When Lin Dafa saw Yao Yuan, he was extremely happy.
Yao Yuan is definitely a famous person in Xihai Sugar Factory. The top scorer in the county college entrance examination this year would have been the material to be the county magistrate in ancient times.
It's a pity that Guangdong Province is at the forefront of reform and opening up. Many areas do not pay attention to education and are only focused on making money. If it were in Jiangsu Province, the number one scholar would be promoted as a celebrity in the county, even if he is the number one scholar in the county.
Xihai paid even less attention to education. After Yao Yuan took the first place in the county, the school paid a bonus of 500 yuan on behalf of the county education bureau and nothing happened.
The same goes for sugar factories.
Yao Zhenhua used the 500 yuan to set up a dozen tables, and he was very proud. The majority of employees were deeply impressed by Yao Yuan, envied and admired Yao Zhenhua and his wife for educating and cultivating a great talent.
That's all.
Lin Dafa had little friendship with Yao Zhenhua, but he was very familiar with his son's best friend Yao Yuan.
"Uncle Lin, are you feeling well?"
Yao Yuan strode over to say hello, took out a cigarette and stuffed it in, a full pack of soft Chinese.
Lin Dafa looked at it and was stunned for a moment, "Smoking such a good cigarette, Wang Chang said that you can sell the sugar in stock, is it true?"
"There are some ways, but it mainly depends on the determination of the factory."
Yao Yuan smiled and asked the three young men to unload the goods.
Lin Wei's mother, Wang Xianghong, walked out and was stunned when she saw the color TV, refrigerator, and washing machine being moved from the car, as if they were moving home.
Yao Yuan quickly greeted him and said, "Auntie, Ah Wei bought these for you. I specially called a car to bring them back today."
Without any explanation, they moved in quickly. Before Lin Dafa and Wang Xianghong could react, Yao Yuan said a few words and walked home. The three young men from the logistics company also jumped in the car and rumbled away.
"Dad, Mom, I bought two sets of clothes for each of you, and a coat for each of you." Lin Wei handed the two big bags to his mother.
Wang Xianghong started nagging after receiving it in her hand, "What clothes are you buying? Your dad and I have clothes to wear, and we still buy so much. How much does it cost? You are furloughed again, and your partner is nowhere to be found. You are spending money so lavishly, so
Why would it be nice if I wanted to go..."
Lin Dafa was also unhappy. He walked into the room, pointed at the color TV set, and said, "You don't even want to work anymore. Why don't you run out to do business? Are you a businessman? If you don't use it sparingly, what will you do with it?"
Object, how much do these things cost?”
If it had been in the past, Lin Wei would have held back with a stiff neck. When he thought of what Yao Yuan said in the car, he held back and walked into the house and said, "What's wrong with buying some clothes for the Chinese New Year? Color TV, color TV, washing machine, refrigerator."
It was issued by the employer."
"Is it issued by the work unit?" The old couple shared an expression of surprise and suspicion.
Lin Dafa suddenly came to his senses and said with a straight face, "The work unit issued these? Will the work unit issue these? There are thousands of them. What kind of unit issues color TVs! Did you do something bad outside?"
"What bad thing did I do? I did something bad if I didn't work in the sugar factory! It was issued by my employer! If you don't believe it, ask A Yuan. A Yuan runs a company outside, and I help him settle accounts. These year-end benefits." Lin Wei couldn't bear it.
Stopped and said, squeezing his neck.
Lin Dafa immediately became angry, frowning and said, "What company distributes color TVs! You are lying!"
Wang Xianghong helped, "Son, please return the things quickly. You don't dare to ask for such expensive things. I also took the clothes back. Your dad and I have clothes to wear."
After saying this, Lin Wei became even more angry, squeezing his neck and said, "If you don't want it, just throw it away!"
He walked away angrily.
Wang Xianghong chased him a few steps away, and Lin Dafa shouted from behind, "I can't even say a few words to you, I am your father!"
Lin Wei became even more angry and left without looking back.
A few neighbors passing by smiled at him, which made him feel even more embarrassed. He got back in the car angrily and drove off, not knowing where he was going. He drove around and around to the downstairs of Yao Yuan's house. The more he thought about it, the angrier he became.
I felt aggrieved and didn't dare to go to Yao Yuan's house, so I just sat in the car and smoked.
Lin Wei left in anger, and Lin Dafa and Wang Xianghong naturally quarreled. The latter blamed the former for scolding his son away, and the former blamed him for being too spoiled to his son...
