Even though those so-called obedience, filial piety, and advancement may sound righteous and high-sounding on the surface, but in essence they are still to satisfy the needs of parents or even vanity. Some are simply a mutual exchange of support and upbringing. The same is true for "pure" relationships between husband and wife and lovers.
Why are there so many corrupt officials nowadays? Why are they mostly greedy for love and die for greed?
After all, behind the word "love", the word "money" is hidden deep inside, and the body is just the appearance of the exchange of interests. If those beautiful young women are not for the power in the hands of officials, who would look for such a thing?
How about going to bed with someone with a fat head and a stupid look on his face?
"As for the relationship between your secretary and the leader, with all due respect, it is more of a naked transaction and business. The talk of loyalty and mutual support are all deceptive and empty talk. I think back then, I worked in the provincial government.
At that time, I knew a lot of leaders and secretaries, but there was no pair who really maintained their friendship until the end. Those leaders, secretaries, security guards, and health doctors who had real power on the stage were vying to follow; when the leaders retreated to the **CPPCC
, the surroundings began to become indifferent, and secretaries and the like thought of changing careers and branching out into new branches; when they completely retired, even if they were rigidly assigned by the organization, those secretaries and staff were already in the Cao camp and their hearts were in the Han Dynasty. The bigger the secretary
, do you think what I said makes sense?" Pang Zhiguo's words were so sharp that they cut into the bones, and his tone was somewhat proud.
Yu Yan was really surprised. He didn't expect that this guy was also a very thoughtful person. He really underestimated him.
"Well, that makes sense. But, since you can think so clearly, why not just stay away from these rotten things and become an impressive Confucian businessman?" Yu Yan asked.
"Bullshit!" Pang Zhiguo cursed bitterly. "Do you think there are really Confucian businessmen in this world? Confucian businessmen are those who have made ill-gotten wealth by any means, and they pretend to be after having a good time. If you are in a shopping mall
Go ahead, try to be a Confucian businessman. Not to mention those competitors who are also doing business, even if you meet government officials like Ma Dafu and He Zhonglai, if you don't abuse the lower three to the extreme, you will never make money.
To a penny!”
When Yue Yan heard this, his inner dislike for Pang Zhiguo gradually dissipated. Even if it was entirely due to the influence of alcohol, Pang Zhiguo's straightforward words from the heart were enough to make Yue Yan re-evaluate him. And this view
This change made Yu Yan become more curious about the relationship between him and Zhang Siwen. According to Pang Zhiguo's acting style, everything is business and transaction. So, between him and Zhang Siwen, there are transactions and exchanges.
What is it?
"Secretary Yu, what do you think is the relationship between you and Secretary Zhang, or what is the relationship between the leader and the secretary?" What comes to mind comes to mind, and sure enough, Pang Zhiguo is the first to speak, with profound meaning in his eyes and tone.
Yu Yan suddenly felt that his chat with Pang Zhiguo was interesting, so he naturally did not hide it, and briefly recounted the previous conversation with Zhang Siwen. There were inevitably some omissions and simplifications, which were done as a last resort based on the reality at hand. However, his narrative was basically
It's fairly true to its original state.
Pang Zhiguo listened attentively and thought quietly from time to time, but did not comment immediately.
"My point of view may be different from yours. Regardless of whether it is right or wrong, let's talk it out first and let's discuss it together. Secretary Yu, your lip-and-mouth theory is not unreasonable. On the surface, it seems to be tender and tender, and it is very touching.
It is confusing, but after all, it is a bit far-fetched, and even extremely hypocritical and deceptive. Think about it, what is the relationship between lips and teeth? It is of course a parallel relationship, with a sense of brotherly loyalty. Although the leader and the secretary have nothing to do with each other.
There are distinctions between high and low, high and low, but after all, the division of labor is different. In fact, status inequality is an objective reality. Whether the so-called lips and teeth are dependent on each other, or the lips and teeth are inseparable, it may be possible to do it under normal circumstances, but not necessarily under special circumstances." Obviously,
Pang Zhiguo was very satisfied with his speech and was very interested in continuing it. “To measure whether a secretary is excellent or not, it mainly depends on the level of the relationship between him and the leader. Don’t look at some secretaries who work all day long.
They are busy in front of the leader and obey him, but they may not be able to think about the same idea and work on the same beat as the leader. There are three types of secretaries: one is the confidant type, one is the basic trust type, and the other is superficial.
Coping type. The so-called confidants mean that they have a clear understanding of each other. Regardless of official or private matters, including personal feelings and privacy, they can talk about everything and trust each other. They trust each other even better than their own relatives. Basic trust may only be limited to
In the official field, it is limited to work and can be used easily and at ease. As for superficial dealing with each other, they may be like a couple without feelings. They appear to be polite and respectful to each other, but there is a strong sense of dissatisfaction and wariness.
In my heart, separation and divorce may be just one step away."
Yuyan was shocked by Pang Zhiguo's words. Yuyan thought to himself that based on his abilities, expertise, and personality, he should be the kind of staff and counselor-type secretary who focuses on giving more help to leaders at work. In the past few months,
Here, he actually did this. Whether he was writing articles, coordinating relationships or participating in power planning, he tried his best to contribute all his wisdom and strength. At the same time, he also tried his best to adjust and change himself, changing the direction of his efforts and the focus of his services.
