Three seconds after handing in the paper, the system displayed the scores of the two people:
Wen Jiu scored 94 points and failed.
Lu Jing scored 94 points and failed.
Warm reminder from the system: You two still need to continue learning about being parents. Please study again and reschedule the exam after two weeks.
Both of them were stunned, and then quickly went to see where they had gone wrong.
Wen Jiu got a simple question wrong: "When do you plan to have a baby?"
The answer given by Wen Jiu is: When I become an important person who shakes the company's half-assed income, when my career reaches its peak, when my deposits in the bank can generate hundreds of thousands a month in profits alone, I can consider it.
Had a baby.
The system judged this question as an incorrect answer and deducted six points.
Wen Jiu was deeply puzzled: "Is there a standard answer for when to have children? If I want to have children, it will definitely affect my career, so I think that when my career reaches the peak in my mind, I will retire and have children. Is this wrong?"
Lu Jing shook his head, also looking confused: "I don't understand where I went wrong."
Wen Jiu leaned over and took a look at his wrong question.
The question he answered incorrectly was: "Why do you want a child?"
Lu Jing's answer was: Because I love my wife and respect all her thoughts.
This question also deducted six points.
Wen Jiu didn't understand why this was judged wrong?
Mainstream theories on marriage believe that the relationship between husband and wife is greater than the relationship between parent and child. Isn’t this a good answer?
Both of them were quite unconvinced.
Until the system prompted them to leave quickly so as not to delay other newcomers' exams, they had no choice but to leave.
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Sitting back in the car, Lu Jing put his hands on the steering wheel in a daze, looking disappointed.
Wen Jiu was better than him. She comforted him while fastening her seat belt: "It's okay. Don't be sad. I'll ask my parents later and let them give us the standard answers. I will definitely pass the next exam. By the way, we will meet again tomorrow.
Go get a premarital check-up in advance, and it will go smoothly next time."
Lu Jing raised his head and looked at her expectantly: "Then are you willing to wait two weeks and retake the exam with me, and get your certificate before going on a business trip?"
Wen Jiu smiled helplessly: "Of course...it won't work. I've been here for a week. If I don't start the next live broadcast, I will lose my followers."
Lu Jing was even more disappointed.
Wen Jiu took his arm and shook it: "Don't get lost. I can't run away. I will marry you sooner or later. Just treat it as a good thing."
Lu Jing was not relieved at all: "But every time you go on a business trip, you will meet many outstanding people and have more chances of success. The last time you started a business, it was almost listed. I am really afraid that you will run away..."
Wen Jiu looked at him with a smile: "If I really want to run away, a marriage certificate can't hold me back."
One sentence scared away all Lu Jing's negative emotions.
For such a capable person, it would be useless to tie her up with anything.
You can only use your emotions to be the man behind her scenes.
Lu Jing said nervously and solemnly: "I will obey you in everything, you can't run away."
Wen Jiu was angry and wanted to laugh: "Are you stupid?"
Is it because she hasn't learned to be nice to him yet? Or hasn't she done enough?
Why are you still afraid of her running away now?
She came over and fastened his seat belt for him, urging him: "Hurry up and go home. You kept me awake all night last night and I'm so sleepy."
Lu Jing drove home immediately.
Wen Jiu originally wanted to tell her parents about getting married at home, but on the way, her parents took the initiative to call and ask.
As soon as the call was connected, Wen Hua asked anxiously: "Have you two obtained your certificates?"
Wen Jiu: "No, I didn't pass the parent qualification exam..."
Wen Hua: "What's wrong?"
Wen Jiu told her father the wrong answers she and Lu Jing had given.
After hearing this, Wen Hua couldn't stop laughing, and even called Yu Xia Zhi: "Wife, wife, they both laughed me to death. This can all be wrong, hahahaha..."
Wen Jiu: "..."
She thought her father was here to care about her, but now it turns out he really wasn’t here to take pleasure in her misfortune?
Yu Xia Zhi also laughed non-stop. After laughing enough, she comforted them both: "It's okay. This parent qualification certificate has standard answers. It's not difficult to take the test. You can just take the test again in two weeks."
