he will look at her. Usually, he deliberately controls his gaze and does not look at her, even if he really wants to take a look in his heart.
On the other hand, although Fang Zhiqiang can give himself some comfort in his heart and prevent himself from being as embarrassed as Li Xiaoxiao, after all, the two people once loved each other so much. Who can reach this point today?
How to adapt to it in the first place?
After eating, Wang Xia took Li Xiaoxiao into the bedroom, while Li Yonggui outside took Fang Zhiqiang and sat on the sofa. The two men started talking again.
Fang Zhiqiang is already very familiar with this kind of scene. He used to be pulled in by Li Yonggui countless times to talk, and the content of each conversation benefited Fang Zhiqiang a lot. He could learn from Li Yonggui every time.
Hear things that are useful to you.
"Zhiqiang, in the blink of an eye, you and Li Xiaoxiao have been married for more than three years, right?"
Li Yonggui still had a smile on his face, and it looked like he was having trouble with Fang Zhiqiang, but what he said made Fang Zhiqiang not know how to answer it.
Seeing Fang Zhiqiang nodding, Li Yonggui continued: "Creation makes people, although you have been married for more than three years, in fact, because of Xiaoxiao's illness, you couldn't be together, and then because you have been in Mingda
You are so busy, in fact, even one year is not enough time for you to be together, what do you think?"
When Fang Zhiqiang heard this, he immediately understood what Li Yonggui wanted to say. After pondering for a moment, Fang Zhiqiang said: "Dad, I know that maybe I lacked enough patience for what happened this time..."
"That's not what I meant. Please listen to what I have to say." Li Yonggui interrupted Fang Zhiqiang and continued: "Xiaoxiao was once your wife. You only spent less than a third of the time with her, so it's even more...
Don’t talk about the two of us. If you calculate it carefully, the time we spend together is only about half a year."
"However, these six months have been very unforgettable for me." At this point, Li Yonggui suddenly paused, turned his head, and looked at Fang Zhiqiang, who looked confused. After a moment of silence, he continued: "
Zhiqiang, with our current relationship, I can also say some things to you that were difficult to say in the past."
"From a business perspective, Xiaoxia has told me about you more than once. It was precisely because of your outstanding performance in Sammi that Sammi became stronger and stronger step by step, including breaking the general
When Mingda was handed over to you, Xiaoxia also asked for my opinion, and the answer I gave at that time was to let her make her own decision. Everything that happened later proved that her original choice was right."
"Actually, to be honest, I still didn't think very highly of you at that time. Even if you had one or two outstanding achievements, they still could not represent your true personal ability. Things like luck are also very strange sometimes.
Yes, but your performance in Mingda really surprised me. I have to say that even when I was as young as you, I couldn't have done what you did."
"Then, let's talk about husbands. As Xiaoxiao's husband, how do you think you are doing?" Li Yonggui suddenly asked Fang Zhiqiang, as if looking at Fang Zhiqiang's extremely serious expression at the moment, he also wanted him to say
Two sentences.
When Fang Zhiqiang heard this, he couldn't help being stunned, but after a moment he said: "I have managed my marriage to this point, so I think I am not a good husband."
"You are indeed not a good husband."
As soon as Fang Zhiqiang finished speaking, Li Yonggui said this categorically.
Fang Zhiqiang looked at him seriously, not feeling unhappy at all because of his words. Instead, he looked expectantly, waiting for what Li Yonggui would say next.
"But the bad thing about you is that you doted on Xiaoxiao too much, which led to the final result." After Li Yonggui pondered for a moment, he spoke again and said.
When Fang Zhiqiang heard this, he was stunned again. As Li Xiaoxiao's father, Li Yonggui's ability to say such words was indeed beyond Fang Zhiqiang's expectation.
"Before, you were my son-in-law, and there were certain things that I couldn't say to you. But now, since it's like this, I can't help but want to tell you that since you and Xiaoxiao got married, you have never had anything happen.
A loud argument, right?"