The transition from work to life has been quite easy in these few months of practice.
Yu Yan paid great attention to the observation of Zhang Siwen's personal habits, grasped the rules of his personality traits and emotional changes, and tried his best to act according to the situation and the wind, so as to create a good emotional atmosphere for the leader.
After only a few days with the secretary, he became very familiar with the secretary's body language. When Zhang Siwen spoke, his movements were basically concentrated on his right hand: clapping his hands to express a certain determination; clenching his fists to represent excitement or anger in his heart; raising his index finger
Frequent shaking is an attitude of resolute opposition. Also, Zhang Siwen does not smoke much, but he is very representative. From the posture of holding a cigarette in his right hand, we can also read his rich heart: when he is hesitant to think about a problem
, the cigarette is held close to the fingertips of the index finger and middle finger, and the ash accumulates for a long time without being flicked off; when the mood is good, the cigarette is held between the two fingers, and the sizzling sound is exaggerated; when angry, the cigarette is held between the two fingers and sucked one after another.
, the cigarette butt will be left very long, and it will be frequently pressed into the ashtray with the thumb, index and middle fingers; when angry, the cigarette that has just been lit will be twisted into powder between the fingers. According to this information, the more
When arranging meetings, inspections, meetings, and banquets, Yan will promptly remind relevant parties to pay attention to the secretary's emotional changes, strengthen when it is time to strengthen, and avoid when it is time to avoid.
For another example, the secretary is middle-aged. Because he has been in a leadership position for a long time and is busy with work, he inevitably suffers from many physical problems. Yu Yan follows Xia Ran's instructions and tries every means to provide him with health care and alleviate his pain. Zhang Siwen has both waist and cervical vertebrae.
Well, sitting, walking, and standing for a long time will cause unbearable pain. After careful observation, Yu Yan found that from cars to offices, there are problems with the seats in residences-either the neck does not rest, or the waist is empty. So,
Based on the characteristics of those chairs and the secretary's height and body shape, he specially made several pillows, some of which were placed on the lower back, and some of which were attached to the shoulders and neck. When you sit on them, your entire back will be snug and there will be no gaps.
Here, I need to mention in particular the pillow on the secretary’s office chair, which can be regarded as a masterpiece in Yu Yan’s career as a secretary. After spending time with the secretary for a long time, Yu Yan discovered that the tall and elegant leather chair actually had cushions on it.
He picked up a thick stack of books, and the brand-new black leather had been rubbed out white. Based on this, Yu Yan couldn't help but think of the classic text in the primary school textbook - Jiao Yulu, a good example of county party secretary. That Secretary Jiao who died with dedication,
To resist the torment of liver disease, a big hole was made in the back of the rattan chair. With many years of experience as a secretary and his own experience of sitting quietly before cases for a long time, Yu Yan naturally guessed the severity of the secretary's waist disease. So that night, he
When he got home, he took off the pillow from his chair and touched the spring inside. The sponge was still strong. He quickly found the sewing shop downstairs and asked the shop owner to choose the best fabrics, repackage and sew them like new. The next day, Yu Yan came again
When he went to the secretary's office to deliver documents, Zhang Siwen happened to be struggling with the chair, as if there were a hundred nails on it. Seeing this, Yu Yan immediately removed the hard books and put the soft pillow on the chair.
, no matter the color or size, they all fit perfectly. As soon as the secretary sat down on the chair and leaned back again, my God! It was completely perfect and just right.
"How do you know I need this?" At that time, Zhang Siwen's eyes were even a little moist.
It should be said that Yu Yan was able to become so familiar with Zhang Siwen's life habits in such a short period of time, and he also provided meticulous service, which is quite valuable.
Shen chatted for a while, ran to the toilet twice, and saw that a cup of tea quickly lost its color. After chatting so much, Yu Yan suddenly felt enlightened. He finally understood what the greatest charm of Pang Zhiguo was.
Now, Yue Yan also understands that as a secretary, his biggest shortcoming is that he is too young. Being young means less experience in life, which means that in some opinions, he is not as mature as those with more experience. After this chat, Yu Yan has
A feeling of sudden enlightenment, which he had never expected before.
The night was already very late, Ma Dafu and He Zhonglai were still intoxicated in the gentle countryside, while Yu Yan put on his clothes and prepared to leave first.
Pang Zhiguo no longer tried to persuade him to stay. When they parted, he took out a paper bag he had prepared and patted it in Yu Yan's palm, saying, "As a secretary, when you go out to socialize, you will inevitably have money to spend, so take it quickly."
Yu Yan pushed hard but refused, saying, "You and I can be regarded as a pair of friends, and it is my duty to help you. Besides, Secretary Zhang——"
Pang Zhiguo immediately interrupted Yu Yan, "This has nothing to do with Secretary Zhang. Remember the nonsense I just said, it's nothing more than this between you, me and him." Then he forced the paper package into Yu Yan's hand again, and said
Push him out the door.
Yu Yan didn't want to accept these things, not only because he was jealous of Zhang Siwen, but because he felt that Pang Zhiguo was unpredictable, so it was better to stay away from him to avoid any trouble.
After returning home, Yu Yan didn't realize until he opened it that there was actually 20,000 yuan in it. So, he rewrapped it and put the money in the secretary's place the next day, and Yu Yan felt relieved.