Lin Wei envied other people's families more than once, and more than once he envied the happy scenes of families on TV. His son and daughter bought things for their parents, their parents were happy, and the family of three was happy. Every time he went home, he looked forward to the same scene.
However, things went against expectations. Every time I bought something to go home to honor my parents, I would first blame them for spending too much money, and then they would take turns educating me. This didn't work, and my filial piety was not reciprocated, and I would quarrel every time.
I said a few words to my son, but the son felt that his filial piety was being treated as a donkey, and he felt aggrieved. Then he became unhappy, talked back, and started to quarrel. The mother spoiled her son, but in different ways. She believed that it was for his own good to educate his son not to spend money indiscriminately.
In fact, my parents are also aggrieved. I am doing your best but you still talk back to me, turn around and leave after saying a few words to me, and show your face to me. This is unfilial!
A deplorable native family.
Yao Yuan stood in the corridor for a long time. He had known that Lin Wei was coming. From here, he could not only see the parking place, but even the door of Lin Wei's house. Many times they were shouting like this, dozens of meters apart.
Have a conversation and make an appointment where to go for a while.
What happened in the Lin family could not be hidden from Yao Yuan's eyes.
Unfortunately, I came back today. Lao Yao is working in the workshop, my mother has also gone back to work in the finance department, and there is no one at home.
Yao Yuan simply locked the door and went downstairs.
In fact, not only was there no one in his house, there was no one in other houses either. At this time, they were either working or sleeping. It was the busiest season, with three shifts, and most of the people living in the dormitory were young workers, not retired, which made them even more calm.
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Yao Yuan opened the door and got into the car. He looked at Lin Wei who was groaning and said, "Are you arguing again?"
Lin Wei expressed his bitterness and said angrily, "I knew it would be like this. Every time I buy something and go home, I say this and that. They don't believe me when I say that the home appliances are from the company. They ask me to take the clothes I bought back and return them!"
Yao Yuan sighed and said, "Can't you just say it clearly? Communication is very important, and the way of communication is even more important."
"I communicated with you. I said it nicely but didn't listen. When I came up, I just said this and that!" Lin Wei was furious.
I'm talking about Lin Wei's style.
He is polite and cautious to outsiders for fear of making others angry, and dares to talk back and quarrel with his parents when he returns home. The son thinks that doing this is filial to his parents, and the parents think that doing so is a waste of money. They both think it is good for the other party, and both are justified.
There is nothing wrong with either of them. What is wrong is that two completely different methods collided violently, resulting in conflicts that are almost irreconcilable.
"Ayuan, thank you." Lin Wei suddenly said.
Yao Yuan knew that he was referring to the matter of home appliances. As a son, he did not consider it, but his brother did it for him.
"Let's not talk about this." Yao Yuan handed out a cigarette, lit one himself and started smoking.
Yao Yuan also has the same troubles.
In my last life, when my parents were sick, they bought some medicine from the pharmacy and took it with them. They refused to go to the hospital for no other reason than to save some money. How do you feel as a son, but parents don’t care what you think, they think it’s for
This home is good, and it saves a lot.
The most impressive time was when my mother had a bad cold and was dragging her sick body to cook. Yao Yuan kept urging her to go to the hospital, but she refused to go. When eating dinner, Yao Yuan couldn't help it anymore. He threw the bowls and chopsticks and said angrily: "I will die."
go to hell!"
My parents were frightened, and my mother secretly went to the hospital to see a doctor while wiping away her tears.
Later, Yao Yuan's career improved and money was no longer an issue, but his parents were still like this. Without him, they had formed an inertial mindset.
Sad, deplorable.
After living for two lifetimes, Yao Yuan has clearly seen that everything is right and the communication method is wrong.
He didn't know how to tell Lin Wei that changing the tense relationship between family members, especially a situation unique to the family of origin, would not happen overnight.
But change is not as difficult as imagined. As long as one party is more patient and changes the communication method, it will definitely change over time.
"The bottom line is that they think about the problem from different angles. They feel sorry for you. They have worked so hard to earn some money and bought a bunch of things without keeping it. Even if they think you are filial, they will be dissatisfied. As for you, you think that honoring your parents will lead to great consequences.
It’s just a lesson, and you feel aggrieved and feel that your parents don’t understand you, which is normal. Try to think about it from another perspective, and it’s actually not wrong.”
Yao Yuan said a few words helplessly, saw a Santana driving over, patted Lin Wei on the shoulder and said, "Let's go to the office building."