The students in Class 9 were very excited as they listened to Teacher Xu’s words outside the classroom.
Some students even shed tears silently thinking about the poor communication between themselves and their parents.
They are minors, there is nothing wrong with that.
It is true that their world view, outlook on life, and values have not yet been fully formed, and that is correct.
It is true that they sometimes show mental immaturity.
But all of this is not an excuse or reason for parents to teach and scold in a condescending manner.
If you give your children enough respect from the beginning.
If you can talk to your children on an equal footing from the beginning.
If you pay attention to your child's mental health from the beginning.
How can there be so many children in this world who are born rebellious, born rebellious, and born to have a bad temper?
Unfortunately, there is no "if" in this world.
The formation of Class 9 was caused by various seemingly bizarre and bizarre factors.
The students outside the classroom just felt that they were so lucky.
Fortunately, I met Teacher Xu when I was unlucky.
The parents in the classroom were listening to Teacher Xu’s long speech.
I also had various thoughts in my mind.
"Why are you mute?"
"How dare you talk back?"
"Why are you so pretentious?"
"How many points did you get in this test? Look at who and who."
"Don't play tricks on me!"
"I'm doing this all for your own good."
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How many parents dare to say that they have never said these words to their children?
It's simply impossible!
If you tell them other big principles, they may jump out and refute it.
But these are things that parents themselves have done in the process of educating their children.
Denying at the parent-teacher meeting that he never said these words?
Never done any of these things?
Parents are also shameless people and cannot do such a thing.
Therefore, no matter whether the parents here recognize Xu Jie’s educational philosophy in their hearts or not.
At least at this moment, they all had a little reflection on what they had said and done to their children.
Even just a little bit, this proves that Xu Jie's parent-teacher conference is not without merit.
But Xu Jie obviously has no intention of letting it go.
What he is good at is to use a combination of punches to blind all the parents.
Xu Jie smiled and nodded at Director Qin who walked into the classroom.
In a corner where no one noticed, his left eye blinked at Director Qin.
It seems to be saying, the next step will be left to you.
Then, Xu Jie took the initiative to step down from the podium.
The stage was handed over to Director Qin.
Unlike Xu Jie's young and handsome face, it is easy for parents to despise him.
As a veteran teacher, Director Qin has served as the grade director for many years.
His serious face, his aura.
Not to mention the students, even the parents, some would be frightened when they saw him.
Especially those parents who did not study well and were naughty when they were students.
The grade dean can be said to be a nightmare for many people when they were students.
A complete set of acting.
Director Qin is undoubtedly a good person and understands the truth.
Therefore, from the moment he walked into the classroom, most of the smile on his face had already disappeared.
There is only a hint of a smile but not a smile.
His voice is powerful and has the majesty of being in a high position.
"Hello, parents and friends."
"I am Qin Shixiong, the grade director of the second grade of Zhenhua Middle School. I am also the political teacher of Class 9 of the second grade this semester."
Xu Jie is the class teacher of Class 9 this semester.
Most parents have only communicated via phone or WeChat and have never met in person.
Even though he used to be a physical education teacher in Class 9, he would not appear in parent-teacher meetings or other occasions.
But Director Qin is different.
As the grade director, I manage the affairs of the sophomore grade.
Most of the parents in the classroom, except for those attending their children's parent-teacher conference for the first time, knew of Director Qin's existence.
Therefore, when Director Qin came on stage, many parents put aside their earlier contempt for young Teacher Xu.
In fact, this subtle psychological change among parents is one of the reasons why Xu Jie asked Director Qin and the principal to be "actors".
Human beings are very strange animals.
Xu Jie is only 26 years old this year, very young.
The first reaction of parents when they saw him was that he was a young head teacher.
In the eyes of many parents, being young means that you are not experienced enough and there is a generation gap between you and people of your own age.
Even if Xu Jie talks brilliantly on stage, only a few people can really listen to him.
This is human nature.
But when Director Qin came to power, it was different.
First of all, considering his age, Director Qin is older than most of the parents who came here.
Secondly, his status as grade director seems to increase parents' trust in him.
This is also human nature.
"The 'communication' that Teacher Xu just mentioned is the first process of our Class 9 parent-teacher conference."
"This is an issue and process that was discussed together by the teachers and head teachers of our Class 9 class, including me, the head teacher of the grade."
"As an old key high school, Zhenhua Middle School has always been committed to providing students with all-round training and access to higher education."
"In this process, we very much hope that parents can participate and jointly make suggestions for the future of the students."
After saying this, Director Qin paused expertly, leaving time for the parents to listen to his words.
Just this calmness and sophistication makes parents nod frequently.
It turns out that the seemingly bizarre parent-teacher meeting process was actually negotiated by Director Qin and others?
After hearing what Director Qin said, many parents began to recall what Teacher Xu just said.
Teacher Xu's sincere words are not as good as Director Qin's stamped certification.
This seemingly strange thing happens, but in fact, to put it bluntly, it is nothing more than the psychological troubles of the parents.
After all, on the surface, Director Qin is more authoritative than Teacher Xu.
This is understandable.
After Director Qin stood up for Teacher Xu, he continued:
"I believe parents know the final grades of Class 9 students last semester."
"Teacher Xu also said just now that parents will see the efforts our school has made to cultivate students in Class 9."
"Then now, I, as the grade director, will tell everyone about the results of the midterm exams of Class 9 students."
With that said, Director Qin began to announce the scores, overall scores, and rankings of the midterm exams for Class 9 students in each subject.
When they heard Director Qin's announcement, the parents sitting below were not calm.
"The second and third best in the whole grade are actually from Class 9?"
"There are actually 17 people in the class who are among the top 100 in the grade?"
"My kid actually got ninth place in the class? 32nd place in the school?"
"No wonder he didn't want to tell me how many points he got during the midterm exam no matter how I asked him?"
"It's the same in my family. I just said that it will be announced during the parent-teacher conference."
"No wonder we asked Teacher Xu in the group, and Teacher Xu only said that it would be announced during the midterm exam."
"So they did so well in the exam this time?"
"My daughter's progress is really great. If Director Qin hadn't announced these results, I wouldn't believe it was true."
"Yes, Director Qin is the grade director, so there is no way he could fool us with fake results."
"Last semester, I was still having a headache. Should I simply find someone to help me transfer my child to Hongyuan? Looking at it now, fortunately I didn't do this."
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Just the announcement of the midterm exam results caused parents in the classroom to talk a lot.