That's right, Liu Guihua just thinks Chen Zhaozhao is crazy.
If she wasn't crazy, how could she refuse to marry Yu Jinggui?
How firmly has she spoken out about this over the years, and how has she been laughed at by others because of this?
As long as she marries Yu Jinggui, she and their family will be proud and proud.
How could she say not to get married?
As her affair with Yu Jinggui became known to everyone, who else could she marry if she didn't marry Yu Jinggui? How could she really stay single for the rest of her life?
Absolutely not right.
"Zhaozhao! Comrade Yu has finally come to marry you. Don't be stubborn. Marry if you can. Don't talk about those who have something but don't have it."
"Yes, Zhaozhao, don't make trouble." Chen Dawang and others also advised.
"No matter whether you like it or not, isn't it necessary to get married if you want to get married now? If Comrade Yu is willing, then you can get married." Chen Simei said.
She couldn't understand how her little sister could reject such a good man like Yu Jinggui?
"Isn't this what you've been looking forward to?" Chen Sanmei asked back. She didn't understand what the little sister was causing.
Everyone in the Chen family didn't understand what she was doing.
"Zhaozhao, you really need to think clearly and don't be so petty." Chen Damei advised worriedly, "Don't cry with regret when the time comes."
Yu Jinggui just looked at Chen Zhaozhao quietly. He felt that what the Chen family said made sense and he felt very comfortable listening to it.
Everyone has advised you, so Chen Zhaozhao should just go down the ladder, right?
Chen Zhaozhao listened to the sincere words of consolation from his family members and looked at their faces full of helplessness and worry.
It seemed like she was taking advantage of Qiao and making trouble unreasonably.
She sighed helplessly, "Since ancient times, the most important thing in marriage between a man and a woman is that they should be well-matched. Comrade Yu and I are not from the same good family, so we are not suitable to be together."
"Zhaozhao, didn't you say that before?" Chen Simei asked as quickly as possible, looking at Chen Zhaozhao in disbelief.
She remembered that Chen Zhaozhao had previously commented that they were well matched, saying that in this new society, how could he have such pedantic ideas as in the feudal era?
She just wanted to marry Yu Jinggui and move to the city. She wanted to silence the people in the village and make everyone in the village envy her.
In the end, the person who despised this statement the most actually said this?
"Yes, Zhaozhao." Others in the Chen family also looked at her in surprise.
Chen Zhaozhao coughed lightly and said, "That was before, but my mind has changed now."
She had been in school before, and she liked to read story books with Jiang Yuzhi. Her favorite was the thwarted and vigorous love story between a fairy and a mortal.
He is pretentious, thinks of himself as noble, and thinks that he is a golden phoenix that wants to fly out of the mountains.
When she was young and frivolous, she didn't pay attention to being well-matched, and felt that love should not be based on family status. But after a lifetime, she felt that being well-matched was actually quite important.
The two sides are on the same level, with no original contradiction of one looking down on the other. They are in a world where the three views are consistent, and there is no original ideological opposition.
Although it does not mean that there will be no conflicts if you are well matched, it can reduce many conflicts.
Take her and Yu Jinggui as an example, she is a village girl and Yu Jinggui is from the provincial capital. In this era, this is the biggest conflict gap.
Moreover, Yu Jinggui was not an ordinary provincial capital person. He had status and background that ordinary people like her could not reach.
When she went to his home, she would not feel inferior now, but it would be difficult for her to integrate into their world. And from what he just said, it could be felt that his family did not like her and did not want him to marry her.
As long as dim sum was served, she would have already married into the family.
Even if we don't say that we are well-matched, we still need to have a foundation of love. With a foundation of love, regardless of family status, we must be good enough and have the same ideas as each other.
And these are things she and Yu Jinggui don't have.
In the past, she only thought that if she liked Yu Jinggui, she should be with him, and she could be with him. She didn't think about Yu Jinggui not liking her, let alone their families and surrounding environment.
She doesn't understand that marriage is not a matter of one person, let alone two people, but a matter of two families.
But now she understands.
She doesn't need a grand love, it doesn't matter if it's not accepted or blessed by one's family, she just wants a plain, warm and smooth love.
She knew that her family did not support and did not understand her thoughts. If she had not been reborn, she would not understand and disagree with such an approach.
After all, in this era and in her situation, marrying Yu Jinggui is the best and only choice.
"I know you don't understand, but I have my own ideas. This idea is not out of anger or impulsiveness, but the result of my careful consideration. So, don't persuade me anymore." Chen Zhaozhao solemnly told his family.
Then he turned to Yu Jinggui and said, "Comrade Yu, I'm very grateful to you for helping me out of trouble today. I'm very happy that you showed up, but let's just write off everything in the past, and let's go back to our original ways from now on."
"Zhao..." Liu Guihua and the rest of the Chen family looked at Chen Zhaozhao worriedly, wanting to persuade her again, but looking at her determined look, they knew that it would be useless to persuade her, so they could only sigh and stop talking.
Chen Zhaozhao has always been stubborn. Even ten cows can't get her back from whatever she decides.
Since she doesn't want to marry, then forget it.
Yu Jinggui looked deeply at Chen Zhaozhao, trying to see her hypocrisy, but seeing her clear and sincere eyes, he knew that what she said was true, and she was not just pretending to get something.
He pursed his lips and said, "Okay, I won't force you to marry if you don't want to, but if you regret it in the future, I won't give you another chance."
Chen Zhaozhao smiled, "Don't worry, I won't regret it."
When Yu Jing returned home and saw Chen Zhaozhao speaking firmly and frankly, he felt a little depressed. In fact, he originally wanted to say, if you regret it in the future, as long as I haven't married yet, I will still marry you, but the result changed as soon as he said it.
Look.
Yu Jinggui didn't know what was wrong with him, so he simply didn't think much about it. He looked at the little girl shrinking timidly in Liu Guihua's arms and thought of another question.
"Then Xiaoni is my daughter, I have to take her away."
"No." Chen Zhaozhao refused without thinking.
"Why not? I can give Xiaoni better conditions, and she should follow me."
Chen Zhaozhao did not expect that Yu Jinggui would compete with her for her daughter. She took a deep breath and said, "I gave birth to Xiaoni, and I will raise her after I gave birth to her."
"I am her father, and I have the responsibility to raise her. If you really care about her, you should know that it is best for me to raise her. I can give her the best in the provincial capital."
"I don't deny what you said, but I will do my best to give her the best. Although my current conditions are indeed a bit worse and may not be comparable to yours, they will definitely get better in the future."
Yu Jinggui frowned. He didn't want to hurt Chen Zhaozhao, but her conditions were not just a little worse, but too bad. It wasn't that it was impossible to compare, but that it couldn't be compared at all.
Chen Zhaozhao also understood this, but there were some things she couldn't say. No matter what, she would never let him take her daughter away.
When Yu Jinggui saw Chen Zhaozhao's resolute attitude, he turned to Chen Dawang and Liu Guihua, "Uncle, aunt, what do you think?"