Xu Yang spoke with bright eyes, "Even if Sun Fangfang performed normally in the college entrance examination, there is still a big gap between her and her ideal results. For her, it means that her dream has been shattered! Right?"
Mu Yang smiled and nodded, and the two girls raised their chins in the air, as if they had reached some kind of tacit understanding.
"As analyzed at the beginning, Sun Fangfang had a belief in her heart since she was a child and wanted to change her destiny by studying. However, she was not admitted to her ideal major. The belief that had supported her for so many years suddenly collapsed. Such a blow was fatal."
Xia Jie frowned, "There are many people who have failed the college entrance examination, and Sun Fangfang is not the only one. Who has no setbacks in life? She won't do anything drastic because of this, right?"
Mu Yang seemed to have guessed that someone would ask such a question, and said Xinran, "Yes, but Sun Fangfang's situation is different from others. She has a perfect reference beside her, which is Zhou Xinyu. Zhou Xinyu's existence makes her envious.
It made her unbalanced, made her deny herself, and made her jealous. And this jealousy made her angry, powerless, frustrated and painful."
Mu Yang lowered his head to find the picture of Sun Fangfang's psychological change process he had made on the computer, and projected it on the screen. When he raised his head, his eyes met Lin Che's -
Lin Che frowned slightly and pursed the corners of her mouth. Her eyes looked calm at first glance, but in fact there was light hidden in them, like waves brewing under the calm sea. Lin Che lowered the hand she was holding on her chest and tightened her fingers a little,
The body that was leaning on the table stood up straight, leaned forward slightly, looked at Mu Yang, and hesitated to speak.
Mu Yang chuckled, "It seems that Officer Lin has grasped the point of what I want to express."
The light in Lin Che's eyes paused for a second, and then the light that was about to burst out became softer. A slight smile appeared on the corner of her lips, and she said, "Speed up later, I don't have much time left."
Too much."
"good!"
Mu Yang nodded, rolled up the sleeves of both hands, and cheered up, "Then I will only focus on the key points."
Li Li and Xu Yang looked at each other and saw only confusion and confusion on each other's faces. What kind of riddle were these two playing?
What's the point?
Why don't we have much time?
Can you consider other people's feelings and speak a little more clearly?
Do you people who work in psychology usually communicate like this? Expression relies on eyes, movements, and expressions, but not mouths?!
Although Li Li had a hundred thousand questions he wanted to ask, seeing that Mu Yang had already started to talk about the key points, he immediately abandoned his distracting thoughts and concentrated on listening, for fear of missing anything.
After all, he couldn't keep up even if he listened carefully. If he missed a few more sentences, he would probably have to listen to the Book of Heaven himself.
"The first psychological gap between Sun Fangfang was that her position as a top student was taken away. In junior high school, she was a student with excellent grades in the class, liked by the teacher, and was able to do everything with ease. But in high school, Zhou Xinyu became this
Top student. Sun Fangfang used to be the study committee member of the class, and the current study committee member is Zhou Xinyu; Sun Fangfang is weak in English, while Zhou Xinyu is the English class representative. For the former Sun Fangfang, excellent academic performance is what builds her self-confidence
An important cornerstone of her life, and now that this cornerstone has been completely destroyed, her self-confidence has naturally been greatly affected."
"In Sun Fangfang's subconscious mind, the position of top student, study committee member, and focus of the class belongs to her, and Zhou Xinyu is the one who takes away these things, so Sun Fangfang will unconsciously regard Zhou Xinyu as an imaginary enemy, and unconsciously pit Zhou Xinyu against herself.
By comparison, it can be said that Sun Fangfang has regarded Zhou Xinyu as a reference since she entered high school."
"In the constant comparison with the reference object, Sun Fangfang's jealousy continued to grow."
"In terms of economics, when you are a high school student, comparison is always subconscious, especially in aristocratic schools like Yuying, it can be seen everywhere. Brand-name sneakers, the latest mobile phones, autographed photos of celebrities, imported snacks, etc. can all become one of your classmates.
It is no exaggeration to say that Zhou Xinyu has achieved financial freedom in high school. The pocket money her parents gave her is an astronomical amount of money for a high school student to spend. And Sun Fangfang’s pocket money is
Subsidies and scholarships from the school can meet the basic expenses of study and life, but that's all. Zhou Xinyu wears the latest sneakers from big brands, while she wears fake sneakers from the school gate; Zhou Xinyu changes to the latest mobile phone every year, and she can't even afford a mobile phone.
; Zhou Xinyu went abroad to bring small gifts to her classmates during the holidays, but she didn't even know which continent the country was on; Zhou Xinyu could invite famous teachers to tutor at home, but she needed to save a week's breakfast money for a tutorial book...
Jealousy grows crazily under such comparison."
"In terms of talent, Sun Fangfang chose to learn piano in the outstanding student award program. She passed the CET-4 piano exam after only one year of high school. It's hard to say whether she has talent, but she definitely worked hard. And when she started her second year of high school, the school
An award ceremony was held for Zhou Xinyu to commend Zhou Xinyu for his first place in the National Youth Chopin Competition during the summer vacation. In addition, Zhou Xinyu also had good results in calligraphy and painting. This comparison was broken again.
Sun Fangfang's newfound self-confidence once again made her feel inferior to Zhou Xinyu."
"In terms of the opposite sex, secret love in adolescence is a very complex psychological activity. Let alone childhood sweethearts, even if the boy looks at him again, he can't help but be jealous. The boy Sun Fangfang has a crush on in high school lives in the same community as Zhou Xinyu. Zhou Xinyu and
This boy has been in the same class since kindergarten, going to and from school together. So in this comparison, Sun Fangfang felt that she lost again, and lost miserably."
"The last fatal blow was the college entrance examination. Sun Fangfang was not admitted to her ideal major, and Zhou Xinyu also applied for Central South University in order to stay in Jiangzhou to attend college, and was admitted to the Department of Finance with the first score in the department. In her dream
In front of her, Sun Fangfang was once again defeated in the comparison. Under the influence of jealousy, Sun Fangfang would probably feel that Zhou Xinyu had robbed her of her dream."
As Mu Yang spoke, the information she compiled and the psychological change process diagram she made were displayed on the screen. They were clearly organized, clear and easy to understand.
Paired with her steady voice and appropriate speaking speed, it was like a professional academic report, very exciting and benefiting people endlessly.
"Everyone has jealousy, and it will be constantly corrected and self-adjusted with changes in age, cognition, and surrounding environment. But because of Zhou Xinyu's proactive show of kindness, the two became friends, which put Sun Fangfang into a dilemma.
This kind of contradiction - on the one hand, she is jealous of Zhou Xinyu, on the other hand, she is grateful to Zhou Xinyu. This ambivalence makes her suffer. At the same time, the closer relationship allows Sun Fangfang to infinitely expand the range of secret comparisons in her heart, so large that
The direction of life, as small as a sentence, may be compared by Sun Fangfang."
"Because Sun Fangfang was unable to face up to the gap between the two and realize her own advantages, she continued to be mentally unbalanced during the comparison, and her jealousy also developed in a pathological direction."
"When a person's normal jealousy begins to become twisted and pathological, he will unconsciously have an idea - hoping that the reference object will disappear."