Mom is still gentle and knows how to comfort me.
It was Wen Jiu who didn't understand: "Mom, there is a standard answer, why didn't you just say it?"
Yu Xia Zhi: "We don't know whether you want children or not, and it's really best for you to think about this matter yourself."
Wen Jiu: "Okay, what is the standard answer?"
Yu Xia Zhi: "Everything starts from the perspective of the child. When asked why you want a child, if you answer: I like children and think the children are cute...these answers are all correct. But it cannot be said that it is because I love my wife and husband. Then let me say
It doesn’t sound good, if something unexpected happens emotionally in the future and you no longer love me, you won’t want the child either?”
When Lu Jing heard this, he quickly added: "No! I will always love Xiaojiu, and there will be no accidents!"
Yu Xia Zhi laughed: "Okay, okay, but the person who asked the question doesn't know how much love you two have. It's not wrong to start from the perspective of a child."
She went on to explain: "When asked when you will have a child, you must also start from the child's perspective. You can answer: have a certain financial foundation, bear the child's expenses, adjust your body, prenatal and postnatal care... But you cannot plan your career
Write them all down, Xiaojiu."
Wen Hua also laughed and comforted them: "It doesn't matter. You two are just one point short of passing without preparing for anything. You are already very talented. Before your mother and I went to get the certificate, I asked my brother about being a parent.
There was still an exam to be taken, and I was so nervous that I memorized the obstetrics and gynecology knowledge points for half a month! Finally, I was able to pass the exam in one go."
Lu Jing was listening to the Wen family chatting while driving, and couldn't help but interject: "It's strange, why have we never heard of taking a test for marriage?"
Wen Hua: "That's because fewer young people are getting married now. None of your friends are getting married, and you don't pay attention to the news. Even fewer are having children."
Yu Xia Zhi: "Moreover, some things happen around us, but no one knows about it. For example, if you say a woman undergoes confinement, it's already the 23rd century. Some people think that confinement means a woman resting at home for a month and doing nothing.
, they don’t know it’s a woman’s discharge of bad dew for a month.”
Xiao Shi automatically linked to the explanation of the word "lochia": Lochia occurs after childbirth because after the fetus comes out of the uterus, the decidual membrane of the uterus will gradually fall off, and the blood and various necrotic membrane tissues will
It is discharged from the vaginal canal, which is called evil. It usually lasts between 4-6 weeks.
This is no scarier than being an aunt for a month!
Wen Jiu felt very sorry for her mother for a moment: "Oh my god, I studied physiology when I was in school, but the lessons were very simple, but I didn't even know I would be like this...Mom, thank you for your hard work."
Wen Hua also felt very distressed: "My wife, you have really worked hard for me. Thank you for giving me such a good daughter, Xiaojiu. No matter how good I am to you in this life, I will never be good enough."
Yu Xiazhi said softly: "It's not hard. For so many years, I haven't let me worry about my children. My husband makes money and does all the laundry and cooking. With you, I don't feel bitter in anything, it's all sweet."
Lu Jing listened silently to the family's conversation, feeling envious and a little sad at the same time.
I don’t know how his father answered those questions during the parent qualification exam?
Does he know all the suffering his wife has suffered? Can he respect his children as equals?
The more Lu Jing thought about it, the more uncomfortable he became.
He couldn't help but reach out and hold Wen Jiu's hand tightly, grasping the remaining warmth around him.
Wen Jiu raised her eyes and looked at him with a soft smile.
She spoke again and said to her parents: "Mom and dad, although I failed to get the certificate today, I have decided to marry Lu Jing. From now on, you must love him as much as you love me."
Wen Hua: "Looking at you like that, dad wants you to say it?"
Yu Xia Zhi: "Haha, Xiaojiu, you are not ashamed! Don't worry, you and Xiaolu are both your parents' darlings!"
Lu Jing's hand tightened.
His eyes were also a little sore.
After his mother left, there was no one like her who took care of the whole family to love him. -
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The author has something to say: That short sentence of popular science has been revised several times, but I don’t understand what can’t be said?