When the notebook turned to the part about Sun Fangfang, Li Li frowned unconsciously, "But everyone's evaluation of Sun Fangfang is a bit strange."
Li Li's words aroused everyone's curiosity.
"What's weird?"
"I asked a total of 19 people, but only 10 people had an impression of Sun Fangfang. Of these 10 people, 7 remembered Sun Fangfang, but they only remembered it because she and Zhou Xinyu were often together. When these people mentioned Sun Fangfang
, I have to think about it for a while, and I feel that this person’s presence in the class is very low.”
Li Li flipped through his notebook, "Everyone has an embarrassing impression of Sun Fangfang. For example, her English pronunciation is not standard, and she was laughed at by the class when she read the text. Or she didn't do well in the exam, and she hid in bed and cried the whole time.
Wan. This person named Wu Min directly said that she disliked Sun Fangfang very much at that time because she felt that Sun Fangfang was very sensitive and very glassy..." Li Li bent down and leaned closer to the book, "Yes, very glassy."
It was the first time Li Li knew the term "glass heart" and asked, "Pleasant Goat, what does this glass heart mean?"
"It's just that she has poor psychological quality, is sensitive and fragile, and can't stand the stimulation of a big fart." Xu Yang spoke very quickly, and immediately urged Li Li after speaking, "Hurry up and continue, why does this Wu Min say that Sun Fangfang has a glass heart."
"Oh, Wu Min said that once her father brought her Harry Potter peripherals from abroad. When she brought them to school, she would tell everyone to be careful not to break them. No one else thought it was a big deal.
, only Sun Fangfang’s face changed immediately when she heard it, and asked her if she was afraid that she would be damaged and couldn’t afford to pay for it.”
Xu Yang raised his eyebrows, "Why do you say this in such a weird way?"
"Yeah!"
Li Li patted his notebook and said, "This one's name is Liu Ziting. She also said that Sun Fangfang always talks in a weird way. Several classmates made an appointment to go to the movies and have a dinner on the weekend, and kindly asked her if she would go. She said that I am a country girl and am not qualified to enjoy you.
The bourgeoisie life of urbanites. A boy’s chocolate was about to expire, so he brought it to everyone to share. Everyone else was happy. Only she criticized the boy and said that although she was poor, she was not so poor that she had to eat expired chocolates.
It's like chocolate. She didn't do well in the exam, and when others tried to comfort her, she didn't appreciate it, but she didn't appreciate it. She also said that I don't have the money to go to cram schools like you, so it's normal for you to fail the exam."
Xu Yang's face was full of questions, "Why do you feel like Sun Fangfang has become a different person after entering high school?"
Li Li spread his hands and said that he didn't know either.
"Of the people I asked, they all had a good time with Zhou Xinyu. Three of the female classmates couldn't understand why Zhou Xinyu took the initiative to be friends with Sun Fangfang. They said that in the beginning, many of Sun Fangfang's shady words were directed at Zhou Xinyu.
Yes, it was only later that Zhou Xinyu took the initiative to help her with English lessons, and the two became friends. Zhou Xinyu would always take Sun Fangfang with her no matter what she did. Several times Sun Fangfang made a fool of herself, and it was Zhou Xinyu who helped her out."
Li Li closed his notebook and concluded, "In short, these students' evaluation of Sun Fangfang is that she has a weird temper, is taciturn, and is difficult to get along with."
Xu Yang tilted his head, looked at Mu Yang, and asked doubtfully, "Mu Yang, these are the questions you asked us to ask. Then you should be able to explain why Sun Fangfang changed so much after entering high school, right?"
"Actually, it was the changes in the environment that caused Sun Fangfang's psychological changes. What she did was a projection of her psychological activities and a manifestation of her maintenance of self-esteem." Mu Yang explained.
Except for Lin Che who nodded slightly, everyone else still looked confused.
"Dr. Xiao Mu, please explain more clearly, we still don't understand." Lao Du spoke with curiosity.
"From a middle school in a small county town to an aristocratic school like Yuying, Sun Fangfang can be said to have gone from the position of being the most popular to the position where she needs to look up to others. Academic performance is what Sun Fangfang is most proud of.
She was first in grade before, but at Yuying her grades were only at the middle level. Before, all the teachers liked her and her classmates paid attention to her, but at Yuying she was the most ordinary student; not to mention that in a school like Yuying,
Material comparisons are more serious than those in ordinary schools. Such an environment creates a huge psychological gap. Adolescent girls are more sensitive than boys, have more delicate minds, and are more likely to be hurt."
As Mu Yang spoke, he posted a few photos found in his classmates’ QQ photo albums.
In the photos, Sun Fangfang is always on the edge of the crowd, looking aloof, lonely, and a little out of place.
"Sun Fangfang's family background, knowledge, expertise, popularity, and dress are quite different from those of her classmates in all aspects, which makes her very afraid of being rejected and excluded by others. When a person with excessive self-esteem faces this kind of situation,
When the situation arises, you may choose to stay away from this circle to avoid a blow to your self-esteem. There may also be a slightly more extreme approach, which is to put yourself in a high position and pretend to be disdainful of these things, disdainful to participate in, and disdainful to discuss.
.And this superficial disdain is precisely because she cares too much about this matter in her heart. In high school, Sun Fangfang struggled in a state of low self-esteem, self-pity and excessive self-esteem. This is why her classmates in high school felt that Sun Fangfang was a bit withdrawn.
, the reason why we are not easy to get along with.”
"oh--"
Lao Du drawled his voice and kept nodding his head, feeling suddenly enlightened.
"Actually, many people will have such psychological changes. It is normal. As long as they adjust in time, it will be fine. But Sun Fangfang is a bit special. Before she had time to adjust and correct herself, her college entrance examination application gave her a bigger blow -
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Two pictures appear on the screen.
"The picture on the left is the classmate list that Sun Fangfang filled out when she graduated from junior high school. In the last column, 'What is your dream?', Sun Fangfang filled in that she would be admitted to the Finance Department of Central South University and work in a Fortune 500 company."
"The picture on the right shows Sun Fangfang's admission status during the college entrance examination. She only filled in two of the five choices, which were her first choice, Department of Finance, Central South University, and her second choice, Department of Engineering Management, Central South University. Both majors were
It is a popular major at Central South University. Sun Fangfang's college entrance examination results have just reached the admission threshold of Central South University. She will definitely not be able to choose these two majors. In the end, she was transferred to the secretarial major."
Li Li was confused again, "What does this mean? Does it mean that Sun Fangfang failed the college entrance examination?"
Mu Yang shook his head and called up the results of Zhou Xinyu, Sun Fangfang and their last five city-wide joint entrance examinations in their senior year of high school. "Judging from the results, Sun Fangfang performed exceptionally well in this college entrance examination. Otherwise, according to her usual results, Central South University
She cannot get into such a key university."
Li Li was even more confused, "This is an extraordinary performance, what else is there to be hit by?"
Lin Che sighed softly and looked at Li Li, "I put the two pictures together, why can't you compare them and think more about them?"
Li Li opened his mouth, looked at Lin Che, with an aggrieved expression on his face again, and muttered in a low voice, "It's not like everyone can think like you, and can think so quickly without getting stuck..."