Chapter 399 The Person Who Knows the Students Best
When holding parent-teacher meetings, some schools will choose to have students stay in the classroom, while other schools will let students stay at home or elsewhere in the school.
Zhenhua Middle School falls into the latter category.
During parent-teacher conferences, students are usually not in the classroom.
Because if students are present.
So whether it is a teacher or a parent, in order to take into account the children's mood, self-esteem, etc., there are some things they cannot say.
But Class 9 is different.
After getting along with each other for half a semester, Xu Jie is actually on the same front as the students.
The students in Class 9 also know that Teacher Xu’s actions and plans are all sincerely for their future.
Therefore, during the parent-teacher conference of Class 9, the students did not stay away from the classroom.
Instead, they were in the corridor outside the classroom, watching their beloved Teacher Xu "educate" their parents!
The reason why Xu Jie chose this arrangement.
It is to allow students and parents to interchange positions.
Parents sit in the classroom and experience their children's perspective, mentality, etc. when facing teachers at school.
After all, as parents, we are all people who have been away from school for decades.
The students were outside the classroom, watching their parents and elders sitting in the classroom, and experiencing the feeling of outsiders.
At the same time, they can also put a certain amount of psychological pressure on the parents in the classroom by standing outside the classroom.
In front of your children, in front of your children's classmates.
Parents will always think more whether they speak, behave or think about problems.
When Teacher Xu asked parents to do test papers.
The students in Class 9 were watching the play outside the classroom.
"It's rare to see my dad scratching his head and scratching his head. Hehe, it's really interesting."
"If you really understand our parents, you will naturally be able to write like a genius. If you scratch your head, it means you don't understand you."
"My dad is the only one who understands me! Apart from being able to pull out his belt and greet me, he knows nothing else!"
"Hey, everyone is pretty much the same. The first thing I say when I get home is, how was your study today?"
"How many did you take in this exam?"
"You little brat, are you embarrassing me at school again?"
"I'm doing this all for your own good, do you still have any objections?"
"Look at who is next door, how good their grades are, blah blah blah..."
"Haha, they learned quite the same thing, everyone is the same."
"It's not that I don't want to learn, but every time I go home, my parents won't talk to me properly except to lecture me."
"If Teacher Xu hadn't made me realize that you need to be tough when it comes to blacksmithing, I might still be lucky enough to have one."
"Who isn't?"
"Actually, our teacher Xu is like our reborn parent on the road to study. If it weren't for him, my current grades might not be that bad."
"Sometimes I think about it, our class is really lucky to meet Teacher Xu, Teacher Zhou, and Teacher Sun."
"That's not true. Looking back now, even in such a bad situation last year, Teacher Zhou has been teaching and explaining to us diligently and conscientiously, but we just smiled and didn't listen to the advice."
"People always grow."
"The me in the past is the real me, and the me now is also the real me, but our spirit is completely different from before."
"Hey, hey, get ready, Teacher Xu is about to call us in to show off... No, we are going in to show our true feelings."
"Hahaha, I have been gearing up for a long time and have been looking forward to it for a long time!"
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In the classroom, Xu Jie stood on the podium and waved to the nearest classmates outside the classroom.
Shi Mingyu, wearing school uniform, was the first to walk into the classroom.
He came to Teacher Xu and saw Teacher Xu smiling and nodding towards him.
Shi Mingyu turned to face the classmates and parents at the bottom of the classroom, without any stage fright, and said with a smile:
"Dear uncles, aunts, grandparents, I am Shi Mingyu from Class 9."
"My deskmate is Han Xiaochen."
"He is the best singer I have ever seen."
"I once won the first place in our Zhenhua Middle School campus singing competition."
"His dream is to be a singer who is good at both writing and singing."
"His favorite food is fried chicken, his favorite star is Chow Lunjie, and his favorite movie is "The Godfather"..."
"In order to maintain his good voice, he seldom eats spicy food. If I buy him ice cream in the summer, he will refuse it because he is afraid that it will affect his vocal cords if it is too cold."
"He is proud but not arrogant. He has extraordinary talent and mobility in the fields he likes."
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Shi Mingyu spoke loudly on the podium, but Han Xiaochen's mother, who was sitting below, became more and more silent as she listened.
How many questions did she answer in the test paper just now?
Teacher Xu just said on the podium that he wanted to show parents who knows their children best?
That’s what it meant?
Shi Mingyu's mother did not come to the parent-teacher meeting, but his uncle Jiang Chengtao came.
Jiang Chengtao looked at Shi Mingyu talking eloquently on the podium, and his heart was deeply touched.
His nephew actually has such a good friend in school?
Simply incredible!
He had heard about Shi Mingyu's situation from his sister before.
The conflict between him and his family made him withdrawn and rarely talked.
This time Jiang Chengtao was called by his sister to help attend Shimingyu's parent-teacher conference. Jiang Chengtao originally thought it was just another routine matter.
Unexpectedly, my nephew has undergone earth-shaking changes in just a few months?
He suddenly recalled the donation made by his sister and brother-in-law some time ago.
He originally thought it was his brother-in-law's whim.
Now it seems that there is something hidden in this?
Jiang Chengtao has been in Shanghai all year round and knows nothing about what has happened in recent months.
Now, he wished that the parent-teacher conference would end quickly so that he could tell all this to his sister.
In fact, he didn't know, he was the only one in the family who was still in the dark.
After Shi Mingyu finished speaking, Liu Qingyun walked onto the podium again.
"My good friend is Li Rui."
"He is the best at drawing in our class."
"Uncles, aunts, grandparents, you can look back at the blackboard newspaper at the back. He wrote it casually."
"His favorite food is chocolate, and he says chocolate can inspire his creativity."
"His favorite sport is badminton, his favorite novel is Romance of the Three Kingdoms, his favorite..."
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Other parents didn't take it seriously at first.
But when some students talk about their own children.
Only then did they know.
It turns out that the people who know their children best are not their parents and elders, but their classmates and friends?