Chapter 9 I Want To Raise Children Without Compromising
People in the village are spreading rumors that Yu Jinggui has status and background. Although they don't know exactly how he has status and background, they are sure that his family is very powerful.
Chen Dawang and others naturally knew about these rumors.
Chen Dawang's brows were furrowed and he was thinking silently, not knowing what to do.
Liu Guihua squeezed Chen Xiaoni out of her arms. To be honest, she couldn't bear it, but their conditions were definitely not comparable to Yu Jinggui. It would be best for Chen Xiaoni to follow Yu Jinggui to live in the provincial capital.
But she couldn't bear it. Zhao Zhao didn't want to marry Yu Jinggui. Once Xiao Ni left, they might never see each other again.
Xiaoni has been by her side since she was born, and her affection for her is even deeper than for her daughters.
Every time she hears Xiaoni call her "grandma", she feels happy and feels that all the bad things have disappeared.
But Xiaoni would have a very hard life following them, and she couldn't bear it.
And even though Zhaozhao said he won't get married, if one day he suddenly figures out that he wants to get married again, it will be much easier to get married without children.
Yu Jinggui saw their hesitation and said: "Uncle, aunt, I know you are reluctant to let go of Xiaoni. I just took Xiaoni to the provincial capital. I am not severing relations with you. You can visit her anytime you want."
I think you also hope that Xiaoni can have a better life and growth environment, right?"
Chen Dawang and Liu Guihua looked at each other, hesitant and wavering.
Chen Zhaozhao said: "Comrade Yu, please stop talking. I will never agree to it no matter what. If I don't agree, my parents won't agree either."
Yu Jinggui frowned in displeasure.
Chen Zhaozhao continued: "Xiao Ni has feelings for us, and we also have feelings for Xiao Ni, which you don't have."
Yu Jinggui said disapprovingly, "I am her father, how can I have no feelings? Besides, feelings can be cultivated."
"It's difficult." Chen Zhaozhao denied him directly, "Where are you going to take Xiaoni and raise her?"
"Where else could it be, of course it would be my home."
"Yes, you are at home, but you have to work."
"My mother is retired and she will take care of Xiaoni. Besides, I have an aunt at home who can take care of her, and it's not like I don't get off work. I will be good to her when she gets older and can go to kindergarten."
Having an aunt at home fully demonstrates Yu Jing Guijia's strength, which is someone they can only look up to.
There are kindergartens in the provincial capital, but not in the backward Lishan Village. Even in the town, there is no kindergarten, only preschool, which can only be attended by the age of six.
"However, your family will definitely not accept Xiaoni. Even if they reluctantly accept her, they will not like her. She will affect your marriage."
Yu Jinggui couldn't guarantee his parents' attitude, but he could guarantee himself, "I don't care. By the same token, she will have a greater influence on your marriage."
Chen Zhaozhao doesn't say she won't get married now. If she meets someone she likes in the future and wants to get married, it won't be a shame, she said.
"I don't care. If the person I want to marry cares about Xiaoni, I won't marry him. Besides, you said you would be good to Xiaoni, but it will be different when you get a wife and have children in the future."
In fact, Yu Jinggui had not married or had any children in her previous life, but who knows if that will change in this life, so let’s just say this for now.
"How could it be different?" Yu Jinggui became even more unhappy.
"They say that if you have a stepmother, you will have a stepfather. But I am different. Even if I get married, I gave birth to Xiaoni, and I will always be good to her. And I have to ask Xiaoni about this."
As Chen Zhaozhao spoke, he looked at Chen Xiaoni with a smile and said softly: "Xiaoni, this is dad. Would you rather go to the city with dad or stay here to live with grandma?"
She didn't talk to herself because now Xiaoni not only has no feelings for her but is also afraid of her. She has the deepest feelings for her grandma.
Because Xiaoni has been taken care of by her mother since she was born, it's not that she doesn't love Xiaoni, it's just that she has been immersed in extreme sadness.
Because of Yu Jinggui's broken promise and the hurt she suffered because of Xiaoni, she was under great mental pressure. Every time she saw Xiaoni, she would feel very sad, shed tears uncontrollably, and would lose her temper.
Therefore, she never got close to Xiao Ni, and her family tried their best not to let Xiao Ni get close to her when they saw her like this.
This resulted in a very estranged relationship with her, and Xiaoni would stay away from her every time she saw her.
It was not until later that times changed and her thoughts changed, but it was too late. She couldn't find Xiaoni. She didn't see her until she was dying. The last thing she said to her was, I
hate you.
After that, every time she dreamed about it in the middle of the night, she felt like a knife was cutting through her heart. She always thought that it would be great if she could start her life over again.
She has too many regrets. She has obviously never done any bad things, so why is her life full of misery?
Now God really heard her prayers and gave her a chance to come back.
She could make up for her past shortcomings, so why would she let Yu Jinggui take Xiaoni away?
Chen Xiaoni glanced at Chen Zhaozhao timidly, then glanced timidly and curiously at Yu Jinggui, and plunged into Liu Guihua's arms.
Her little hands grasped Liu Guihua's clothes tightly, as if she was afraid that grandma would lose her if she didn't hold on tightly, so she whispered softly: "I want grandma."
The two-and-a-half-year-old little guy can already speak a lot of words, understand a lot of words, and know how to express his needs.
"Yes." Chen Zhaozhao looked at Yu Jinggui with a satisfied smile, a little proud of victory, "We should respect Xiaoni's choice."
Yu Jinggui was stunned by her gentleness just now, but now she was stunned by her smile. She felt that such a lively Chen Zhaozhao was really nice.
Although I felt that her opinion of asking Chen Xiaoni was unreasonable, it did respect Chen Xiaoni's opinion, but she was still so young, so of course she would always follow and take care of her without asking.
Seeing Chen Zhaozhao's resolute attitude, Yu Jinggui decided to put the matter aside for the time being. Anyway, he would never let his daughter live and grow up in such difficult conditions. He had to find a way to persuade Chen Zhaozhao.
You can't rush this, you have to take your time.
So Yu Jinggui changed the topic, "Okay, let's not talk about this matter now and settle today's matter first. How do you want the two of them to compensate?"
Are you still not going to give up? Chen Zhaozhao is a little helpless. She didn't know that Yu Jinggui would be so persistent about her child.
Anyway, she won't compromise no matter what.
He wanted to leave it at that. Regarding compensation, Chen Zhaozhao said: "I don't need them to pay any compensation. Just compensate for the medical expenses. The doctor in the village will pay as much as he wants to cure the disease."
"Okay." Yu Jinggui responded, then remembered that she fell down the hillside and asked, "Are you okay?"
"It's okay." Chen Zhaozhao paused and added, "It's not too good. I have a headache now and aches all over my body. I used to hold my breath to argue with them, and now I hold my breath to tell you so much."
Yu Jinggui, "..."
Why didn't he see that she was in pain? Did she hide it too well? Isn't it true? If she hadn't looked pretty good, he wouldn't have told her so much.
However, he didn't go into details and stood up, "I'm sorry, I was negligent. Then you can rest and I'll leave first."
"Comrade Yu, why don't you leave after eating?" Liu Guihua politely asked her to stay.
"No, let's do it next time." Yu Jinggui politely refused and left.
Watching Yu Jinggui's figure disappear into the darkness, Chen Zhaozhao secretly breathed a sigh of relief. It was finally over. In fact, she was very nervous about Yu Jinggui opposite her.
There was a brief silence in the house, and then it suddenly became lively.