Li Yonggui's question made Fang Zhiqiang frown slightly. After thinking for a long time, he finally nodded.
"This state is originally an unhealthy marital state. How can a healthy marriage be without a little quarrel?" Li Yonggui said without hesitation.
"Furthermore, as long as you can meet all the conditions Xiaoxiao puts forward for you, you will satisfy her unconditionally, right? Even if you know that some conditions are unreasonable, you will still choose to agree to her unconditionally.
This is how you think you love her, right?"
Li Yonggui's repeated questions made Fang Zhiqiang's head become more and more confused. He used to never think there was anything wrong with this method, but now listening to Li Yonggui's words, Fang Zhiqiang couldn't help but start to wonder, could it be that his thoughts had always been
Wrong?
"You love her, there is no doubt about it. I love her too. She is my only biological daughter. Is it possible that I don't love her? But do you think the way I love her is the same as the way you love her?
?”
"Perhaps you are wondering why the kind and simple Li Xiaoxiao has turned into the jealous and cranky woman she is now. Then have you ever thought about when did she start to change? Isn't it just from being with you?
Did it start to change slowly after we got together? Have you ever thought that it was because of the way you treated her that you subtly changed her? "
Li Yonggui's words made Fang Zhiqiang even more confused. He has not yet reached the stage of enlightenment, but at least he has probably guessed what Li Yonggui wanted to say.
"You now have a child of your own. Fang loves Li. Although you didn't spend much time with him before, you should also know that when it comes to educating your children, blindly doting on them is not actually true.
Love, you should know this, right?"
When Fang Zhiqiang heard this, he couldn't help but nodded immediately. There is no doubt about this, but in Fang Zhiqiang's heart, he still thinks that women and children are different after all. Especially when treating the woman he loves, shouldn't he be treated with the same care?
Does the life she wants make her happy?
"In fact, when we treat anyone, we should not blindly compromise. Even when we treat our own parents, we should know what to do to be truly good to our parents. You agree to all Xiaoxiao's unreasonable requests.
, the moment you agreed to her, she may indeed be happy, and she must love you in her heart, but you have never thought about the sequelae that will be left after that incident."
"The thing that surprised me the most was that you gave up your position as the president of Mingda. Although you didn't say it clearly, I know that Xiaoxiao's reasons were more or less involved, because later, she went to Mingda."
"Zhiqiang, you are very similar to me when we were young. We are both people with very low starting points. I also struggled for a long time because Xiao's mother's family did not agree with our marriage, so at that time I vowed
, I must make myself successful, and I must make myself the kind of person that others envy. Only in that way can I truly straighten my back and pursue the things I want."
"And during the time you were in Mingda, I saw the shadow of my youth, so I know what you are thinking in your heart. The reason why you work so hard is not to improve your family's living standard, but to...
When you encounter something you like, you can pursue it without hesitation; when Xiaoxiao encounters something she wants, you can agree to give it to her without hesitation, right?"
I have to say that every word Li Yonggui said touched Fang Zhiqiang's heart, and Fang Zhiqiang couldn't help but nod his head at this moment.
"However, a man who is so dedicated to his career is actually willing to give up his career for a woman. I can't understand your decision at all. At least, it was impossible for me to make such a move when I was young.
Aren't you afraid that the woman's family will look down on you because you lost your job? Aren't you afraid that when you really have nothing, the woman you love will want something again, but you can't do anything about it?
A feeling?"
The reason why Li Yonggui was able to say so accurately was because he had almost the same experience as Fang Zhiqiang. He also asked himself what his life would be like if he gave up his career, because he couldn't accept it.
The kind of life situation that he imagined, so in the end, it was Xiao's mother who chose to join Yamei at that time in order to empathize with him.
"Zhiqiang, do you think your behavior is doting on Xiaoxiao?" Li Yonggui asked again.
Fang Zhiqiang raised his head, looked at Li Yonggui seriously and solemnly, and nodded without hesitation.
Chapter completed!